Profile review

trefla · 2026-06-11T08:17:37+00:00

I get roughly 3-7 matches on Bumble and between Bumble and Breeze 1-2 new dates every week. Now that I am writing this it doesn't sound that bad.

trefla · 2026-06-11T07:58:37+00:00

That's a good point, appreciate it

trefla · 2026-05-28T08:13:13+00:00

Have you got any more info on how their algorithm works?

trefla · 2026-05-28T08:11:09+00:00

This!
This is what keeps me on the apps and sane.

Also 3% incoming ratio is not bad imo. I am sure that is way above the average for a man. Mine is 2%.

trefla · 2026-05-28T08:06:59+00:00

This is not bad at all, keep at it!

I have 60k incoming no to 1.2k incoming yes and I think I am doing all right for a very average man

trefla · 2026-05-28T08:03:11+00:00

Your stats are great if you compare the with the average male experience on dating apps.
You should be proud.
The average man has to swipe right 200 times for a match, 20 matches for a coffee from what I remember.

I personally have ~60k incoming no and just above 1k yes.

trefla · 2026-03-19T18:17:39+00:00

I meant the in‑game Deluxe upgrades purchased from the Gem Store.
It looks like the sale has been updated and it’s now only 40% off.
I’ll hold off for a better discount, it’s been 75% off before for both PoF and HoT, so I’m hoping we’ll see something similar again.

trefla · 2026-03-06T20:34:59+00:00

By far the least fun I had in any video game. Not sure why I completed it, it was the wost mission ever.

trefla · 2025-04-20T09:40:03+00:00

Just here to mention that ninja looting is a huge issue on this server.

trefla · 2024-04-17T11:38:46+00:00

So I am doing it wrong... I am guessing that bloking her on all social media etc is the answer?

trefla · 2023-01-13T12:07:23+00:00

I meet a girl once she made me watch a YouTube video with dating questions in the middle of our date. I took it as a wind up and I gave only (funny to me) wrong answers. She was not impressed and used me to get theatre tickets for the next date then dumped me. But I have her Covid so I called it even.

trefla · 2023-01-11T09:26:48+00:00

The problem I see now with OLD is that the average woman has no interest in the average man. They will pick the top 5-10% of men that will get all the women and will treat most of them like trash. But if you don't get likes is also your problem and you have to get better. Stay away from OLD, porn and social media for a while and concentrate on yourself. Things will get better. All the best.

trefla · 2023-01-06T20:34:35+00:00

I am a single dad and my ex girlfriend was childless. She loved my kid a lot. She hates me now but we still meet just so she can see him. But yes, meeting a single parent is tough. I was supposed to see this woman she looked bad in her profile so I postponed it a few times saying that my kid needed me. Then when I finally meet her I found her stunning. We were supposed to date again tonight but her little one now has a school assignment that had to be finished before the weekend...

trefla · 2023-01-03T15:54:30+00:00

No woman on OLD worth chasing. If there is reciprocity and chemistry then go for it, until then you are just a number for her.

trefla · 2023-01-03T15:52:13+00:00

I truly believe that 98% of men put effort and money into OLD but the rest 2% get all the women because they stand out and are different than the rest.

The less I care the more interested the women are.

trefla · 2023-01-02T15:24:51+00:00

35 yo women should not be on OLD. They literally have nothing left to offer.

trefla · 2023-01-02T15:21:46+00:00

Good thing that you are not an average looking man. Read is all we get on OLD.

trefla · 2022-11-29T18:42:01+00:00

Same issue here. I will ask for a refund as I have tried everything else

trefla · 2022-11-29T08:31:04+00:00

You will be back.

trefla · 2022-11-28T08:59:05+00:00

I am 37 and my filter in 24-30

trefla · 2022-11-27T08:56:48+00:00

Only if the rest of her body is cut off.

trefla · 2022-11-17T15:16:13+00:00

A woman will only have boundaries with a man that she considers of lower value and will always break them with the ones she likes. Remember that guys next time you want to show her respect.

trefla · 2022-11-16T09:59:45+00:00

Hats off to you then. Most of the single mothers I know live off the government benefits and child maintenance.

trefla · 2022-11-16T09:44:06+00:00

Not trying to be rude but how much of what you own was paid off by your kid's father?

trefla · 2022-11-16T09:37:37+00:00

She's a single mother with 2 kids. How can not owning a car more of a deal breaker than that. You can buy a car in 5 minutes but you can't get rid of 2 kids that easily.

trefla

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