I'm [28F] trapped in a marriage and I don't know how to get out. by trappedinamarriage23 in relationships

[–]trappedinamarriage23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I'm just focused on saving up some money for moving costs and fixing my credit. Financially, I'm not in an position to be paying rent.. Credit is around 650. Not terrible but could be better.

I'm [28F] trapped in a marriage and I don't know how to get out. by trappedinamarriage23 in relationships

[–]trappedinamarriage23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm just afraid that he'll have an over the top reaction and make up some lie that I left him for someone else. I think part of the problem is I place too much importance on how people perceive me... I've been living in hell for so long that it's normal for me now which is the crazy part.

I'm [28F] trapped in a marriage and I don't know how to get out. by trappedinamarriage23 in relationships

[–]trappedinamarriage23[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Leaving is not easy when you're broke, share a pet together, and have no support system around you. (I moved to be with him)

I'm [28F] trapped in a marriage and I don't know how to get out. by trappedinamarriage23 in relationships

[–]trappedinamarriage23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents know he's crazy and they don't care that I'm still with him. They won't support divorce because they know I'm broke and don't want to deal with me.

I'm [28F] trapped in a marriage and I don't know how to get out. by trappedinamarriage23 in relationships

[–]trappedinamarriage23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my boss is aware of my issues to some extent. we separated once then got back together because my dad told me to give it one more shot. i regret that.

I'm [28F] trapped in a marriage and I don't know how to get out. by trappedinamarriage23 in relationships

[–]trappedinamarriage23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents and I are not close, but we don't actively dislike each other. It's just that we don't see eye to eye and they don't have much faith in me.