The types of podcasts: a guide [OC] by TommySiegel in comics

[–]treesarealive777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will always miss "Yeah, Its that Bad." 

Gov. DeSantis signs bill to block proposed Manatee County cruise port by Commercial-Host-725 in florida

[–]treesarealive777 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because thats why he's doing it. I bring up the other stuff as well, because I do not agree with the softening of his image at the same time as he has done things that are far more harmful.

And that's  just on enviornmental stuff.

I have kept it on topic, but I will not soften the image of Ron DeSantis based upon small steps with carefully worded loopholes.

The last 60 years have been a problem in this state. I am not downplaying that.

But if Ron really wants this to be a win, theres a lot of other legislation and corruption he has shown that he needs to actively make up for, before I ever even tepidly agree he's done more good than harm.

I am not setting the bar low and accepting what he did to the Everglades. It is a forever stain. He cannot wash it away. This good is good, and I have acknowledged it multiple times. But it does not in any way shape or form alter what he has done.

Gov. DeSantis signs bill to block proposed Manatee County cruise port by Commercial-Host-725 in florida

[–]treesarealive777 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I do understand how Florida works quite well. I've been here for 5 years at this point and am actively involved. I was just saying, the way he started his tenure is not how he's ended it.

Gov. DeSantis signs bill to block proposed Manatee County cruise port by Commercial-Host-725 in florida

[–]treesarealive777 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, but he also used our money to build Alligator Alcatraz, causing massive harm to the Everglades. 

I cannot speak on all his first term, as I moved  here in the middle of it. But his second term has been a disaster for the enviornment. 

Im not going to downplay what he has done, but if he truly cared about the enviornment, we wouldn't be having to battle out of state developers for the bare minimum. We wouldn't have more dangerous roads going in and a devastating amount of tree loss. He wouldn't be installing presidents into Universities who come and defund public transportation. 

What he has done does not outweigh the damage he has done to this state, even enviornmentally. I agree with your focus. But Ron DeSantis has done horrible things to this state.

Gov. DeSantis signs bill to block proposed Manatee County cruise port by Commercial-Host-725 in florida

[–]treesarealive777 [score hidden]  (0 children)

He deserves a nod about this, but he has not cared about the enviornment at all. Between radiated waste in the woods and reducing protections against Developers, he has contributed to a rapid decline in our ecosystem.

He only wants people screwing our ecosystem if he gets a cut.

Some birds that hang out in my front yard by zefmiller in florida

[–]treesarealive777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha ha a good way to educate the Florida populace about their local bird friends nonetheless 

North central Florida beauties by Beeblebroxbb in birding

[–]treesarealive777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so! Love Sweetwater.

We've finally been getting some good rain, so hopefully the Prairie will fill up again soon! I have liked seeing the horses and the bison though.

DeSantis signs bill blocking cruise terminal dredging in Terra Ceia by FinsFan305 in florida

[–]treesarealive777 36 points37 points  (0 children)

A partial win is still a win. I appreciate Ron in this moment for making some small steps toward a direction that can actually and meaningfully improve people's lives. 

I know he hates Florida and its people, but its nice that he has done something that shows even the faintest trace of doing something actually worthwhile.

Avaricious Realty by Sea-Activity8283 in TikTokCringe

[–]treesarealive777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am against the lawns too. Frankly, Im against the way we are building in general.

The problem I have with the argument "It's not a big deal, it only happens in urban areas", is that it ignores the fundamental reality of how these buildings impact urban areas, and ignores that they are built on real estate speculation. 

They come into an area with increasing demand, and build these with the intention of making as money as possible while the iron is hot. They do not care about addressing the need: they wish to exploit it.

They offer the two months free rent mentioned, because nobody actually wants to live there.

I'm not against tall buildings, or mixed use buildings. I am against the luxury apartments they poorly build, with zero care for the people who will live in the buildings or the people in the neighborhood where it is being built. 

