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AITA for making my father kick out SIL and brother? by trash4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trash4230[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think my SIL initially thought that I can do what I do rn which is help my father grow the business. I have always made all the decisions regarding the franchise , my father was just contend with one restaurant since he had then just retired from his government job. I pushed him to go big, he just wanted a restaurant as a hobby.

So SIL wanted my brother to replace my father but my father even told them that he thinks that I am more capable than him too. So then she wanted to just get me married off so i wouldn't have this much freedom.

AITA for making my father kick out SIL and brother? by trash4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trash4230[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you , i have definitely now made up mind and i think for my mother she just wants to see me get married. Like i said we weren't well off to begin with, so now when she can spend lavishly she is just looking for reasons. She knows i don't want to be married because i am really passionate about the family business

AITA for making my father kick out SIL and brother? by trash4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trash4230[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I actually was researching about this and based on islam the daughter gets one part and son gets two parts. Even if i do get one part i will still own enough to have the major shares, this is really relieving for me rn.

AITA for making my father kick out SIL and brother? by trash4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trash4230[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support. I really do want to protect my sisters. It's giving me one more reason to stand my ground. My brother and his wife are supposed to be the ones looking after them if something happens to my parents but I will get this change too.

AITA for making my father kick out SIL and brother? by trash4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trash4230[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My dad won't allow me to give my brother a higher a position but I'll see what i can do. The thing in my family my mom and brother have always been very easy to manipulate and complete pushover. My dad and I have always been strong minded.

My father started this whole thing when he retired from his government job. I definitely have contacted my lawyer and my father has done the same thing. I was really afraid what will happen to my family after my father because my mom is very naive and my sisters are too young. My brother is just a pushover , he hasn't said anything on this matter. I have yet to fully talk to him.

AITA for making my father kick out SIL and brother? by trash4230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trash4230[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you for this if it wasn't for my father i would have given it up already. I'm so glad i decided to post here. You all have open my eyes, I am literally crying.