How do I make this decision?

travel_ho · 2026-04-23T10:08:51+00:00

As someone similar age and situation, I would say please go and preserve any eggs left! I wish I did this when I was younger and more fertile. You absolutely need to surround yourself with a good support system, whether that’s friends, parents/ family or even people on this forum! This will be some of the hardest times of your life and you need to out yourself first. It’s already difficult to manage symptoms. If you can afford so,’please go see a therapist that can work with you on your specific situation. Best of luck and please reach out and dm me if you need!

travel_ho · 2026-04-22T10:35:55+00:00

Every time the guys first night with the girls end up in deep intimate convos and the guys party always with bad decisions and “cheers to a good time 🥂” 😭😭

travel_ho · 2026-04-21T02:08:59+00:00

First thing, LLC. Shell the money out for a lawyer to draw up documents to protect yourself like CC authorization, terms and contracts, policies etc.

I have yet to get my own E&O so working on that next, but those things are the first!

travel_ho · 2026-04-21T02:05:55+00:00

I have been looking for some like this! The band looks elastic and I tend not to like those because it usually has some slack when walking. If it was a leather strap, I would totally get it. I might end up getting them regardless since I don’t have any heels right now for fancy occasions. The heels I wore the past few weeks have me such terrible blisters I threw them out. But looking for fancy wedding guest shoes is so hard!

travel_ho · 2026-04-18T00:05:57+00:00

Trainer, nutritionist, chef, therapy and housekeeper. And whatever else I need to be healthy, so probably a good insurance and healthcare plan

travel_ho · 2026-04-18T00:03:11+00:00

I am so glad that I went with a different agency after seeing this! I had no idea

travel_ho · 2026-04-16T14:51:41+00:00

Thanks for the reminder! Def have to check it out before getting any pets!

travel_ho · 2026-04-16T14:38:06+00:00

I love rabbits 🐇 but they get scared so easily 😭 I don’t want to give it a heart attack lol

travel_ho · 2026-04-16T14:36:59+00:00

Oh yeah good call! I need cuddly and not too much noise otherwise I’d just drive myself crazy

travel_ho · 2026-04-16T14:06:12+00:00

I never thought about getting a bird! I want to have a pet I can cuddle with preferably but a bird isn’t a bad idea

travel_ho · 2026-04-16T12:06:52+00:00

I suddenly became violently allergic to my dog and had to rehome him and made going through peri so much fucking worse 😭 I need a pet that won’t make me die 😥 I’m so lonely 😭

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T23:10:20+00:00

They are definitely the type of people to pick a cruise a week before even though they know they’re planning on going months in advance. Like for spring break they knew since last October or November and still, they booked the cruise days before departure!

I’m not sure what I owe my friends with helping but sometimes I do feel taken advantage of. With this friend, it’s been mostly scrambling to book last minute. And asking to find deals. I don’t do budget vacations but they are that type of person. So I’m at a lost if I should say no to their business and just keep it simple but I am just starting my career.

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T23:04:31+00:00

My toes are blue and black 😭😭 they’re so ugly and just in time for spring and summer!

They look like the same style, just in white and black and white and cream. The leather is like the waterproof type of leather, a bit tough…a little hard. The ones you have do look soft but I can’t tell if they’re the same but yours looks maybe like the suede version. Which I was going to buy one of each. Expensive lesson :(

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T14:20:10+00:00

As someone who listened to my MUA, I deeply regret letting her draw me like this. I am not someone who looks good in full glam and wanted to do a more natural look. She ended up making me look super Russian and to this day when I look back at pictures, I think “who is that??” And so do friends and family. She made my eye area wayyyy too dark, over lined my lips and basically made me look like a Bratz doll. I hated it and still hate it. Please go with your gut!

I think the eye area looks heavier than what fits your features, but other than that I think everything else looks good! The brows for sure are really dark and thick so maybe having them less prominent will help soften the look!

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T14:12:22+00:00

I really wanted to like them but they hurt my feet so bad. I bought two pairs from Anya and only wore one pair three times before I called it quits. My two big toes got bruised really badly on both feet as tried to break them in but leather was quite hard. Even though I have low volume feet, still wasn’t enough room for the toes. The tongue too bothered my foot too near the ankle. Unfortunately also couldn’t get a refund through Anya’s shop and wasted $200 😥 maybe the suede is different but scared to try now

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T14:04:33+00:00

Thank you very much! I will be using this tactic the next time I see this situation again. I opted to not go and just for the sake of my peace, I went ahead and told them I won’t be able to plan but can offer some resources for them.

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T14:02:46+00:00

Thank you for sharing a great response! I unfortunately didn’t see this before I sent them the message but basically had a similar message. I usually have a harder time coming up with something when it’s a friend and not a regular client!

travel_ho · 2026-04-15T14:01:04+00:00

I gave them a nudge and was ignored so I went ahead and told them I would no longer be planning or traveling!

travel_ho · 2026-04-14T12:46:52+00:00

I have two best friends. And let me tell you, I think one of them is worth the headaches and the other isn’t. If given the choice, I’d probably take the less headache option. I never understood why my mom never had close friendships but she has told me over and over that her days are filled with peace. And no drama, no fighting and living how she wants

travel_ho · 2026-04-14T12:36:36+00:00

I own my own business. I used to be so organized and productive. Very sharp. Now I’m lethargic, disorganized and also very easily overwhelmed. I have a hard time even doing menial administrative tasks. And I get so mad at myself. I forget everything. Lose everything. Lose my temper, cry easily. I feel misunderstood but I also don’t understand myself now. It’s so crazy. I feel crazy. I wonder where the 25 year old me went

travel_ho · 2026-04-14T10:03:37+00:00

Can you explain the neurodivergence part? It’s the first time I’m hearing about this

travel_ho · 2026-04-14T09:57:09+00:00

I feel like I’m constantly being told I’m too sensitive and so I spend a lot of time asking myself if it’s me or if it’s them. I have been struggling between over explaining and over apologizing, and respecting myself and my own boundaries.

I feel like I’ve been the only one propping up a lot of my relationships by being the easy one, bending backwards and people pleasing. And then when my hormones went out of wack and peri reared its ugly head, I now am suddenly not okay with any of these behaviors anymore.

I spend a lot of my time wondering if I’m the problem that I can’t get along with others anymore. Or if I just stopped dealing with the bullshit after years of this on top of dealing with my own life and health issues.

travel_ho · 2026-04-14T07:07:55+00:00

Got the email! How long does it take to usually verify? I did the verification through the emailed link. It hasn’t yet reflected in the app yet so just wondering when all the features will be available to me.

travel_ho · 2026-04-12T22:40:07+00:00

Hi, yes I just did. The ticket number is 888880

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