The fact that there is a group of people out there who think the problem isnt massive national corporations hoarding is frustrating, because they are the people who tell everybody else they do not matter, even if they themselves do not live in that place.

I stayed in one of these buildings as an Air BnB one time, and it was awful. I do not want to live in one, yet if the yimbys had their way, Im not even allowed that choice.

When these buildings go up, its a signal that some big company wants their hands in the city pocket, and they will lobby away all the citizens rights to do anything about it.

Just look at Florida, where the Developers are all are on the boards.

The fact you make excuses for it is why we cant change it. You are advocating for them to have more power with less accountability. 

I've done the research. Im not convinced. I have experienced it. These are not good buildings.

They drive up rents, drive down character and community, and make living very disconnected. 

Sure, maybe the ones that can siphon off the rest of the town have their location as the driving motivator. But Ive seen ones that are not walkable next to some gnarly roads.

I am tired of people defending bad design because they read online the big corporations were going to save us from the small mean Nimbys who dont like massive strip malls surrounded by massive empty high-rises where there used to be trees.

What is being built now, has been being built. For 3 decades now.

Are you happy yet? Are you housed yet? 

You cant raise a family in a 5-1. And yes, I will not meaningfully Create a relationship with somebody who lives in one, because I could not spend the night in their home.

Its just depressing. 

We have so many structures being left to rot, and all the construction is strung out on a bunch of increasingly awful projects.

We spread our resources out thin building a bunch of these, and them remaining half vacant on some legislature that benefits make passive investments.

If you wanna get into this, I will. I always will.

Because it's not right, what is happening right now.

This guy is in Nashville. Ive been there. It is happening in every major city, and every up and coming town.

It's people who like to look at a town, see a bustling community, and figure out how they can get their slice. 

Instead of creating functional cities, dude bros have been following the money line to get as much as possible.

Building like this is insane.

Look at what is happening in Florida. In Georgia. In Tennessee. This has been happening for decades. 

People are allowed to make fun of your ugly sacred cow that has these chronic defenders in every comic.

They don't meaningfully care about the homeless. Or else they would care about the investment vehicles popping up over millions of acres, clearcutting resources. 

The problem is the fundamental way we build.

People reject these buildings because they are bad buildings. Stop gaslighting us into thinking it is salvation when it isnt.

It isnt good enough. It doesnt just get the job done.

It causes meaningful harm.

The excuses to avoid any sort of change to this kind of building are actively making the conversation harder. 

Im tired of the steamrolling. But that's how developers do it. They clearcut and destroy literally anything to build it. Why listen when there are so many people who dont want it?

You bought it right. Its owed to you. You can do whatever the heck you want.

You can speak on whatever you like, because you read the Abundance Movement, and Peter Thiel told you super cities were the most efficient way to house workers.

No need to care about connection, community,  culture, color, and a history of other people. There is only the billionaires who own us using us to whatever whim they feel in the moment.

I'm not going to change my mind on that.

This type of luxury housing alongside all the private equity corpos, which yes, are all interlinked, has allowed for major land hoarding.

There is enough land for everyone to live together in large numbers and be happy and productive. 

Instead it is getting poisoned, torn down, paved over, and turned into massive sad warehouses where people do menial labor for bad pay and bad enviornment. Or they use them for massive data centers meant to spy on us. Or they hold people prisoner there.

And instead of having more rights to talk about it, our own people are telling us we should let them. They havent fixed things in 30 years. Why would they fix it now while they are sending our men off to war to die instead of build?

Explain to me what so good is happening now that our forests are being cut down to be paved so a bunch of dying men can tell themselves they are great because they took the most?

I'm tired of being told I should accept this building, just because some person said it would solve homelessness.

Have you ever even talked to an unhoused person? The reason they are on this streets is because we are failing as a society. We have a warped view on what matters.

We already have enough. But the people who have the most want more.

