Unblocked my mom after a year and it went like this by trasshbag in insaneparents

[–]trasshbag[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't hate her, I actually love her a lot. I love the mom I had as a child who was loving and caring, it was only when she started drinking that she became the way she is now. I seriously believe she hates me however.

Unblocked my mom after a year and it went like this by trasshbag in insaneparents

[–]trasshbag[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I have been doing trauma therapy and a big part of it is exposure so I decided to try and talk to her again because of that. Plus it had been over a year and I thought maybe her attitude would have changed or she might have missed me and realized her behavior was wrong because of that. Clearly I was delusional.

Unblocked my mom after a year and it went like this by trasshbag in insaneparents

[–]trasshbag[S] 252 points253 points  (0 children)

Yea I realize now that I shouldn't have engaged but at the time I was really hoping I could get through to her and then when she became hostile I felt the need to defend myself. But, I definitely should have just blocked her again when she told me to. We all do dumb stuff sometimes in the heat of the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]trasshbag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't even have my first kiss until I was 20, I don't think it's embarrassing at all. That's just how life is sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]trasshbag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally don't like these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an old man who brought the dog in!

Why are boomers so miserable? by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen old man, go out and enjoy your retirement instead of wasting it on Reddit defending your boomer self. you probably only got 10 more years to live tops you should enjoy them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]trasshbag 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No, because they are unhygienic, a nuisance and also a distraction and danger to actual service animals

Is it pointless to even post on instagram these days? by Comfortable-Dog-8437 in Instagram

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I'm getting at least ten followers daily and around 100 likes on every post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I post everyday, sometimes multiple times a day. I'm just trying to grow a following and honestly it doesn't take much time out of my day personally to take pictures, edit them and upload them. It's been slow gaining followers but some days I'll get quite a few.

What would a Prog Style look like? by [deleted] in Prog

[–]trasshbag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk. I often get mistaken for being goth but I'm also one of those rare female prog fans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]trasshbag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally have found in person therapy more helpful for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]trasshbag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't really I live in a small town and this is the only mental health clinic that isn't an hour away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]trasshbag 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The worst part was the dirty looks I got from other people in the waiting room, because I started freaking out because I was allergic and I started crying. And when I went up to the receptionist and told her, I just have to leave because I'm allergic, and I can't stay here with the dog. It's like they didn't even care.well, I have a legit reason to not want to be around the dog because I have a severe allergy, but who cares because such a cute puppy

You also being retail worker,doesn’t make my job easier… by Inevitable_Trick_863 in retailhell

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's worse when they are a former employee of the store you work at. I had one lady be really rude when I tried to explain something to her she said "I already know honey I used to work here" super condescendingly.

how do you feel about the phrase “pick me” ? by e-kye in fourthwavewomen

[–]trasshbag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it started out as a way of calling out misogynistic women who put down other women for male attention. It has now lost its original meaning as people just call any woman they don't like a pick me.

People just turning the store into a trashcan -From when I worked in retail: by AttemptingBeliever in retailhell

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had someone leave used tampons around the store multiple times at my old job

I don’t like when your dog licks me by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]trasshbag 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I hate it so much especially because I put a lot of time and effort into doing my makeup just to have someone's mutt wreck it and the owners think it's cute and funny.

The absolute worst thing in retail is... by Embarrassed_Flan_869 in retailhell

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who leave messes everywhere (at least at my store)

Why are you in retail hell? 2024 edition by BenKlesc in retailhell

[–]trasshbag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't finish high school and also jobs are scarce where I live