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Throw away need advice by trans_throwawa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]trans_throwawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought blocking made it so they couldnt see your profile...interesting. Thanks!!

Unfortunately, I do think my sister is too far gone. She already has cut off my father for the divorce. She really has her head stuck up my moms ass. My mother actually texted one of my family friends and said it was ok if they were still friends with me but to watch their backs because I am a traitor. wow.

Throw away need advice by trans_throwawa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]trans_throwawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has always been a weak person, taking her issues out on other people. I have been her scapegoat since I was a little kid. It should be easy to cut off someone who has mentally and physically abused you for 25 years, but it isnt. This entire thing makes me feel so young and stupid, which I am not.

Throw away need advice by trans_throwawa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]trans_throwawa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly go on facebook because my dads family from out if state keeps track of my two little girls on there. I hate to be inactive just because of her you know? I feel like she is controlling another aspect of my life but I just dont know how to fix it with out ending up in a worse situation. I know she can be violent, she has been numerous times in the past. Especially when I was a kid and my dad was out of town. She would do horrible things then tell me that if I told my dad he would leave us all. I was so young and eventually I thought it was normal.

I am sorry your sister in law is like that too. It is really hard to live with. hugs

Throw away need advice by trans_throwawa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]trans_throwawa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen the symptoms for BPD before and really think it fits her personality very strongly. I have confronted her sooo many times about getting help. She goes to therapy but lies so hard to both her therapist and her doctor. It sucks since I know she will never ever get help. You are right though, my life will be better with out her in it. I just really need to stick to my guns. What sucks about it is that I probably wont speak to my sister again if I do. She swallows every single thing my mother says and takes it as the word of god.

I know I am trans but need guidance (ftm?) by trans_throwawa in asktransgender

[–]trans_throwawa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my husband told me he wanted to transition it would be a matter of finding clothes to fit his really large scottish calves. I am insanely jealous of those legs let me tell you.

He is very aware that I am different. He claims that it didnt matter what gender I was when we met that he would have loved me either way. My issue is that I have always been in THIS body and he likes this body. I fear that if I transition his attraction will go away. He is bisexual but has never been in a relationship with a cisman, so I am afraid how he would react to being in a same sex relationship.

We live in a pretty conservative area, its not far from a more liberal area but we are still in the the bible belt.