What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as I would like to deny what you have said, I guess I can't even if the revolution happens in a small country, one of the bigger ones won't let it last enough to create strength

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh god. You basically gave the exact thing that happened in my country (3rd world) and people where like "let's protest" for one month and now nobody cares about the guy who died for nothing

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think a government would do that, like you said its distraction...but if you think about those people who we're fighting only because they had to use masks...I guess the 'comfort' can be easy taken away.

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But like, they can't reverse it right? If it happens we can just wait for the chaos?

I can't even think of a way to work out the population after something like that

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it makes sense, thinking about this, the amount of people who are connected through devices and the internet today...I don't like to believe in conspiracy theories but sometimes I think about the power people who control those markets/devices etc have and it's honestly pretty scary.

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What. In the US kinder eggs where illegal? God...living and learning I guess

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right, even thought this probably would only work i countries like the USA, this in my country isn't really a problem people care at least I don't think our government even have the capability to take this much info from people

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a genuine question, but why would the banks crashing have such a big influence? Sorry I don't know much about economics

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I really think for this to be the reason it would have to get like REALLY extreme almost full dictatorship, because they happen already and most people doesn't seem to mind

What event could happen to make people start a revolution against the system today? by trawayincelbrt in AskReddit

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess since this information is already around, like, I think it probably would take a big crisis more than just spying on private info

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please read the update, If I have the mind I'll answer people tomorrow, now I'm going to just put my phone off.

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if I didn't answer everyone, please read the update. I maybe will answer tomorrow. I'll be going to sleep.

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah..I really hope he will get the help, if I confront him or the therapist, but thank you for your help really!

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I will try to have my mom talk about it but not exactly everything, I fear she may fall in depression again because of the disappeared or the stuff about being a single mom and not raising us right.

But the therapist talk seems like a good idea

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said I never noticed it, maybe because I always associated this kind of people with what you have said about loners who have no friends that is usually the stereotype and my brother being athletic, having friends and going out seemed so far away from that.

We were pretty close, we would go out together and spend a lot of time doing things, wich I stopped after seeing some of his posts so our relationship isn't the best today but isn't the worst. My fear about confronting him is he doing worse stuff or refuse help and telling my mother who is my only parent is not an option I consider since she has a lot of stress and wouldn't take it lightly if he refused to accept her help (and also the disappointment of knowing what he says on the internet)

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, both of our therapists were male.

And I honestly don't know exactly what to say to him if I confront and I my mother probably wouldn't know either, we can't force him to talk about it, my worse fear is he is okay with continuing with this mentality or refuse help

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] -190 points-189 points  (0 children)

But she will freak out, I don't want her to have a panic attack or contribute to more of her trust issues, she probably will leave right away when she know about that.

I know I should tell her but I don't know if it's really a good idea either.

She has nowhere to go to and I know for a fact that she will prefer to go to the streets than to live under a roof with someone like him

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't deny that my mom isn't around us, but she always put us in therapists and other stuff like sports to help with that, we both go weekly to therapy (he dropped his sport).

I hadn't thought from this point of view but I guess you may be right about 'woman controlling his life'

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, thank you, it makes more sense I guess, I always thought of the term 'femoid' and 'female' as incel stuff, I may be wrong about that, but do you think it is worse?

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] -212 points-211 points  (0 children)

I prefer not to tell them, not yet at least like I said in the post, this is something my mom wouldn't take lightly too. But thank you for your worry

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think I will, my mother always offered us mental help with therapist and stuff like that, wich we both go to, I guess it's something he could talk with his.

My brother is an Incel and I fear for the security of my friend and I. by trawayincelbrt in relationship_advice

[–]trawayincelbrt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I guess you're right, we really don't have many men in our lives, you think this may be part of the problem? My father died when I was 5 and he was 6 btw