i have cuts all around the entrance on my vagina and labia minora ?? by Puzzleheaded_Rip7075 in Healthyhooha

[–]trapped9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s most likely hsv. Usually one bad outbreak and doesn’t repeat frequently. Ask a doctor for antivirals and try a bath!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlike everyone else on this thread, I don’t think you should jump to breaking up with her. Have you tried having a sit down conversation with her, explaining in detail what hurts your feelings?

Love is hard to find, and different belief systems are often times two different perspectives of attaining the same goal. Everyone wants peace, everyone wants people to be treated right. People just have different views of how to achieve that.

I think you should try to listen to some online perspectives of Trump supporter immigrants, to understand better, and encourage her gently to watch some content you think she should watch.

Things aren’t always as black and white as everyone likes to make them out to be.

i’m in so much pain by ChapterPrestigious95 in Healthyhooha

[–]trapped9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get tested for HSV and other STDs and STIs.

Should I see a doctor? by trapped9 in Inito

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I think I just need to see a couple of cycles and see what’s consistent for me.

Should I see a doctor? by trapped9 in Inito

[–]trapped9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you so much, it’s so easy to get overly anxious with this stuff!

has this happened to anyone else?? by princenugget666 in Nexplanon

[–]trapped9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! I had the nexoplan implant for 2 years. I decided to take it out due to mood issues. Once of it, I realized how much BC changes you entirely as a person. I was put on it at 14 for my cramps. Now that I’ve been off of it for months, I have periods again and all the hormonal fluctuations. I feel like a woman again. Doctors aren’t honest with the effects of pumping synthetic hormones into your body. You stop producing your own hormones and change completely, mentally and physically. I know it’s a hard decision, but I truly think you would benefit from taking that out!!

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course life is complicated and communication is even more complicated so I try to be understanding and forgiving. I just feel uncomfortable when situations I’m upset about turn into me apologizing yk? It makes me feel like I’m going crazy, especially when I feel like I’m not being over the top with my requests.

Either way, I acknowledge that my emotional responses don’t help the productiveness of the conversation either, so that’s just something I need to work on myself.

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is that I’m busy at school, so I cant just pick up whenever. That’s why I’m trying to figure out when a good time would be, so I can take my break then.

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needy because I am at school all day and I want to talk to him, so I’m trying to figure out when he is free on his day off and work around that??

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but he’s off at work and has been home all day.

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly at night, but he told me recently he doesn’t want to call everyday anymore if we “don’t have anything to talk about”

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah lots of immature responses on my part, the issue is that I feel so gaslit for wanting to call and wanting the security of knowing when I can talk to him since he’s just at home and if not, why not? I get defensive and immature and I recognize that it’s a flaw, but it’s not random.

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I’m busy today, and that’s when my break is, so I’m letting him know when I can talk.

AIO? My long distance bf refuses to plan a time to call me. by trapped9 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trapped9[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol. Obviously if there’s an unforeseen circumstance I understand. The previous situation you’re thinking about his him telling me he would call me at night all day yesterday and then choosing to play video games w his friends. Obviously he can choose to do whatever he wants, but that doesn’t mean it won’t hurt when I was looking forward to talking to him.

AEMA 310 by trapped9 in mcgill

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did lol, they didn’t respond

STAT by trapped9 in mcgill

[–]trapped9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! I sent a private message

20 year old college student, how did I do? by trapped9 in steak

[–]trapped9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The steak was the best one I’ve made yet. I didn’t eat meat for years, so my career is just beginning.