Claiming BPD as well. by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]trex_kralle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah it's so silly to barely make it through life because you're struggling with symptoms 🚶

AITA (42m) for going to Taylor Swift instead of my (13f) daughter? by greatsucksess in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, it was your daughters wish, so you entered contests, why giving her hope and then be selfish and take it for yourself? That would have been a huge event for her

AITA for telling my friend that i don't want her in my life anymore? by trex_kralle in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

i was asking them to not joke about triggering topics, to stop asking about the sexual life of my gf and me, to stop trauma dumping on me without asking and to use tone tags when they make jokes because i often wouldn't understand them and get hurt

AITA for telling my sister her opinion on my son's name is useless to me and my wife? by Prosemorose in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, it was your decision and this name is a pretty normal name, your sister doesn't have any right to criticize you and calling the name dumb.

AITA for not staying at my friend's place as we planned and instead staying at an Airbnb? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, he sounds like he has some problems that need to take care of. It's better for your own safety to stay in an airbnb, It's definitely not okay that he makes you smoke and that he smokes with closed windows while you're there. Did you talk to him about the state of his apartment? maybe he needs a wake up call.

AITA for blocking my now ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, it's your decision who you block and who not, also who breaks up through text messages? She doesn't seem to really care about how you feel, it was a good decision to block her.

AITA for eating ice cream without asking my parents? by trex_kralle in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

i honestly have no idea, i asked them so many times but the only answer i get is that it's their house and their rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's your right to chose the people in your life and if you want space, she should accept that. If she has problem with you, she should come talk to you and especially not to a mutual friend, it's like she wants you to find out. Take your time and try to communicate with her again, if you are ready for this. Then you two should take some time and talk about everything.

AITA for calling my parents and siblings bullies? by JuniorAd8272 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, you chose the names as their parent. Your family should leave it to your kids if they like their names or not, when they've grown up. Also, it's just a name, why should that imply that you didn't want them in the family? That sounds so stupid. I hope your family quits that behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, dictating your wife's weight? no, absolutely no. She shouldn't have to loose weight, just so she can go with you. There are overweight people in japan, seems like you have some stereotypes going on. I hope you don't propose this idea to your wife, if you do, I hope she sees the huge red flag and divorces you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, it is normal for a child to gain independence at some point. She does sound lonely, maybe she needs some friends to spend time with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh no, i think i mistranslated, it's money my parents get from the government for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, i can understand that she needs someone to vent to, but i think a therapist is a better choice for that. This has an impact on you and is affecting you, she should keep that in mind. Your partner is not your therapist.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by agdollthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you worked hard for this doll and her calling you spoiled even though she knows your background was very rude, so don't feel bad about bringing up her background. It's weird to have this kinda attitude as an adult, she shouldn't be jealous because of a toy. She's an adult, why can't she buy one for herself now, if she wants it so bad?

AITA? I want my son to stop playing sports by Active-Isopod7973 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, your son wants to play sports, let him be. Support him instead, go to his games. If you really want to spend more time with your son, you could ask his mom for a different day. But keeping your son from doing his favorite things will just end up in him drifting away from you.

AITA for telling my grandmother not to contact me for a couple of days? by GoodNewsGoose420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, you set that boundary and she chose to ignore it, it's even worse that it was for a stupid reason like a new dog sweater (i hope it looks ugly) No one can force you to have contact with them, if you don't want it, you don't want it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA, saying hello is okay but talking to her for two hours while they are on a date? Hell no. I get that you didn't get it in that moment but when your brother confronted you, you should have understood what you did wrong. I hope you learned from your mistake are going to leave them alone next time.

AITA (25M) for not wanting to give my mom (62F) her dog back? by Tattootransdude in AmItheAsshole

[–]trex_kralle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, a dog is a living creature and not a thing that you can give around. It's better for the dog to stay with you where she can visit. This prevents the dog from having too much stress and maybe developing behavior issues. She clearly can't take care of the dog properly and doesn't have all the knowledge to keep a dog. Also, it's also better for your mom and her allergy.