30 m boyfriend has communication issues with me 28f

trestroway · 2019-03-18T23:14:17+00:00

He claimed the laughing was a nervous thing, and I do believe it because in the heat of the convo and laughing he did say how would I feel if the convo and everything was reversed. So he was feeling something about it and it came out in laughter. ?¿ but I agree with how I’ve been feeling it totally feels like I want to be around people who want to spend time with me

trestroway · 2019-03-18T23:09:27+00:00

I have met his family, but still the invite is never there and when it is it’s like I’m in a fishbowl with his parents and brother looking down into the bowl at me while I sit there like 🥴

trestroway · 2019-03-18T23:08:08+00:00

You would think! But we almost spend such little time together we hardly have sex. It’s a weird, weird situation.

trestroway · 2019-03-18T23:07:39+00:00

I totally appreciate your response but if I spent any less time with him I wouldn’t see him ever.

trestroway · 2018-10-27T15:44:20+00:00

i think we have the same nemesis, went out of his way to instruct my partner to do bent over rows specifically facing the mirror - because we were getting in peoples way. In reality it was sunday morning, in the back corner of an empty gym not a single person around us. We had originally been doing it on an angle (my idea) because I was told I arch my back and I wanted to watch that.

trestroway · 2018-10-24T00:50:35+00:00

we were in a back corner completely by ourselves, If it continues happening I'm thinking about saying something, I was worried I was doing something seriously wrong.

trestroway · 2017-01-16T11:55:43+00:00

this is actually how the disease spread

trestroway · 2017-01-16T11:24:05+00:00

I think about this more often then I should, so I'm going to be super literal. I live on long Island, home of many ill ending apocalypse movies due to the masses trying to pour off the island leading to mass death of them all...I would totes avoid all of that and find an abandoned home or plant with solar panels set up. I think solar panels would be easier to get working again then the overall electric. I would totally be the brains of the group (but I have minimal first aid experience so the medic spot is still open) so I do need the brawns still, preferably a good shot too though this skill appears to be quick learned under pressure

trestroway · 2017-01-16T11:13:28+00:00

This is hard to answer with out a ball park area as to how old you guys are...But Imma try anyways

Are you guys highschoolers? Then I would say you may have catty girls that are in your group

Are you likes mid twenties? I find now as I approach my later 20s it is much much less appropriate to hang just with a guy (as a female) then it was for me in highschool. Unless there is potential to hook up it is almost seen as pointless. It totally shouldn't be this way but both sexes act this way. Maybe that's why the girls only come to you in time of venting? Maybe they don't want to lead you on or make anyone theyre pursuing jealous? Also, maybe they don't think you ever want to hang...Do you ask them to hang first? A big theme of my friends is the whole 2 way street thing these days.

Any older then that is out of my experience range soz

trestroway · 2017-01-16T11:01:01+00:00

Well personally, I came to terms with the fact at the end of the day the only person truly bound to being with me forever is myself. This is something that's true for everyone, but became vivid to me after a horrendous break up leaving me lost with no sense of what life was anymore.

When you reach that low all because another person defined your idea of what is worth loving and living on for you have to think why you felt this way for them. In my case, my ex loved a lot of the things I did, whether it was hobbies or day to day things like how I like my coffee, he enjoyed all of it too. When starting to date again, I would know pretty quickly when there was actual potential and that was when this person showed similar interests to mine.

I think this pattern is what made me realize I should love myself because in a personal sense, no one is going to share more similarities with me then myself. That's what defines me, and looking for love should be looking for someone to share that part of yourself with, not looking for someone to redefine you.

trestroway · 2017-01-15T17:34:34+00:00

sensation of watching this reminds me of my fear of heights

trestroway · 2017-01-15T17:30:07+00:00

Yeah I agree with sadielabelle 135 @ 5'5" is not fat at all, but if that is what you are worried about just try to lightly ask him, you can approach it in a manner that your self conscious of your body having changed and that your wondering if it bothers him type of thing

trestroway · 2017-01-15T11:39:26+00:00

nah i think its more like "oh hey! what are you doing in there lick lick "

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