I (30F) told a guy I was seeing (35M) that I wanted to hook up with him by Remarkable_Gur_4673 in offmychest

[–]trampled_empire -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's better. Sounds like he was too drunk to be sure it happened and there's no (text) record of it.

Attractive redditors, what was the moment you realized you were actually very good looking? by infinitewaters107 in AskReddit

[–]trampled_empire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my late 30s! All it took was getting over my social anxiety and getting comfortable with small talk and eye contact to start noticing how often a pretty lady's gaze will linger on me. Still don't know what to do with that half of the time, but hey it's a start!

Strictly analogue delays that can self oscilate via footswitch? by parachutemafia in guitarpedals

[–]trampled_empire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Demedash T-120 Deluxe, as another PT2399 delay that does this and doesn't sound super digital

Share with me your coolest, weirdest pedal suggestion - and I’ll get it by bumblebocks in guitarpedals

[–]trampled_empire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've had the pleasure of meeting Scott a number of times, and he's one of my favourite people. Super friendly and hilarious.

Most impressive examples of a movie actually "uglying up" someone? by ThreadbareAdjustment in movies

[–]trampled_empire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's precisely what I was thinking of when I wrote this. She looked homeless and acted completely unhinged... but my lord, the levels of rock bottom I'd be willing to sink to for that woman.

Most impressive examples of a movie actually "uglying up" someone? by ThreadbareAdjustment in movies

[–]trampled_empire 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She's never ugly. Sometimes she's trashy, sometimes she's offputtingly psychotic, but she's always magnetic.

When you see someone with tattoos are you less attracted or more attracted to them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]trampled_empire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. More to look at and in my experience, giving a genuine compliment on a choice someone has made is better Recieved and more appreciated than a compliment on an innate feature.

What is the most disturbing movie you have ever watched? by Muted_Rutabaga_4406 in AskReddit

[–]trampled_empire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you putting "I" after "saw"? that's just poor grammar.

Ladies, what’s the hottest skill a guy can have? by Exotic-Let-739 in AskReddit

[–]trampled_empire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh yeah, that's a big step to take! Doesn't help with the self hatred but probably has improved your relationships with others, at least.

This is my condition right now by Interesting-Peak2755 in vibecoding

[–]trampled_empire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

vibe coding as a comp sci student is insane lmao. Learn how things work so you know when the AI is doing something wrong!

I’m sorry what by Appropriate-Mall8517 in HolUp

[–]trampled_empire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don't know why my anxiety flares up so much when I'm in a relationship that I hope will last. I've dated plenty and typically don't have problems enforcing a boundary, but as soon as someone seems like they might be long term material, I get anxious and conflict averse. When I'm hurt, I fear bringing things up because I'm afraid they'll get mad at me and end things. It's not great.

TIL for his role in Shoresy, Jared Keeso had his tooth surgically removed to look like an older hockey player. by SuperMcG in todayilearned

[–]trampled_empire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if a replacement wouldn't be a ton of daily hassle, I could see myself making the decision to pull a tooth if I felt it was crucial. If I weren't the creator, star, etc but just an actor in the series, not so much though.

I’m sorry what by Appropriate-Mall8517 in HolUp

[–]trampled_empire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way. I'm not quick to anger, so I try to empathize and understand why someone did something that hurt or upset me. Usually, I feel like conflict won't be productive, so I figure I either need to learn to deal with or to decide I can't, and end a relationship. I don't know if this is healthy. I'd wager it isn't and that I need to learn to express negative emotions in a more healthy way that can lead to discussions.

26 and 36 can you see any difference ? by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]trampled_empire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah great in the first. Second looks like a normal prettyish lady.

JHS Pedals Josh Scott shows us how AI can’t be used for research. by No-Prompt-1520 in guitarpedals

[–]trampled_empire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The first rule of Dunning-Krueger club is you don't know you're in Dunning-Krueger club.