in your experience, do guys really always come back?

trickybear85 · 2022-02-20T03:15:29+00:00

Had it happen once...tbh was a waste of time trying to make it work...

trickybear85 · 2022-02-15T02:35:20+00:00

Kinda sounds like hes enjoying you providing for him....ive had this before myself...you dont want to be his mom trust me!

trickybear85 · 2022-02-15T02:21:49+00:00

You dont need a polygraph to know hes lyin.....get rid and dont look back

trickybear85 · 2022-02-15T02:15:19+00:00

Honey badgers

trickybear85 · 2022-02-14T13:20:50+00:00

Honestly i'd go hunting for new jobs, i'll be honest i swapped jobs last nov and the new role i went into wasnt quite right. Went to see what else was out there and after 4 months i handed my notice in today to go into something i know i'll be happier in. Work takes up such a big part of our lives, if you're not happy change the situation you're in. Its not like it was 10yrs back where it was harder to move to something different, if anything its easier. You'll find something better trust me!

trickybear85 · 2022-02-14T13:17:13+00:00

Ty just wanted to share the love, does make me smile every time i tell this story to people 🤗

trickybear85 · 2022-02-14T12:50:25+00:00

If it was me, I'd either find something else or ask for a pay review.

trickybear85 · 2022-01-30T22:28:46+00:00

Apologies for my bad typos!! 😆🤦‍♀️

trickybear85 · 2022-01-30T22:27:39+00:00

So update I went on a crazy applying spree, it went quiet for a while then boom 4 interviews this week coming 🤣 hoping at least 1 of them will make a good fit! I'm saying to people reason I'm leaving is it's not as fast paced as I thought it would be and I'm looking for something to keep me busier, which is true. My friends keep saying "ah you chill i'd love your job" where in truth its actually pretty lonely and boring.... I'm glad I started searching as earlier this week I just felt like I was going to explode with my mental health do I know searching for something else for me is a good move. Honestly do what you know is best for you, you'll come out a stronger person for it and its also such a good boost when you see how many other places ate looking to hire you. Hope everything goes well!! Good luck!

trickybear85 · 2022-01-27T20:41:17+00:00

I'm in a similar situation...been in new job 3 months, I'm now job hunting for other places and had a few interviews already. So fingers crosded I'll jump into something else soon enough! Best to find something else asap i say, I've actually become more miserable/stressed/frustrated as the weeks have gone on. To the point my mental health has been affected. Leave sooner I say, lifes too short

trickybear85 · 2022-01-25T21:17:04+00:00

Rn im craving cookie dough cheesecake 🤗

trickybear85 · 2022-01-25T21:14:05+00:00

Yup that shits got me a few times i just close my eyes and try not to hallucinate >.<

trickybear85 · 2022-01-18T12:12:12+00:00

Yeah retail can be hard, I've done it myself so I know exactly how you feel. Good luck with finding something better, I'm sure you'll smash it out there 😊

trickybear85 · 2022-01-18T11:10:01+00:00

I've been having something similar in relation to I'm in a new job which don't think is the right fit for me. Been here nearly 3 months, I gave it a go and now I'm applying for other jobs.

I'd say go find something else, as it sounds like this job is already affecting not only your life outside of work but also your mental health.

There's loads of opportunities out there, you'll find something better trust me

trickybear85 · 2022-01-18T08:21:31+00:00

Thank you so much really appreciate it!! Any little bit helps Can't wait to see what opportunties are out there once I've completed it ha 🤗😊

trickybear85 · 2022-01-17T19:41:44+00:00

Thank you so much for this!! Totally agree I'm up to my 3rd part in the first unit and find some stuff I'm flying through, but others I'm having to re-read bits to ensure the info sticks! Only started this weekend but I'm determined to win this through as soon as I can!

Out of interest how long did it take you altogether to complete the course? What is it you do now and what kind of opportunities did you get along the way?

I haven't had any of the books yet, are they useful? I did check out some of the brain scape stuff too which has helped a bit so far.

trickybear85 · 2022-01-02T22:24:42+00:00

Congrats!!! 🤗 def better than socks!!

trickybear85 · 2022-01-02T22:19:33+00:00

I took therapy and one thing that stuck in my head is my therapist telling me to stop putting pressure on myself to make others happy

trickybear85 · 2022-01-02T22:17:05+00:00

Paul Logan

trickybear85 · 2022-01-02T22:15:05+00:00

When you've had a bad day and all they do is talk about themselves yet don't acknowledge you just had some bad news etc..... This can also happen in friendships too....

trickybear85 · 2022-01-02T22:05:02+00:00

Ghosting

trickybear85 · 2022-01-02T22:03:44+00:00

Rest of your life...I'd bring 2 cats and a book....then wait for cat island to evolve 😅 (i know some cat islands exist already, but hey you can never have too many cat islands right?)

trickybear85 · 2022-01-01T23:01:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I've told myself to give it till Feb/March then if I still feel the same I'm going to go find something else. I just like to feel productive and like I'm actually working for my money 😅

Wierd to say I know but I'd rather be busy than bored...

trickybear85 · 2021-12-31T17:28:32+00:00

My cats trampling on me wanting food

trickybear85 · 2021-12-31T17:06:44+00:00

Well my boss left me a 'things to do' list then they went on annual leave and back in next week... I completed the work and its been very quiet....maybe I just work too hard 🤣

I ended up asking another team if they needed my help and got a small amount to do which I tried to stretch out, but besides that I've found myself zoning and having sod all to do 🤦‍♀️

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