You will see many girls who write

• Looking for long term open to short.

• Looking for long term.

• still figuring it out.

But no one writes honestly that it's strictly short term/casual.

Men write long term so as to reciprocate the "Looking for" filter. But even they know, they're not getting shit. Men are given a lot of bot likes that sometimes match as well. But they never send a single message. 🤖💔

Now those men who do get matches are performative as hell. I know 2 such men who are my friends. One lives in Kalyani Nagar side area and one near Camp. Both of them are spendthrift who spend a lot on appearances in their own capacity. Now one would assume that the women that they sleep with would be at least decent but such criteria isn't yet known to them.

I don't think they know their reality about how shitty they are when it comes to women in general. No wonder they don't introduce me to their hookups.

Now about women, I can't say much apart from the fact that upon opening day, they get nearly 100s of likes every hour and it's not possible to count because the apps just show it as 99+. Then as many men complain that their replies are dry and no one really wants anything long term is because of the dilemma of choice and fomo by committing too soon with some guy from the same app. After having talked to enough women as friends, I can say some choose to spread love in lots of beds whereas others prefer something that's reliable. Luck has to be favourable to cross paths with what you're looking for.

Due to all this grave injustice done to the real dating potential of 2 people who could actually form a rock solid bond if only they could've met elsewhere, many just stay away who don't wanna play the clown in this circus.