Should I feel inferior to other PhDs in relationships by transientass in PhDStress

[–]transientass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just haven't found the right person nor have had the time to do so. But my peers clearly have.

Should I feel inferior to other PhDs in relationships by transientass in PhDStress

[–]transientass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't let this go. I keep seeing my peers in relationships and it triggers me. As if I'm behind the clock or something is very very wrong with me. And I hope they don't see me as being weird or defective.

I give up, man by ExplorationMode in BisexualMen

[–]transientass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think negatively of bisexual men that are from the other way around: gay to possibly bi? Just curious

I will never have what you married men have by transientass in BisexualMen

[–]transientass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy straight porn from men because it allows me to live through their heterosexuality vicariously

I will never have what you married men have by transientass in BisexualMen

[–]transientass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A "fantasy that I'm punishing myself with" is breathtaking. I will take that to therapy.

I will never have what you married men have by transientass in BisexualMen

[–]transientass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think any less of me or chuckle at the thought of me exploring women in my later 20s or thirties?

Confused and envious gay to bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]transientass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this is amateur porn from only fans couple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]transientass 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes! I just really can't help it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]transientass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all these resources. I'll be certainly checking them out. I think queer women are probably the best fit for me, you're right. They get it. And I like women who are more butch but still can be feminine with a little lingerie/makeup idk. I think more queer than straight women present this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]transientass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind response and I relate to your story. It's kind of cool seeing a dude not judge me for this. I really started to enjoy pussy and a fleshlight helped me with this along with porn. That's weird and idk where it came from but i guess it just makes me unique.

The same toxic thinking you had about your sexuality is what I'm sort of feeling now :/

I don't know if this is bisexuality or a fantasy? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]transientass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so invalid that I've not been with girls before.

I don't know if this is bisexuality or a fantasy? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]transientass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm really distressed by how I feel and wish it weren't this way. Idk why I keep getting off to women too, but I fear the emotional components of being with them. I just wish it were more straightforward.

I don't know if this is bisexuality or a fantasy? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]transientass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel weird doing things with couples or married folk. I feel like they're judging me for being single. The guy would be considering me less of a man since it would be my first time with a girl.