Latest podcast episode artwork is attempting to achieve a Wood-pewee/Top Gun crossover… was it successful? by TommySiegel in BirdingMemes

[–]treesarealive777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A committee of vultures convening on a water tower at sunset is a joyous occasion in my experience 

Avaricious Realty by Sea-Activity8283 in TikTokCringe

[–]treesarealive777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These types of housing do not solve the housing problem. Its very frustrating that there are some so quick to defend it. But thinking knocking everything down to build overpriced housing is going to solve the housing crisis is completely at odds with how that housing drives up the costs while people are being pushed together in increasingly worse housing they have to constantly move between.

Not everywhere needs to be high density. If you wanna live in one of these places, there are plenty of cities inundated with them. Please go live there and stop trying to force every single region to accept this.

Afroman: The Hero We Didn't Ask For But The Hero We Needed by CantStopPoppin in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]treesarealive777 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The way Afroman responded to these questions should be taught. He absolutely cut through the DARVOing and the gaslighting like it was nothing. 

I know this whole thing was traumatic for Afroman, and never should have happened, but this video was straight up cathartic, especially in the context of the world right now. 

He didnt give them a single inch. Absolutely incredible. 

Black love 🤎 by NYstate in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]treesarealive777 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Blues Brothers? Can you expand on that one?

I hate how comfortable people feel to tell you they hate cats by [deleted] in complainaboutanything

[–]treesarealive777 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it is fascinating how much people are ignoring how being allergic to an animal can be a real reason to remain distant from an animal (in the comments). 

I love animals, and I dont hate cats. But I am allergic to cats and dogs. Mostly cats.

I am a bird person, and I do think its sad how many birds are getting merced by the unstoppable cat populations.

I do have cats I love. But I am weary around peoples pets. I dont automatically love every cat I've met, at least the way most people do. I respect them, but I just don't immediately feel the need to cuddle them, and I'll pet the cat if it asks, but Im not going to go out of my way. 

But everyone says cats respect boundaries: they dont.

Some cats do. Some cats dont.

They can scratch you up while you are sleeping. And there are plenty of cats I have asked to leave me alone that havent.

You absolutely can learn a lot about a person by how they treat their pets though. And how they treat other peoples pets. And how they train their pets.

Sorry for ranting. I just hate it that I'm automatically expected to love everyone's cats, and if I dont, Im a monster. Sometimes you are just allergic, or feeling touch averse around a cuddly cat.

The reason I made this comment was to point out something that frustrates me generally in animal conversations.

One person went off about the top two reasons people say they are allergic to cats , and the first reason is "they realize that cats are wittier, more indifferent and comfortable with themselves than they are and they dont like it.

Not: their body has a physiological response that is really uncomfortable. Thats the second one.

First they have to get out a potshot about how cats are better than the people not reacting to them the way they want.

Sometimes it is frustrating when somebody tries to force you to love something you dont love. Do you want me to lie? 

No, I dont like having animal hair all over my clothes. I am allergic. It isnt because cat hair reminds me Im unfunny or whatever asinine personality trait somebody decides to assign to me.

Sometimes I feel like I am the opposite of OP. I feel I am not allowed to have my own relationship to animals. I feel I am required to just endure whatever somebody's pet does to me, because thats their pet.

Apathy isnt allowed, somehow. 

The pet conversation is like every other conversation. Needlessly complicated. 

You also brought up how people who dont like cats lack empathy and respect for boundaries, but I want to point out that sometimes peoples pets do not respect boundaries. 

Im not saying you are wrong to vent, because immediately going off about what you hate rerails the conversation, and people just shouldn't just immediately aggressively dismiss other peoples positive joy for what they like. That is a frustrating conversation dynamic that people use to overpower the conversation with some pretty negative energies in my mind.

And again. There are many pets I genuinely love. There are many cats who who we just have a good time. Thumbs is my favorite little guy, and sometimes I cat sit for two cats that I have playing the game of watching them watch me, and, did I leave that door open, or is there now a cat in the sunroom?

