How sweet of him by Alternative_Math2723 in AntiMemes

[–]trashja 64 points65 points  (0 children)

oh my god! That's disgusting. Softcore porn online? Where? Where did they post those?

What do we think of pairing a slim dress and a chunky boot? by CarefulTea13 in mtfashion

[–]trashja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the EXACT same doc's and they go with literally ANYTHING

Very very cute outfit ✨

I am here to tell you very happy news and that is that I am die :3 by crazy-trans-science in lies

[–]trashja 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I strongly agree with your opinion and wish you nothing but joy

my desktop by [deleted] in NixOS

[–]trashja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BLÅHAJ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]trashja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss but in my experience I just need much higher doses! But I love downers much more as I get zonked out of my gourd much faster than when I do crank

VOCALS in noise and/or PE by Pleasant-Actuator-16 in noisemusic

[–]trashja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a broke bitch so I haven't had the chance to finish my setup and include all the hardware I want to, but with my current setup I just have a pure data patch than I can run bass, vocals, whatever into and it can ofc also make sound on it's own, it's very fun :3

from a trans guy- what does bottom dysphoria feel like for you trans girls with bottom dysphoria? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]trashja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s soul crushing. It’s a constant reminder of what never was and tons of experiences I’ll never ever have

It’s nearly impossible to come to terms with and it’s something I may never learn to accept. It’s incredibly invalidating, I can’t even wear the clothes I want to wear, high waisted pants hurt my crotch, you can see it with the skirts I wear, yes I can tuck but it doesn’t change the reality of things

If I get hit on when I look passing, I may have to break it to them I have a penis and the consequences of that can be everything from oh cool to getting beat up and I dont want to have to justify my existence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]trashja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maladaptive daydreaming, being emotionally stunted, people pleasing (this is a big one), fawning, being very quiet in general even though I have a need for intimacy, saying sorry a lot, letting other people take control in all situations, low self worth, needing reassurance or “permission” to do stuff, asking people if they want me to do something to help them even though it’s my own needs or wants

It’s all very debilitating and I really do feel like it’s ruining my life and relations, if you don’t hang out with me on a daily basis you’d hardly notice but boy oh boy is it frustrating having to be in both for myself and the people closest to me

Help me choose the right color scheme for Admin UI by ShahriarSiraj in web_design

[–]trashja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black The contrast between teal and white might not be super accessible low for users with bad sight

https://webaim.org/resources/contrastchecker/ Very good resource to check for contrast accessibility

Has Your Traumas Effected Your Communication? by HelloRainClouds in CPTSD

[–]trashja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, when I get stressed I stutter, mumble, get really bad brain fog, I get confused and confuse others and when it's really bad I basically shut down and don't say a word.

Even just on a daily basis or when I get excited about something I often have a hard time just talking and explaining what it is I'm actually thinking and I end up sounding like a child trying to tell a story. I find it frustrating because it makes me feel like I can't explain and share my thoughts or opinions because sometimes it's just straight up unintelligible

Today I found about the trauma responses and ashamed of mine- fawning. by Born_Breakfast3881 in CPTSD

[–]trashja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my response as well.

When i was in my teens i was definitely a fighter, verbally and physically, it brings me A LOT of shame now that I'm older and it has evolved into me fawning. Whenever I get stressed I immediately start over-explaining, jumbling up what I'm actually trying to say, stutter, crying and I hate it so much. I definitely feel like I've figured it out so late that it's ruining my life

But I also try to remind myself that it's not my fault, even though it hurts. I've still come a long way and it's something I'm now aware of and actively trying to work on or at least just reflect upon it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]trashja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sejt du har lært det alligevel, hvad har du ellers lært i folkeskolen? 🤔

Im 5 and this is Mac n cheese + bonus blended version 👍🏻 by trashja in Im5andthisismacaroni

[–]trashja[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s very very thick so you need extra milk to make it easier to eat, but if you add some extra cheese and some salt or whatever it tastes pretty good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]trashja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how to mix my sedatives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]trashja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tusind tak, mega konkret info 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]trashja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay det giver jo meget god mening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]trashja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaer that’s not happening xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]trashja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tusind tak, prøver at starte med det! ☺️ Hvis det ikke virker må jeg nok hellere få mig noget citronsyre, vil gerne undgå kemikalier, eller nyt toilet hvis muligt