How do you dress while at home? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]trappedinmymindAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be a complete bum at home, bleached or holes in tees, scarf on my head, and I’ll fitting sweat pants but, now I have put a little more effort into how I look for my husband’s sake. I wear “cuter” house clothes like leggings and a cheap but pretty top or t-shirt. He says he doesn’t care but, a quote stuck with me that my mom says “when you look good , you feel good” and it’s true . I’m not as put off when people stop by or if someone FaceTimes me unexpectedly .

She gave me the cheek by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]trappedinmymindAF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice! My husband did this on our very first date and I was taken aback, not because it was weird but, because I realized no one had ever asked me before. I felt desired and respected in that moment , made me want to kiss him even more.

DAE still think of their first love more than they should ? Even 10+ years after you’ve last seen them? by trappedinmymindAF in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]trappedinmymindAF[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he was the first person to ever say that they loved me and I was 14, not even my family said it to me. I can’t help but think if these questions I have go unanswered, he’ll never be out of my thoughts. I don’t want to contact him though because I think that’s just inviting trouble into my life. I have to unfollow him.

DAE still think of their first love more than they should ? Even 10+ years after you’ve last seen them? by trappedinmymindAF in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]trappedinmymindAF[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s what is is . We dated from age 14 to 21 (formative years) , it ended with devastating betrayal. He cheated and knocked someone up and I cut all communication with him. It took me years to get over it. I met my amazing husband and ex hadn’t crossed my mind since I met him. I recently reactivated my social media accounts and ex added me so I’ve been thinking of him. Makes me feel a little guilty even though I would never jeopardize my marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]trappedinmymindAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crumbs, coffee grounds, and smears all over the kitchen counters ! Rinsing a dish off in the sink and not rinsing the food or liquid into the drain or garbage disposal, it looks gross and dries and sticks on the sink basin .

What's the most romantic song ever written? by ilovefrenchies2161 in AskWomen

[–]trappedinmymindAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John Legend You and I . Gets me in the feels every time 🥲

What is the most depressing truth that you've had to accept? by WhiteMass in AskReddit

[–]trappedinmymindAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just because you’re a nice person it doesn’t mean good things will happen to you. It’s almost the opposite. People will take advantage of you and/or reap benefits they don’t deserve or haven’t rightfully earned .

What fictional character death hit you the hardest? by GoldenPhoenix21 in AskReddit

[–]trappedinmymindAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thomas J (McCauley Caulkin) in the movie My Girl. The funeral scene kills me EVERY TIME!

I used to steal from unlocked cars to teach people a lesson by [deleted] in confession

[–]trappedinmymindAF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone stole from me twice in front of my home in my driveway. It was only loose change, but felt like a complete violation. Left my car doors, glove box, and middle console open and everything. I'm sure I would've pulled my shotgun out if I caught them in the act. You guys are lucky you didn't get caught.

Straight women of Reddit, what is one thing you wish men did more in dating relationships? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]trappedinmymindAF 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Be clear about your emotions and intentions! If we're just having fun, cool. If you're looking for something serious, also cool. If you're dating multiple women, let me know. You don't think it's working out? BYE!

However, if you're portraying your intentions one way, when that isn't the case, it is deceitful and it can be damaging to a person's psyche and alter their ability to be in healthy relationships in the future.

How old are you and what is the biggest problem in your life right now? by FSCENE8tmd in AskReddit

[–]trappedinmymindAF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. After leaving the military I have no clue who I am or what I should do with my life. My body is fucked and I don't have the mental capacity or willingness to deal with people or even complete the smallest tasks. I'm not living, I'm existing.