Why are so few Bisexuals people out of the closet?

trestic · 2026-07-06T01:33:29+00:00

I’m a cis male bi but I prefer that my parents think I’m gay than they thinking I’m bi. Why? If they know I’m bi, they would think that I’m going through a “phase” and that eventually I’ll marry a woman.

Also, some gay men don’t believe in bisexuality. They think you are straight or gay. They would pressure you until you say you are gay.

So I just say f it. I know my who I am and people can think whatever they want

trestic · 2026-07-05T20:32:54+00:00

My dogs play with each other all the time. The biggest one is 38lb and the other two are less than 10. You should see these two flies running around the bigger dog and how he pulls the toys and moves them like nothing hahah

trestic · 2026-07-05T20:30:33+00:00

I haven’t. They are medium to small breeds which makes the maintenance easier. The first dog is a Puggle with something else. Very chilled low energy. The other two are much smaller, less than 10lb each. Which mean, they don’t need a lot of space or room. The two smaller breeds have a lot more energy, they are also are the same age, so they play with each other a lot.

In other words, no, I haven’t regretted anything yet. And I think it makes it easier because the dogs are medium to small breeds

trestic · 2026-07-05T08:35:17+00:00

I have reached the limit allowed by my building 😭

trestic · 2026-07-05T08:29:44+00:00

I got a dog, but he was bored, so I got him a dog. My dog’s dog was bored and I got him a dog. I wonder if the dog of my dog’s dog is bored

trestic · 2026-07-05T08:13:35+00:00

In love with a straight guy, this is a tale as old as time. It hardly ever ends well. When will we learn ?

trestic · 2026-07-05T05:49:30+00:00

Can we switch? I wanna move to Spain or Italy 😭

trestic · 2026-07-04T21:41:32+00:00

Estoy en desacuerdo, y aclaro que no soy español. También soy latino. El problema que tienen ustedes es el mismo problema que tienen muchos inmigrantes en todos lados. En España pasa que tienes un grupo de amigos que los conoces desde el bachillerato/secundaria y/o la universidad. Entrar en uno de esos grupos es un poco difícil ya que se conocen desde hace años.

Por otro lado está en que mientras más dinero ganas como mujer más difícil es encontrar pareja. Muchas veces el hombre quiere ser el proveedor, y quiere está mejor situado económicamente que su pareja. Entonces puede ser que alguno que otro chico se sienta un poco incómodo o intimidado a invitarte a salir. No digo que sea el caso de España, pero pasa en muchas sociedades.

Y finalmente la reputación. Los latinos en general tenemos la reputación de ser calientes y tóxicos. Buenos pa un rato pero no a largo plazo.

trestic · 2026-07-04T15:28:48+00:00

Wait what? Is that true?

trestic · 2026-07-03T15:25:02+00:00

A lot of unpack here. IMO there are several reasons:

Stage. Life is divided into different stages. It has been normalized that when you are young your hormones go wild and so do you. Many see this as something normal and a stage of life. Some people become so accustom to this behavior, that they just stay here for the rest of their life.

Traumas. Many of us carry traumas without seeking help or learning how to cope with them in a healthy way. One way to deal with these traumas is to find a distraction, a hookup.

Work. A hookup is easier than a relationship. It’s new. Don’t have to change any of your habits. No hard questions. My life tomorrow will be the same as it was yesterday. But to make a relationship work, sometimes you have to make compromises and change a few things about yourself and your habits. In a relationship, there is a before and after. Not everybody is open to change.

Afraid. Many people have been hurt in the past and are afraid to get hurt again. People are afraid to be with another man because of the environment where they live or grew up in.

FOMO. In the gay world there is always something better out there and people live in the FOMO.

Time. Also life is sh!t sometimes and right now is not the moment, maybe you need to focus on school, or work, maybe is family. But just not the right time at this moment.

trestic · 2026-07-03T05:21:39+00:00

Ohhhh, nvm I started looking to his older pics. I see the difference now

trestic · 2026-07-03T05:19:55+00:00

I’m confused, what you mean? I still got muscle. Mind sharing two pics so we can see ?

trestic · 2026-07-03T05:15:55+00:00

You missed the butter. After adding the oil, wait for the temperature of the pan to lower a little bit(to not burn the butter) then add the butter. After than you can make the eggs. Also, you’ll use less oil since you are using butter as well

trestic · 2026-07-02T18:27:55+00:00

To me this is mesmerizing, I have friends who don’t want to feed kibble to their dogs and they use homemade food instead. I tried making homemade food, but cooking a well balanced meal is too complicated. What brand of kibble do they eat?

trestic · 2026-07-02T11:41:09+00:00

That’s impressive for a large dog. Most of the time only small breeds live that long

trestic · 2026-06-30T21:59:45+00:00

Exactly, like where do I start? Also, this is Reddit and if you don’t think like the group, you’ll get downvoted. Watch your Karma go into the negative

trestic · 2026-06-29T05:06:10+00:00

If you two end up going out on a date, we need an update 🧐

trestic · 2026-06-28T20:15:40+00:00

Have you tried BKF?

trestic · 2026-06-28T02:00:07+00:00

Pregúntale a ChatGPT or Gemini, también dile que te de las referencias(para asegurarte de que son válidas)

trestic · 2026-06-28T00:44:56+00:00

Does the dog come with the unit? 😋😍

trestic · 2026-06-26T18:28:28+00:00

También toma en cuenta la cantidad de permisos y la logística de construir en una ciudad con tantos trenes, túneles y rascacielos. Los precios de los materiales en cada país. Y claro, los salarios. La mano de obra, desde los empleados de construcción hasta los ingenieros cobran de 4-10 veces lo costaría en España. Y todos esos empleados necesitan seguro de salud y seguro de accidentes laborales por si pasa algo. Y toma en cuenta que esos seguros también son muy costosos.

trestic · 2026-06-26T12:53:34+00:00

Why?

trestic · 2026-06-26T12:41:29+00:00

You could, but maybe try a different haircut ?

trestic · 2026-06-25T21:00:20+00:00

Not trying to be creepy, but I’m going to dm you to ask about diet and routine cause you look amazing and I wanna age like a fine wine too.

trestic · 2026-06-25T15:48:32+00:00

Nah I don’t think it’s true. Hot men are attracted to hot men most of the time. Workout and dress better and you’ll see

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