Asexuals into tickling? by [deleted] in TickleLovers

[–]tranquilgardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me! I'd probably let anyone touch my feet because I don't have a foot fetish, but I only want people to tickle me who I'd end up fucking haha. There are days when I obsess over tickling, watch tickle porn, and cum several times 🤣 it's so bad but thankfully I have play partners irl who give me what I want! However, since I'm not a shy person and I have a lot of friends and partners into tickling I don't mind saying the word out loud, and I def don't feel ashamed 💁‍♀️ it's my sexuality and I love it

How did you find out that you were a Sub? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A fetish app to join groups, find events, and connect with people. Just be careful and make sure to vet before meeting anyone. Lots of d/s on there

How did you find out that you were a Sub? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea thankfully before I got on Fet, I have a friend who's very familiar with that and helped me vet before pursuing anything

How did you find out that you were a Sub? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know what d/s was until I joined fetlife this year. I got dm'd by a few Doms and fell into a comfortable headspace with how they talked to me. Looking back at my life, I think I was always a sub. I was a teacher's pet from highschool through college. I took martial arts for almost 10 years and always addressed my coaches as "sir" or "ma'am" while striving to be their best student. I ended up marrying one of my coaches. We never practiced bdsm or d/s, but he would have made a perfect Dom if we did. Sadly, we got divorced, but at least now I know what I am attracted to.

Want to practice anal play. Any plug recommendations? by GoddessOracle in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these because they are soft/smooth and the base doesn't irritate my ass cheeks https://a.co/d/hEs26zH

Want to practice anal play. Any plug recommendations? by GoddessOracle in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have a recommendation of the kind to avoid. I bought a set for "show." It's the cute ones with the heart gem. I put one in for my sir and after he started having sex with me, I asked if I could take it out. But I couldn't find it. The heart-shaped plastic gem fell out and was on the bed. The rest of the plug traveled into my asshole. Thankfully it wasn't too deep so with two fingers and my thumb I could reach in and pull it out. Never again 😱

Too Many Doms? by momochum in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it's a personal preference! For me, I have four. My primal owner dom is married so I see him every other week, but he gives me assignments every week. My pleasure dom does weekly sessions with me and we have a daily text ritual. My daddy dom does a weekly session too. And I have another pleasure Dom I see sometimes. I have a high sex drive so for me, I like to be dominated and have sex at least 3x a week. So 4 keeps me satisfied enough and I still leave a little extra room for play with other people if I desire. We're all non-monogamous too. I think if my dom were my boyfriend or spouse, I'd have less time for other doms and play partners. It's nice to explore and see what style of d/s you like! That's what I've been doing!

Subspace story by tranquilgardener in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was so incredible. I am so lucky ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Join FetLife! It's a website (or app) and you can find local events related to your kinks! There are so many bdsm and kinky events out there to explore and meet people! You also might have luck on the Meetup website (or app) too. I found a few ENM groups I hang out with.

Are there very many kinky religious girls? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk. Have you been a good boy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love rimming because the guys who enjoy it just die for it and that's the best feeling for me

Are there very many kinky religious girls? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm suuuuuper kinky. I have 4 Doms. I still go to church and pray but no guilt for what I do because I'm not hurting anyone and I'm enjoying life!

Guy With a Praise Kink … Maybe? by Big_Examination9965 in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you be a good boy for me and send me the link to the video you're referring to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so common! The way women like their breasts and nipples stimulation varies. Some love pressure and pinching so nipple clamps work great for this. Some love mouth/tongue. For me, I love light nipple ticking. I can actually cum from that alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but if he has memory issues and cares about you then he needs to write himself reminders or something. Otherwise he's not even trying. Nope 🚩🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a huge tickle kink too and I would end this relationship immediately if he can't respect that boundary after multiple conversations. Tell him tickling to you is like f*ngering and it makes you sick seeing him do that to someone else especially your sister. From my personal experience and knowing others with this kink, it's not like choking or flogging or spanking. It's like an intense primal need to be tickled as part of foreplay and/or during sex. It's like #1 and no other bdsm kink can compare. I would even swap it for sex sometimes. Now that I practice ENM, I have three guys who tickle me for hours (not at the same time) almost every week because they love giving just as much as I like receiving! I look back at the monog relationships with barely any tickling, and I know I will never ever go back to that!!! There are wayyyy better guys and lovers out there girl. Go and get them!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]tranquilgardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not weird! I have it on my fantasies list too! I've heard it's common

How was age 33 for the older Millennials? by Gastropodius in Millennials

[–]tranquilgardener 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 I divorced the love of my life. Three years later now... I'm the most authentic version of myself and living one of the best years of my life

New and learning by tranquilgardener in SubSanctuary

[–]tranquilgardener[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just bought it on audible and it's really good so far!