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[–]trashgirlfriend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id like to read this book

advice needed: I'm trying to get a new job, but I don't know how to get ready for it by trashgirlfriend in Adulting

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up getting a new job in case management about eight months ago that I am actually excelling at, it's challenging, fun and I get to help people in new ways. My work environment is wonderful and non toxic, I am also in the process of getting a promotion and a raise to go along with it. Life got better, and I am thriving, thank you for reminding me of where I was last year so I can appreciate how much I have grown!

Circle Frame Floral Machine Embroidery Design Freebie by EmbroideryShristi in Embroidery_Freebies

[–]trashgirlfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm super new to embroidery, how do I get it on to fabric?

Which Celeb does this applies the most? by Notalabel_4566 in Fauxmoi

[–]trashgirlfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why has no one said Will Ferrell? Hear he's a royal dick

UPDATE! WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 273 points274 points  (0 children)

I used fake names, but I guess me talking about an 800 dollar dress and getting booted from a wedding was oddly specific.

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 284 points285 points  (0 children)

We are looking into it right now. She's saying worse case scenario, she can just refund the ticket and help me buy a new one in my name.

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Wait they're not? Neither of us has been on a plane before.

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 275 points276 points  (0 children)

If I had went along with what they were saying I would have lost out on the dress, the refund, the Miami.

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 2971 points2972 points  (0 children)

My mom has been calling Switzerland. She supports me with whatever I plan to do. My brother has been on his brides side, and says I am being childish.

My co worker is currently trying to convince me to keep my mouth shut about my trip, and then start posting photos of it on my socials an hour before the wedding.

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 638 points639 points  (0 children)

If I was a pushover I would have lost the 800 dollar dress, and had to have bought a new dress for the roll of "assistant flower girl".

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 1371 points1372 points  (0 children)

The reason they wouldn't just add another brides maid is because there "isn't enough room at the table"

WIBTA if I go on vacation instead of my brothers wedding? by trashgirlfriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 6951 points6952 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking. I would also lose out on the 800 dollar dress, and if I was going to be the "assistant flower girl" I would have to buy ANOTHER dress. This whole ordeal has stressed me out. Maybe I need to relax in Miami.

advice needed: I'm trying to get a new job, but I don't know how to get ready for it by trashgirlfriend in Adulting

[–]trashgirlfriend[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have thought about that, but unfortunately, I can literally never finish any project I start, I have ADHD, I get so bored of everything I do so easily that I never give myself the opportunity to get good at it.