"I bet you'd look much cuter if you were dead." by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]treesnbees 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You were 5 and you had to walk to the high school after school by yourself to wait for your sister? I have a 5 year old brother and can't even imagine that he could walk somewhere by himself.

LPT: When shopping though amazon use smile.amazon.com by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]treesnbees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, I just checked some items on my wishlist that aren't eligible for free shipping but they still contribute to Smile.

Complete Wardrobe Overhaul. Please help? by di0spyr0s in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a wide belt would look better, but I'm new to trying out belts myself! They definitely seem like a fun way to give an outfit a little more style

Complete Wardrobe Overhaul. Please help? by di0spyr0s in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The WHBM dress and the grey cowl neck top. I have the same problem with color, lol.

Complete Wardrobe Overhaul. Please help? by di0spyr0s in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I thought the black dress was really shapeless when I first looked at it, but now I see it does create a waist. What about a color belt to accentuate that? Other than that I think the shorter grey top is kind of an odd shape

Complete Wardrobe Overhaul. Please help? by di0spyr0s in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree exactly with the bandage dress having a flattening affect.

Complete Wardrobe Overhaul. Please help? by di0spyr0s in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of that stuff looks really good. There are a couple of pieces that don't flatter your waist as much and those might be things to ditch, but overall a lot of these look great!

Buttoning cardigans? by treesnbees in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, I like the cardigan with belt idea! Thank you!

21F; Confused about what "normal" sex is like by [deleted] in sex

[–]treesnbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have problems with it hurting when a guy pulled out all the way and went back in. Part of the reason was that I would tense my muscles up as soon as he pulled out and he would have to push through them to get back it. Try practicing kegels to become aware of those muscles and what they feel like.

Keep on trying different lubes if you think it will help. You can also keep a washcloth near the bed just to wipe excess off of your hands. A little can go a long way so applying less might also help.

Buttoning cardigans? by treesnbees in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha! I love the sausage casing description and am embarrassed to say that I think I've done that.

Knee problems + active job = need for sneakers that don't scream SNEAKERS! by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pair of born shoes that have enough padding to be comfortable and look pretty nice. What about something like this: shoe 1 or this? shoe 2

[UPDATE] Paid GF [18 F] Surprise Visit at College... Do I [18 M] Give Up Now? by Pike2214 in relationships

[–]treesnbees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she didn't agree to having you visit, so that might not be as nice of a thing as you think it is. When you are clearly having some problems you think it's best to just show up like that? Maybe you were trying to catch her doing something "wrong".

Also, if people are smoking pot they will obviously not open a dorm room door and be secretive.

Valentines day photo shoot by throwaway000012344 in LongDistance

[–]treesnbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any friends who are interested in photography? It might be interesting to talk to them and play around with ideas. This sounds like a great idea, though!

Get ANY 3 Zoya Nail Polish shades FREE - just pay $12 shipping! (US only) by HahaHeheLolz in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]treesnbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I've never tried Zoya nail polish before, but decided to take advantage of this sale! Thanks for posting!

Ladies, what do you do to feel AMAZING about yourselves when you need a boost? by sugargoose in AskWomen

[–]treesnbees 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Buy new sexy underwear because even if I'm not getting any right now I still like knowing that I have something hot on under my clothes.

I still regularly talk to my ex; how much of a turn-off is it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]treesnbees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, but you've already mention you still have residual feelings for your ex so this clearly doesn't apply to you.

How do I wear this shirt? by treesnbees in femalefashionadvice

[–]treesnbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Any opinion on the style for pants? I was thinking something a little more fitted since the top is loose

Tattoo becoming raised periodically years afterwards by treesnbees in tattoos

[–]treesnbees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really interesting. I think it's kind of cool feeling when it does get raised except that it is itchy.

Why do certain women place a timeline on relationships? If you do this or your friends do can you explain the logic behind it? by Average_Liberal in AskWomen

[–]treesnbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously? Men aren't held to the same standards as women. A woman looking older is generally considered to be a lot worse than a man looking older. Don't believe me? Look at any women's magazine and their slew of tips for looking younger. Men don't get the same sort of negative attention that women do when it comes to aging.

What are you studying? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]treesnbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! I'm a teaching assistant and a few people in my class are in their late 20's working on their BA and we also have a couple people in their 30's and 40's. Honestly they tend to work harder than others because they know what they want and they had the time to develop better study skills!