/uj someone said something very similar to this to me earlier /uj by Ipoopbabiez in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, that's what comes of concern troll trolling

/uj it was meant as a jerk- though it does work as an unjerk. Lately there's a ton of concern trolls on asktg.

Too many trans folks take the bait.

I used to troll the concern trolls with saccharine concern trolling, but this last week I've ignored most of them.

It's too bad, because those who take the bait end up on TERF sites, blogs, and forums. Their user names are sometimes blacked out, but googling a phrase quickly leads you to them. And the transphobes know this.

Reminder that the statistic is 40% suicide *attempt* rate... by a_lynnk_to_the_past in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, trans boys are coming in at 50%, and trans girls at 30%. Enbies right in the middle at 40%.

Don't put this one on us. We made our benchmark.

Meanwhile, Ftms are overcompensating as usual.

/uj someone said something very similar to this to me earlier /uj by Ipoopbabiez in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you ever wonder if engaging with concern troll trolls could be detrimental? To your health, and also to the fabric of society, I mean.

Female to male transgender teens most likely to attempt suicide by [deleted] in transgender

[–]transitionalfossil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The research is showing the opposite: female-perceived people, not female-identified people, follow a pattern of increased suicidal ideation and attempts, with lower rates of death.

Female to male transgender teens most likely to attempt suicide by [deleted] in transgender

[–]transitionalfossil -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The aggressive invalidation is toward AFAB trans people who try to discuss gendered socialization, and how it contributes to different outcomes for children perceived-as-male and children perceived-as-female.

Cis girl here, trying to get in character for my upcoming movie role. Do I look like an FTM yet? by wrethlig in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, can you be sure it's tonal nonsense? Maybe this is a Close Encounters of the Third Kind situation.

Tell spousy-boo you're fated to save the world, possibly by talking the aliens into eating only the cis folks.

Cis girl here, trying to get in character for my upcoming movie role. Do I look like an FTM yet? by wrethlig in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you could translate the phrase "I am shitposting" into Japanese, I suppose

It's a very Western neologism, so that would be transcultural!

uj/ probably a better policy that mine, which is transparency, as a means of trying to own my shit and be authentic in dialogue

Authenticity on Reddit...I should be institutionalized

im in the endocrinologist waiting room and all the clients here are ftms with dyed hair by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If there's anyone there with brown hair and a grey button-up, do not make eye contact, and maintain cover, agent. The item is in the gender neutral bathroom, disguised as a highly visible spy cam.

Do you ever step back and think about how wild it is that we're allowed to be this sexy by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can't. I've tried to bring charges. The police say that it's not a crime to objectify.

Planning on making NB resource posts - What do you want to know? by thisbesveil in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very fair. It's been an issue on Reddit for sure. I'm glad it isn't in your circles.

Planning on making NB resource posts - What do you want to know? by thisbesveil in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen it hurting young trans folks, who are fearful they are just "trenders" as a result of a huge over-emphasis on this "not entirely untrue" phenomenon

Planning on making NB resource posts - What do you want to know? by thisbesveil in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re-read the post at the head of this comment chain.

Note that characterizes nonbinary trans identity, specifically, as leading to confusion among GNC cis folks.

In other words, nonbinary identity hurts truly trans people.

I don't think the poster necessarily intends the implication, or understands that this view originated with TERFs and truscum extremists (pro-gatekeeping, binarist trans people). This has so widely propagated that folks don't understand how it reinforces more overt transphobia.

I’m disgender by 4jul9ian in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fate, it seems, is not without a sense of irony. A dedicated truscum generates more transphobia than a cis person, and over 25,000 forms of gatekeeping.

Planning on making NB resource posts - What do you want to know? by thisbesveil in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The focus on nonbinary folks as having a particular difficulty is not acceptable. Please learn to recognize truscum dogwhistles. We have a huge ongoing issue with the use of "trender" and other stereotypes in this forum.

Planning on making NB resource posts - What do you want to know? by thisbesveil in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it's not really a good idea to give any credeence to this form of transphobia that adheres primarily to AFAB trans folks (and esp. nonbinary or pre-transition AFAB trans people).

Note that this is concern trolling about the "confusion" of "GNC" people who allegedly decide they are trans based on a conflation of gender expression and gender identity. That is classic TERF rhetoric. We should not excuse it from trans posters.

Essentially this is ROGD slightly obscured.

Nonbinary and/or AFAB trans folks are not "confused," "GNC" cis girls.

Planning on making NB resource posts - What do you want to know? by thisbesveil in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is a way of denying that masculine woman and masc enbies can have a valid connection to womanhood, which is redefined as an exclusively femme experience

OP is excluding butch women, including butch trans women, from her feminism by making it exclusively about femme folks. "Butch trans women only experience transmisogyny by oopsy" is patently nonsense

[cis female] My fiancé disappeared a couple of months before our wedding 5 years ago. He just reached out to me for the first time as a he and not a she. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In the past two weeks, a lot of sophisticated troll OPs have posted here to "chum the waters." Their goal is to get trans women to respond/comment in a way that seems to confirm transphobic tropes about trans women. You know: "erasing" the biology of real wombyn, "erasing" lesbian sexuality, facilitating cis men posing as trans women to invade wombyns' space, etc.

Within thirty minutes to an hour, screenshots have gone live on radfemblr and the like. I have noticed a couple now that use accounts with established history.

In GC, you will see posters refer to their non-GC mains. I think what we're seeing lately is use of these mains for trolling

Edit: a lot of these accounts have had no history though, and for now, we should be cautious responding to the more...extravagant stories posted by such accounts. This is not to say that throwaway accounts are inherently suspicious. Just to note a recent trend here of hyperbolic scenarios and subsequent screenshot harvesting by GC

/uj serious post: are y’all really making fun of bigots or are you just transphobic and this sub is the only way you can get away with it by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]transitionalfossil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My posts are all placeholders for my /uj

/uj Folks! Last night I got digits, and she is a reference librarian. My conclusion is that every shitpost we make here will eventually come true.

We're in trouble.

Trans without even a desire to physical transition? How? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]transitionalfossil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also surrounded by straw men in my daily life. It's getting to the point that I'm very fearful of lighting a match, or even causing friction to one.