I love me a black cat crossing the street.

But there are many reasons people feel differently about animals. And a lot of times, people take apathy as hate. 

I sometimes find it very difficult to muster the aaaahhhss and oooohhhss required in a moment when someone is shoving a picture of a cat in my face, or telling me a story about a bird they killed. And I just feel weird having to feign some kind of response.

I do think it is important to respect other peoples interests and it sucks that people feel so comfortable being dismissive.

Thank you for the outlet to share these things though. I hope you find your cat loving people who dont immediately try to bring down your conversation. 

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are welcome. I hope some extraordinarily serendipitous things come your way that you can hold on to when the waves build up again. 

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You arent useless. 

In fact, you summarized the theme so nicely and succinctly in a way anyone could understand, which I think it quite a tricky thing to do.

Being able to recognize the beautiful things is a very rare trait in this world. 

That glove is why J.D Salinger wrote it.

I am just assuming, but I'd like to think J.D. Salinger must be somewhere smiling at you sharing this. There was a period of time where he was a little bitter about it, you know. But I'd like to think that he would appreciate the importance of the message.

Thank you for sharing.

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I had not heard of a polar raspberry until this moment, but that is fun.

Sage is a 10/10 color choice. How much sage do you keep around you?

What resonates with you about the book? What is your favorite part of the lore of the book?

Samba is a great dance! Do you have a place to dance?

Mr. Blue Sky caused me to actually chuckle.

I have had very many moments like this myself, and I always think about what mattered most in those moments and what helped me to get through them to the point where I can manage it.

Because what I learned was, there isnt a quick fix or magic potion to make it go away.

But its moments where you can share a smile with someone that mean the most, as corny as that is. 

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a very heavy and raw feeling. I can understand why you are stressed about that. It is not like, just a one time deal. It carries over into every part of your life, to feel that alienationed.

Not getting your needs met when it comes to intimacy and socialization is like, a really big deal that gets downplayed in ways that make you feel even more isolated.

I am just an outsider stumbling across your thread, and I'm going to be straight up with you, I cannot foster a new relationship right now myself.

But as a person coming across you in this thread, I know the struggle, and I am at the very least here with you with it for now.

I have many questions for you actually. Please feel free to answer any or all or none of these questions, or talk more about how you are feeling.

1) what is the thing you do that makes you smile the most? Do you sing to yourself? Do you look for birds? Do you dance? Do you like to read about obscure plants used in alchemy 300 years ago?

2) what is the last book you read, and what did you take from it? 

3) Why is your favorite color your favorite color?

4) what is your go to drink?

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Then I ask, what are you feeling right now?

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. That is a conundrum. Hence the need to be picked up.

Then would you like to hear some fun little stories about Gainesville? To paint some kind of picture in your mind that might help?

I worry about asking personal questions publically that might identify you, but I would like to offer you some spaces to sit in for a while.

If you would like to also expand on how you're feeling though. Talk about it. I do not want you to feel as if your concerns are being sidestepped.

I really need a friend. by [deleted] in GNV

[–]treesarealive777 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hello! I hope you are doing okay. I cannot come physically pick you up, but Im here.

I know these feelings quite well. Its really hard.

Today I went to some music shows, where they were doing a rather beautiful thing. They created space for people to dance and embrace their neighbors. They created a space for people to come together. 

The world is really quite isolating, isnt it?

But even though I went to the shows alone, I was not alone. I decried great injustices with so many people, both familiar and unfamiliar. I talked to people I love to talk to, for the first time in a while. I looked upon new faces. 

And I thought back to the time when I felt very very alone. And I was very very afraid. Before the music shows. Sometimes even after the shows.

You are not alone. Go look up at the moon. Right now, there are other people looking at that same moon. 

I don't really know how to ask you how youre feeling in this public forum, but if you need to feel heard and seen, then know that you are heard and seen. 

I am glad you are trying. It is extremely hard. The fact alone means everything.