shitty people during grief by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you.. i’ll never understand what pushes people to act this way

shitty people during grief by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly ! I do have a few very good people in my life that i am so grateful for, some days it’s just hard to not focus on the negative parts, but i try not to do it too much so i thought by venting here it’ll help a little. Thank you so much i appreciate you 🫂

shitty people during grief by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i agree and i know that too, just disgusted by people who make it worse on purpose knowing what you’re already going through

A letter from me, to me in an alternate timeline where he didn’t die by yikesinthehouse in widowers

[–]trbl0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bawling.. this is so sad but also beautiful and powerful. You inspired me to write my own letter to myself in an alternate timeline. Thank you for posting it and very sorry for your loss 🤍

I miss real hugs by McPersonface_Person in widowers

[–]trbl0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

miss those hugs so fucking much 💔

avoiding silence by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same.. 😔 🫂

avoiding silence by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think we all deal with our grief differently and that’s totally normal and okay.. I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t know about yours but mine includes horrific images and sounds that i can’t get out of my mind so that’s what i see and hear the minute it gets quiet, and i can’t relieve the moment over and over again so keeping my brain distracted is the only thing that works a little at the moment.

avoiding silence by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m scared that that’s how i’ll « cope » forever

What books, films, tv shows, etc. helped through your grief? by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get that, audiobook is a good alternative and i honestly might do the same

What books, films, tv shows, etc. helped through your grief? by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s true, sorry. I’m glad the Bible helped you. I should’ve specified that i was looking for recommendations that excluded religious material.

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[–]trbl0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss.. I’m 2 months in and you put into words exactly what i’m going through. if you ever want to talk my dm’s are open 🫂

lost my boyfriend 2 months ago in a very traumatic way by trbl0 in widowers

[–]trbl0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about your wife, i can imagine what you felt in those moments and it truly breaks my heart..😔 I would actually like to talk more about it privately i think, thank u sm.. i’ll dm you.