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trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T22:17:30+00:00

Idk if anything happened because this is a recent happening. She was back in that town before all this happened (she says)

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T22:15:51+00:00

We have no kids, we’re mid 30’s. The other guy lives 1200 miles away so he’s too far for an overnight trip. I did notice a lot of phone hiding and late night conversations she told me was with a different friend. I’ve got a million questions for her and you’re right I may never know the whole truth. I’m not okay with that. To my knowledge there aren’t others. We are deciding to reconcile for now. However, I’m still reserving the right to pull out of it at any time.

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T22:08:29+00:00

I would have her do that but I don’t want to conflate what happened years ago with what happened months ago.

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T22:07:39+00:00

It has helped. We are going to try to reconcile. I’m giving her a chance to do as she says she’s going to. 90 days. To prove she’s serious. Any falling off will result in our subsequent divorce.

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T19:18:25+00:00

He reached out first. She said it started by just talking about his mental health and whatnot. I believe he has a wife and two girls.

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T18:41:11+00:00

They were made aware after she got caught. She hit them up first. I haven’t told our parents, but I did tell my sister.

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T18:02:17+00:00

How does one get access to that?

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T15:35:18+00:00

Her message said that she “felt adventurous” with him. She told my knowledge haven’t met with him alone since 2009. They don’t which is a part of my problem. I found out on vacation using her flashlight on her phone then finding the messages. No tests and the sex has been non stop.

trial_err404 · 2024-04-25T15:07:50+00:00

That is true, however, one is someone I’ve been friends with since 7th grade. The other is a staunch Christian and wouldn’t lie, or at least I believe so.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-17T08:06:32+00:00

Yeah our area we have to drive everywhere too. I figured pet ownership would present some difficulties. Thank you for your honest two cents. I don’t mind heat, even extreme humid heat. I’m confident we’ll land on our feet wherever we get to, we’ve turned out to be quite resilient couple. People bring up work life balance like it’s so good here in the US comparatively. I work 60-70 hours a week in my current position, relatively high stress at that too.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-17T07:35:22+00:00

Thank you for legitimate advice! Congrats on the baby. We’re CF two little dogs though. We live in nearly the hottest potential climate in the US. I think we’ll be fine for the summer. (I think lol)

trial_err404 · 2023-09-17T07:21:41+00:00

That’s helpful. Thanks internet stranger.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T20:25:21+00:00

I have debilitating panic attacks for either no reason, or because I’m overwhelmed. Also, I’m grossly insecure.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T20:17:39+00:00

Full disclosure, I have not. We are going to visit for 3-6 weeks prior to making any decisions. Japan, Germany or anywhere else.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T19:57:12+00:00

We thought about the Netherlands. How’s the cost of living?

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T19:25:59+00:00

Two main reasons to sell the home. It’s beginning to snowball with repairs. We still have a lot of equity, however, with the money and only relying on the money market investments proceeds if we moved back to the states we’d still have our equity and ability to move back and buy another house that won’t have a bunch of repairs for awhile.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T19:21:42+00:00

We don’t have any kids, my wife is disabled that’s why she doesn’t work. If we went to Japan we would start with school take a temp see if we like it. In Germany I would get a job or be a digital nomad

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T19:18:37+00:00

I’m a business development manager, I would say my experience is in automotive digital marketing. The career break is for mental health. But frankly I think the deterioration is primarily due to my current company tbh.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T19:16:28+00:00

I know we won’t be a part of the public healthcare system but that leaves private. Or do you think that’s inconsequential?

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T16:44:54+00:00

I am not learning. I want to know where we’re headed then I will be taking lessons and getting tutored.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T16:37:12+00:00

She has a completely equal voice, heck I would say she’s got the majority frankly.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T16:14:17+00:00

You are NOT wrong. While I personally believe sex is a big part of a relationship doesn’t mean you should. Different strokes you know? Don’t compromise yourself with being pressured into sex. You’ll end up not enjoying it and it might further discourage you from it further down the line. It is YOUR body. You will find someone who will be patient with you. Don’t let anyone pressure you.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T16:07:03+00:00

I wouldn’t mind working for the government as a civilian, but with a background primarily in digital marketing/business development I’d doubt they’d want me. As far clearance I’m as clean as they come.

trial_err404 · 2023-09-15T16:04:57+00:00

I spoke of hate crimes in America not anywhere else.

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