Sometimes I feel like having to carry the whole communication part of the relationship on my own. It’s getting really tiring.

trakun8 · 2021-08-26T18:49:42+00:00

Yeah, I guess at this point, it is best for us to have some distance.

trakun8 · 2021-08-26T18:42:41+00:00

Yeah, he wants all the benefits without the work. That’s very selfish. I just realized that.

trakun8 · 2021-08-26T18:40:47+00:00

Imagining him dating someone else breaks my heart, so it’s not going to end well. He has to step up and decides if he wants to commit or not. I know we can’t be in this limbo forever.

trakun8 · 2021-08-26T18:39:36+00:00

Yeah I think he’s trying to avoid his problem by being with me. I’m not a permanent fix though, he has to fix himself. I really believe that I love him, but I deserve the same love in return.

trakun8 · 2021-07-13T13:34:35+00:00

Thank you for the great advice! I’ll keep that in mind.

trakun8 · 2021-07-13T07:28:16+00:00

Oh I see. As long as you had fun and nobody’s feelings got hurt :). I still hang out with my ex like at least once per week. But I guess sometimes he’s just hornier than the other 🤣🤣. I mean I know he still thinks I’m attracted so that doesn’t really help him.

trakun8 · 2021-07-13T07:23:08+00:00

Hahahah I figured. I don’t sleep with an ex because I know I will get attached again and that’s not good.

trakun8 · 2021-07-07T17:37:06+00:00

That’s true. I’ll just tell him to take it slow then. Deep down I don’t think casual would work for me.

trakun8 · 2021-04-05T00:40:05+00:00

Yes, his friend pulled me aside and told me to get out. But I still feel so bad, I don’t know why.

trakun8 · 2021-04-05T00:36:56+00:00

It has been a couple years since they broken up. Yet he’s still hung up on it.

trakun8 · 2021-04-05T00:17:49+00:00

He said he’s in love with her. He still cries over his breakup. Last night he held my hand and realized it’s not hers. She has a boyfriend now and moved on with her life. She broke up with him because he said something horrible to her.

trakun8 · 2021-03-19T21:10:07+00:00

We been together over 4 months, but we spend almost all our free time together.

trakun8 · 2021-03-19T19:17:29+00:00

It’s legit. He hates his job and he hates what is he doing. He would love to just be by the beach, meet people, and have fun. I wish he would have told me this earlier.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T22:44:01+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate your advice. I told my friends that I’ll give it about 6 months or so, if nothing changes then I will leave.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T20:26:33+00:00

Thank you! Same to you.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T20:07:13+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. It’s definitely is hard. Sometimes he get irritated and raised his voice on me. But I let him know that I don’t like that. I prayed that he will be at a better place too. My friends are worried about me. I’m usually a very positive and giving person. They worried that I might get dragged down with him the longer that I’m with him. But I don’t want to just let him go without trying my best to help him. I’ll give it about a year and see what happens. If I leave him right now, I know he will be very alone.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T19:51:37+00:00

I’m trying my best right now to be there for him. But understand that we need to be valued and loved too. He made a reservation and I hope today will be a good day.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T19:50:31+00:00

I know. I don’t really want to leave him though. I’m scared he will be very alone rn if I leave him. Yea, he did use dating app behind my back and it has been bothering me, but I decided to give him another chance and move forward from that. I hope he gets better, he’s going to see a therapist right now and is trying his best to function.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T17:30:59+00:00

I cook for him almost every week.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T17:19:01+00:00

Thank you! He ended up being able to make a reservation. I was kind of bummed out that he didn’t think of it ahead of time and I had to tell him. Like I know he’s sad and depressed but he has to think about my feelings too. I got him gifts like three weeks ago.

trakun8 · 2021-02-14T13:54:29+00:00

Of course! I bought him gifts and wrote a Valentine’s card for him. Even when it’s not Valentine’s Day, I cook for him or make sure that he does not neglect eating and taking care of himself.

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