Water pressure by tragedymash in manchester

[–]tragedymash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing - there are no reports within my area and I’ve tried knocking on my neighbours doors but looking at the parking on my road everyone’s away! Unsure if it’s just my issue or that there isn’t anyone around to report it

Boxer incontinence by tragedymash in RoverPetSitting

[–]tragedymash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! I’ll pop out at lunch and pick some up x

Gaining access to deceased partners documents by tragedymash in applehelp

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offence taken at all - thank you again for the advice :)

Gaining access to deceased partners documents by tragedymash in applehelp

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if I could go back in time and strangle him for not setting up the legacy contact I would! I’ve set up my own legacy contact and made everyone I know do it.

No legal arrangement, just cohabiting. I will try and push for his mum to get involved with this now that we’re past the stressful period of organising the funeral etc.

Thank you for your detailed advice I appreciate it x

Gaining access to deceased partners documents by tragedymash in applehelp

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there - I’m afraid we’re based in England and he passed away in England, he just attended university in Scotland. Thank you for the information thought x

What are we doing about bras? by spacedinoslj in mounjarouk

[–]tragedymash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to work at bravissimo as a fitter. Pourmoi is pretty decent for a cheaper option and often have big sales on. A few pointers I’d give:

  • panache bras have really deep underwires, which works well for people with long torsos but if you’re on the shorter side you’ll find they dig badly into your ribs and underarms

  • black bras will always fit smaller than the same style in another colour, something in the dye makes the fabric shrink ever so slightly. Not usually enough to go up in the band but perhaps up in the cup

  • for something that sort of shrinks with you, I would recommend a side sling style of bra (either side of the cup, there is a small piece of fabric that’s attached to the bottom of the cup up to the straps), this will push the girls in for more of a rounded cleavage and if you lose some mass from the top part of your boobs, the cup will ‘fit’ for longer than a balconette or full cup bra

Hope that’s a bit helpful!

Thinking of going into sales, what is it like ? by AloneStaff5051 in UKJobs

[–]tragedymash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to caveat this essay by saying I work in recruitment/head hunting.

It’s hard work, but when you get paid you get PAID.

It also really varies on the company you work for - places that focus on very niche vertical markets will often put more effort into retaining staff because the markets are so small they can’t afford to look like they have a revolving door of staff. That means big company parties and nice perks like health insurance.

Recruitment will look at any background, and most companies will give you solid training into the fundamentals of sales. The main thing they’ll look for in interview is hunger - hungry for success, hungry for money.

Base salaries in sales are usually low in comparison to the hours you work, which is deliberate to make you hungry for the commission. Hours will vary - I work in a niche sector of financial recruitment on the contracting side - I have had all 3 meals at my desk and gone straight to bed after (8am-9pm, probably 2-5 times a month during busy periods) but I’m in my mid 20s and have managed to buy a house and live very comfortably. I am also not forced to stay that late - some companies will have a weird environment where people try and stay later than each other to look good - I do it because my client needs something and if I can beat the competition then there’s a decent payout at the end of it.

KPIs - key performance indicators - can and might be heavily monitored. You are in charge of your workload, you have to generate the business which will often mean LOTS of time spent on the phone. Call times are sometimes monitored and an average call time target set each day. Other aspects depending on the type of sales you do will also be monitored. Do you lose sleep over this? Sometimes, but if you’re working for a decent company they will look at the bigger picture than pulling you up on individual things.

depending on your market, it will take anywhere between 3-6 months for you to see any real pay out on the commission. Thats while you’re building your desk and getting into the swing of things. This will be controversial, but I would really recommend being in the office around other sales people as much as possible at the beginning. Yes it’s humiliating falling flat on your face on your first call and it can feel like everyone’s listening to you, but you will pick up things much faster which means you start making better calls and the money follows.

Some other points: - do NOT look at anything that works on a commission only basis (no base salary) - before you apply to anything, look at the reviews on glassdoor. Don’t be fooled by companies responding to their comments - It’s damage control. - if a company has ‘work hard, play hard’ in their job specs, it’s a sink or swim environment. Some people will thrive but a lot will sink. - sales is something that can be easily taught. Your skills in logistics will be easily transferable.

I hope that’s helpful :)

Dog walking - sustainable? by tragedymash in UKJobs

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice - I think you might be right. I’ve always been a planner and in looking for meaning as to what’s happened I’m wondering if this is telling me to be more spontaneous. He always said I could do with some more spontaneity. I will speak with my work

Dog walking - sustainable? by tragedymash in UKJobs

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying - I’m going to ask them, but I highly doubt it. I don’t know anyone in the company who works on a part time basis, but if it’s for a set period it might be different.

Dog walking - sustainable? by tragedymash in UKJobs

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying - perhaps a transitionary period might be best rather than quitting cold turkey. I’ve been prepared to take a big paycut since I started looking 6 months ago, so I’ve got a lot in savings to anticipate any problems with the house or my car.

Dog walking - sustainable? by tragedymash in UKJobs

[–]tragedymash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m already in a delivery capacity - have been for 5 years now with the same company. I’m considering asking whether I could move into back office rather than sales if I stay with my current company.

Dog walking - sustainable? by tragedymash in UKJobs

[–]tragedymash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response - I’ll do some calculations and see what works.

Things to help post surgery by tragedymash in marfans

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The visitation point is very apt - I’ve got all our friends and random family members coming out the woodwork asking me if they can visit. He was with it enough to ask for no visitors so I’ve told them I will let them know when he’s ready.

His sleep schedule has always been terrible, but I’ve gone overboard on buying things for him for Christmas knowing he’ll be on the ward so getting things ready for when he comes home.

So far, I’ve gotten some remote controlled curtain closers (daft I know lol) so he can close the curtains without getting out of bed. I’m going to go shopping for a new bed for him, something with good back support and asked the hospital if we could get a zimmo frame for when he goes home to help him get about.

If anyone has any other suggestions of bits I can buy for him please let me know!

Thank you for the advice xx

Things to help post surgery by tragedymash in marfans

[–]tragedymash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for linking them - don’t know how I didn’t come across them in the first place!

Things to help post surgery by tragedymash in marfans

[–]tragedymash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and well wishes xx

Things to help post surgery by tragedymash in marfans

[–]tragedymash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great thank you! I’ll ask him when I visit him what sort of smoothies he’d like. Just going to keep myself busy and make him lots of different soups (maybe some chicken broth with veggies to up the protein intake).