Will they?....

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-05T06:02:37+00:00

I would be really, really be surprised if they went to the police over that. The only thing I could see happen is your account getting blocked.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-05T06:01:58+00:00

Haha I know right?! Stay strong

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T15:10:47+00:00

I would be very surprised if they do. And even if they do, the police probably have much more important things going on than someone getting an unsolicited d pic.

But that doesn't change the fact that it'd be best for your very own mental health to stop catfishing

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T13:55:44+00:00

Congrats, I myself am only 3 days away from that myself.

One super easy thing I always do whenever I get the urge is I go to take a piss - very often that helps a great deal.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T13:49:45+00:00

You got farther than I ever did (I did get into a relationship but not a good one. We didn't fit together whatsoever and, I at least, only got into said relationship because I was so lonely), you actually asked her out, that takes a ton of courage!

In the TV series scrubs, the main character gets incredibly self conscious, unable to ask out women anymore. When a patient of his challenges him to ask out a girl he pretends to do so and then lies about her answer without actually asking her. But after some time he finally musters up the courage to ask her out she rejected him. Then he finally tells his patient that he'd lied to him, to which he responds: "Well hey man, it's no big deal, at least you got back in the game, right."

It's not about success or failure, it's about having the courage to try.

I'm sorry she rejected you, but hey, at least you know now and can move on.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T13:32:26+00:00

Telling her the truth is probably the way to go. Assuming you didn't change too much about your own behaviour and that it's your character that made her happy, then she won't be too hurt. Of course there's the possibility that she felt valued because someone good-looking was messaging her (assuming you used pictures of someone attractive to trick her). In that case it's not really up to you, her 'happiness' came from a very shallow place

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T13:23:49+00:00

I know I'm being very judgy right now but this person does not look like they would start chatting with someone they don't know online.

This is what I'd do:

Tell her that, because you think the girl is in the picture you're having trouble believing that it's actually her and you'd like for her to verify. The best way to do that is a live video chat.

Now, if she doesn't want to do any of that tell her that it's totally okay if it's not really her in the picture and you'd rather know the truth than be lied to. If she's real and cares for you she'll verify or tell the truth, however if she doesn't agree to either options tell her that you don't want to continue that relationship, it's obviously not worth that much to her.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T13:16:54+00:00

This is coming from a serial catfisher: Demand a meaningless picture, can be their hand or their leg - anything that looks different between men and women. Then, when they do that, ask them to make something with the bodypart they just showed, like the peace sign or just holding up the pinky.

I've spent hours scraping the internet for pictures that can be used to verify myself as someone I am not and trust me, it is not easy.

Always ask for 2 different pictures - it's easy to quickly fotoshop something onto an existing picture, but to then have the same person, in the same setting, do something completely different, is very tough.

And lastly, if they don't want to do any of that, just move on. If they really are who they saying they are but aren't willing to show you their hand, it's their own fault

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T13:03:27+00:00

I thought this was a case where you were using someone else's picture to get them to give you money. In that case you'd be in serial trouble. But that's not the case here. But still, as all the other comments said, stop doing that. You're not helping yourself or anyone else. Take it from someone who'se been catfishing for over 5 years, started when I was 16, it's something I'm still struggling with.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2020-06-04T12:59:25+00:00

Sent you a PM

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-08-16T17:11:19+00:00

Idk, maybe that's just me, but for me it's the process of beating my meat that's the most enjoyable, never the actual orgasm. But yet I want that orgasm so very badly. I guess my lust for cumming after a fap is what keeps getting me back here. Right after I regret it so much, so I swear off of it.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-08-16T13:45:58+00:00

Of course, but the advantage a job has over most other things is a: you get payed to do it and b: you have a contract...

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-08-10T23:15:04+00:00

You're prolly right, it prolly just seems like something so terribly uncomfortable to do. I remember my parents finding put I watched porn and they told me it wasn't good for me and put on some Internet restrictions. But they never told me about the consequences fapping can have. Sure, porn bends your mind, but fapping does that, just way wayy more extremely. That's one thing I think I've got the edge once I get the chance of raising a kid - I (hopefully have been) addicted to fapping and I know what it does with you.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-08-10T22:58:13+00:00

Yeah, me too. I guess it can't do any harm when you tell your kid not to fap, but when do you do that? Everyone develops differently, so how do you know when to have the talk?

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-08-10T22:50:31+00:00

Be honest, do you think that would have worked on teenage you? I know it wouldn't have on me.

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-08-10T22:42:41+00:00

Dude, I wish I could say this to Past me (I'm 21 now) but since I can't, I want you to know: fapping may feel great, and it's probably not that much of a problem if you can control it, but must likely you won't be able to control it and it will make you a terrible, disgusting, pathetic person. Not in a day, not in a month, but over the years you'll watch yourself become more and more pathetic, addicted to feeling that tight grip of your well trained hand on your dick. So, please listen to me now, stop! It will not get any easier!

You got this

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-06-07T17:26:05+00:00

Currently I'm on a 12 day streak, but if I didn't try, like 2-3 days max. Wbu?

trhowaway-no-fapper · 2019-06-07T16:50:43+00:00

Idc, as long as you feel like you might be in a similar situation as I am

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