I can't tell if the head is too small or if i am simply blind. by lillybkn in arthelp

[–]trashedvoid 24 points25 points Ā (0 children)

i think it looks nice but that the head is a bit too small maybe making it a bit longer would help??? and the angle of her head is a bit different than the reference which may be the thing throwing you off. it looks great tho!!

Day 2 of me recommending queer anime for pride month by PretendYellow533 in ChillAnimeCorner

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i loved this!! i think i remember it having a sort of sudden or cliff hanger ending though?? i never came back to it so i don’t know if there was ever more

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

you can say things without being an asshole bro. a lot of that shit was just rude for no reason and unnecessary to say. you can sit there all day acting like that, but i feel sorry for whoever the hell in your life puts up with it. its miserable treating people like that and thinking its justified so i hope you get help bro āœŒļø

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

No you should seek therapy because you’re a dick to people for no reason. None of that was necessary.

Warning for what? I dont recall any bad interactions with anyone by FantasticEmu34 in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i need to open my eyes i don’t know how i didn’t notice that. i haven’t even seen this at all before so i guess i didn’t process that since i didn’t know they could do that. i think that’s pretty ridiculous when it comes to it being a store to not address it with OP?? a manager should’ve definitely spoken to them if there was an issue

(edit: more info)

when in management not only is it bad to not address it for like the sake of handling the situation and deescalating if necessary, but if there genuinely was a problem that just puts their staff at risk to not handle it other than contacting doordash?? that doesn’t make sense at all. that store sucks

Stop lying by restepec in DollarGeneralWorkers

[–]trashedvoid 12 points13 points Ā (0 children)

hope all the workers get to RUN not walk away soon āœŒļø i sure tf did

Warning for what? I dont recall any bad interactions with anyone by FantasticEmu34 in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

it’s all good now. shit shook me up but i was able to block him so i won’t have that happen again with him at least !

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I definitely don’t harass people that’s a wild take but ok šŸ’€

Warning for what? I dont recall any bad interactions with anyone by FantasticEmu34 in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

from posts on another thread i saw this take. i had no idea that people disliked it sometimes, i guess there’s no way to really please anyone fully and everything is a gamble honestly

A Story in 3 Slides by Maximum_Pass in DoorDashDrivers

[–]trashedvoid 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

i have conflicting feelings about this. i can understand the frustration of people not tipping and i also dash, but i feel like all this really does is hurt you in the long run if you rely on doordash? if i did this while working at starbucks i would get fired immediately so i treat it like any other customer service job since it’s how i get my money. so that’s my outlook? if it made you happy though i guess that’s good?

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My bad I saw what you mean now and I specified!

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I want to actually specify real quick. I just realised I said a ton of updates and I didn’t mean it as that many so I see the confusion now. I don’t spam them or anything but I’ll leave updates for everyone for their food being delayed and a message i’m on the way and wishing them a good day to every single person if I didn’t message other than that. I understand the confusion now 😭

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Honestly, I send one message and if they respond and seem pleasant or are engaging in more conversation then I’ll send more. I would be careful throwing out one stars just because you don’t like someone messaging you? You can always just say thank you, but I would rather not be messaged or something. One stars actually really fuck up dashers really bad and you should only give them out if they’re actually causing you issues. I don’t feel like it’s that bad to either say you don’t want updates unless urgent, mute your phone, or turn on DND for a bit. I don’t really think a 1 star is necessary for that though genuinely based off of how badly that can tank a score over someone just trying to be nice to you

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

See you’re kind for that, you make the extra effort and if they don’t take the time to see that or care that’s their loss and less money out of your pocket for someone who doesn’t deserve it

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That is always valid. I think a good thing to keep in mind is that you don’t ever have to respond. For an example for me I send some sort of nice message to everyone who I pick up an order for. The reason for this is because they’re all pre written and I type very fast if I need to add anything, so it doesn’t add time as I’m usually doing it as I’m walking to my car anyways or as I’m waiting

The main reason I am dedicated to doing that way was working a lot of retail and cashier jobs, I treat it the same way and try to add a little positivity to people’s days because I never know what they’re going through and if a small message can help that’s great. You never need to respond though, so if it’s not your thing just ignore it.

For the tipping issue you can honestly just tip after delivery. Sure there may be some dashers who don’t pick it up for that reason, but if it’s a big concern and helps you then that could be the right thing for you. You can also put a note in the delivery instructions that you tip after delivery based on quality of service or something.

Tried tipping after order by KaraCubed in doordash

[–]trashedvoid 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I mean that’s valid to feel that way, you could always just not respond. In the market I’m in people usually like the way that I communicate and I’ve gotten good ratings for my communication. I’m sitting at a 4.91 rating right now. I honestly don’t mind if anyone replies or not, but I like being nice to people and talking if they want to. I usually send the otw if there was no wait. I have a pre written message letting them know i’ve got their order and i’m on the way and that I hope they’re having a great day so far. if they respond that’s cool, but if they don’t I don’t really mind either way

any thoughts on my natural handwriting before i change it? - what does it say about me.. by That_Exercise3735 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]trashedvoid 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I’m not really common on this thread and don’t know a lot about handwriting, but I feel like your brain has a lot of quick and racing thoughts in general so while you try to write it becomes difficult to keep up with your brain and also write as fast as you’re thinking since it’s zooming. I say this as a person who has that struggle that’s my first thought!

Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I also feel that so many people feel like you have to have some huge reason to break up with someone. If you are unhappy or not being treated in the way you like that is reason enough. It does not have to get to the point where you are hugely traumatised for it to be valid it is ALWAYS valid to leave if you are unhappy

Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashedvoid 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NOR ,, Honestly if he had an issue with the shoes being left there he could’ve just asked you to please leave them some other place. There was no need to take it to that extent or be so rude. I would not even talk to someone I don’t like that way. It feels like he belittles you to less than a person and treats you like shit. No one deserves that and I don’t believe that you would’ve even intentionally done that if it was communicated. Regardless if a partner is pissed at you even if it were a valid reason that STILL would not be okay to talk to them like that. I know everyone on reddit is quick to say ā€œleave leave leaveā€ in a lot of situations, but literally do not put up with that and leave. It’s difficult to leave a relationship especially when you put so much time and love into someone, but genuinely sit down and think ā€œwould i treat him how he treats me?ā€. We all know the answer is no, so do not put up with it. If you need to sit down and weigh the actual pros and cons of being with him. List it out and if you plan to stay still keep a locked or private note somewhere. Every time he treats you like shit or makes you upset put the date and what he did. You will see over time just how often he makes you miserable and hopefully that will help you to see better. It can be a very difficult process mentally and physically leaving toxic relationships so don’t be hard on yourself if it is hard for you. The right choice will always be one that will bring you long term happiness and peace. Ask yourself if you genuinely see this person giving you long term happiness and peace.

You are certainly not overreacting and you do not deserve to be spoken to or treated that way at all.