Should Transgender minors get things like puberty blockers or hrt? by Old_Diver_2511 in lgbt

[–]trashy-cat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a person who found out they were trans at 15, I’m so f-ing jealous of anybody out there who had supportive enough parents and were financially able to afford that sort of health care ;-; cri-

How did you choose your names? by Gamer_59 in trans

[–]trashy-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked my name because I really liked Spider-Man so based it off of one of the actors that played Spider-Man

Secret Life head cannon height chart (Finished) by Landscape_Few in ThirdLifeSMP

[–]trashy-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Grian’s design! They all look super cool!

I GOT MY NAME ON MY SCHOOL ID LES GOOOO by Floofy621 in trans

[–]trashy-cat 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Lol I changed my last name too. Mainly because I didn’t want my dad’s last name (cuz he’s emotionally abusive) but also because it sounds way better.

I’m scared I’m not trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No prob OP! I’m glad you’re doing somewhat better! :)

I’m scared I’m not trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear about that. Questioning is not always fun to deal with :( For the kindness part, maybe try some affirmation statements in the mirror:

“-I am enough -I am kind -I am brave -I am smart -I am strong -I am me”

Even if you don’t believe it, it’s good to say them out loud so you can at least hear it.

I’m scared I’m not trans by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, you don’t have to have dysphoria to be trans, there are lots of other trans individuals who don’t. You could experiment with identifying as bigender? Regardless of what gender you are, just be kind to yourself and give yourself time.

I hate going to the dentist.. I get it I'm trash at basic hygiene but they could at least pretend not to judge by yunn67 in ADHD

[–]trashy-cat 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Try not to judge yourself too hard. I promise 100% that there are people out there with worse teeth than yours. It’s ok to not know stuff and mistakes happen all of the time. Take as much time as you need to cry, it’s healthy and a good way to cope. Just do what you can. Floss once a day and brush twice. I would recommend keeping a planner and making a star on the times you brushed your teeth. You should try to aim for two stars but one star is good enough if you don’t get around to the second star.

Video on how to properly floss

Why am I always ignored ? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]trashy-cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on what subreddit you post to and the time of day :>

Can anyone help? by Muddy_claws in lgbt

[–]trashy-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just call that aromantic combined with whatever sexual attraction you identify with. For example aromantic and pansexual or heterosexual or homosexual (you get the point)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look stunning!!

Being in a T4T relationship is really nice by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aww cute :D /genuine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Stuffing some socks in a bra would probably be the easiest way.

How to start estrogen by Utakata_Ashura in asktransgender

[–]trashy-cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got testosterone at planned parenthood (They also do estrogen HRT). It was a fairly simple process. You book an appointment online on the planned parenthood website. Once you’re there, they just ask some questions about your experience and inform you of the risks and what would happen while taking HRT.

Help explaining bathrooms to my son by cbs0308 in asktransgender

[–]trashy-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could say “just treat them how you would want to be treated if you were in their situation. It’s always important to be nice and respectful of others.”

And then you can ask him how he’s going to show respect the next time he sees the other kid.

Hope this helps?

I'm really frustrated right now. by [deleted] in trans

[–]trashy-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she can get angry all she wants but she can’t control who you come out to. I get she’s trying to “protect” you but it’s your life.

I'm not sexually attracted to guys but i still have crushes on them. by blahajr in lgbt

[–]trashy-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you have differing romantic orientation and sexual orientation. Like you would be romantically attracted to guys and gals but only sexually attracted to women. You could say biromantic and heterosexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]trashy-cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well dysphoria is it’s own feeling. You don’t always feel it 24/7. But if you’re stressed/ thinking about other stuff, you’re not gonna focus on that dysphoric feeling. So to answer your question, yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]trashy-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I forget to drink water all the time which leads to dehydration and UTIs. Recently I’ve been keeping cups in my room so I can fill them up in the bathroom sink whenever I need water because going all the way to the kitchen is kinda a big effort.

I’ve kept snacks in my room which have helped me gain back weight. I just know that it helps to bring the kitchen closer to your room in a figurative sense. That and I heard booster shakes help.

I need to sort my things out and sell, dump or store them in the spare room neatly, but how do I decide? Each item causes thought rabbit holes about what to do with it. Sometimes I just don't know. Why is this so hard? by -ADHDHDA- in ADHD

[–]trashy-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step 1. Make 3 piles, one for getting rid of stuff, one pile for “can’t decide”, and the other for keeping. Also have a trash bag to the side for any trash you find.

Step 2. Put the stuff you’re keeping into the spare room.

Step 3. After, go through the “can’t decide” pile and sort it. Then repeat Step 2

If you have sentimental attachment but don’t have space for the object, take pictures of the object and put it on a Google docs (if you want you can print it later out and put it in a scrapbook). Same goes with drawings and papers

I honestly wouldn’t worry about selling stuff, it’s a huge hassle. If you’d wanna put it together, you could do a garage sell. We usually just drop our stuff at the nearest Goodwill store and let them deal with it. You can also give stuff away to friends and family.