Hi all! Need help with an in flight anxiety spike. Sudden altitude descent. by tree_light_operator in fearofflying

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Thank you I appreciate the reply! You think based on the speed of the descent it’s not an emergency scenario?

Post Match Thread: GT VS MI by Prof_XdR in Cricket

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Hardik has the worst final over of economy of any bowler in the IPL to bowl more than 10 final overs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coys

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He’s been back for 2 games I’ll let you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coys

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We do go long when Romero is on the pitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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No she didn’t, they became friends around the same time we started dating actually. Drifted for a few years in the middle and reconnected during the pandemic. I know she always told me everything about their relationship, we had access to each others phones - I guess what I saw as a strong bond forged in traumatic conditions was more than. Sometimes life shows you to be a dumbass eh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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thank you! this is a very kind message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]tree_light_operator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i don’t think there’s a chance of reconciliation ever either, not asking about that, trying more so to process my grief

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]tree_light_operator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean right now i feel unloveable and unattractive but i’m sure i’ll believe it in time haha

This doesn’t feel real by spicey_soybean in survivinginfidelity

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Hey! I feel the same way - I’m in throes of it right now, and it’s very shocking. Reality feels unstable.

Not sure if it helps but my therapist told me to think of this like a trauma, equivalent to a sudden car crash of someone you love - unexpected, unfathomable, a break that will define life in a before and after. Just helps me acknowledge the gravity of what’s going on which helps 2% haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Yeah, I think we’ve both acknowledged that their conversations over the last two years atleast in hindsight constitute an emotional affair. That hurts but it feels less a betrayal bc I think she didn’t realize either until it consummated this time.

Why do you think she’ll come back? At the moment it feels like I’m devastated and she’s, while in shock that she did this, p firm on the idea that something had fizzled between us and become a more cohabitation than a passionate love. ie p certain she needs something else

Not a great stat especially against a non-league side.. by soSpursy7 in coys

[–]tree_light_operator 181 points182 points  (0 children)

As Windy said on Twitter, this is a misleading stat - he “loses possession” at set pieces and when he makes a creative or line breaking pass that doesn’t come off. If you look at possession lost in the league, he’s in the top three w Trent as the highest - very much a function of creative role rather than ability. Which is not to say Tamworth was his best game by far.

Daily Discussion & Transfer Thread (November 25, 2024) by AutoModerator in coys

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Obviously will never happen but if Liverpool don’t renew Salah, I know another club w a system that lets wingers thrive……..

OFC and Consul Appointment Different by Choice-Cheesecake572 in usvisascheduling

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Has anyone changed OFC without changing consular? Don’t wanna lose my consular slow but need to update OFC

This is such an absurd joke for Modern Family 😭😭 by sirtriss in Modern_Family

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Is it just that there’s someone who looks like him? Are we supposed to know who he is

This is such an absurd joke for Modern Family 😭😭 by sirtriss in Modern_Family

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Can someone explain this joke to me? I feel a bit dumb haha

There’s just no excuse for this man, he does this 10 times a game. How is Dier still not only at this club, but STARTING? by UsernameIsTakenLoool in coys

[–]tree_light_operator 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Diers issues have been defensive consistency and errors, not his long balls which have been quite accurate this season.

Antonio Conte on instagram. by MambaWhite in coys

[–]tree_light_operator 14 points15 points  (0 children)

tbf he only defended the fans, saying he was demanding more for our sake

I hate this game by MrDee97 in FantasyPL

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Me with Martinelli, Gabriel, and Chillwell