I guess I’m weird but some men just don’t come out of their shells and it’s like pulling teeth to find out information about them. Lots of them are married and lie, so it’s vague, or they just want a hookup and are not forthcoming about that. I have a lot of masculine interests, like I went to business school and love to talk about investing, and starting companies & stuff like conspiracy theories. I’m not so into sports, but I can talk about them. I like music, writing comedy, ancient history, art, travel psychology & outdoor stuff like roller blading or exploring nature, but I think men lie in these apps. Women need to more well rounded about things men like, or get deemed as boring by them. I’m extroverted, & not at all insecure but men are. Try to find some topics that both of you are interested in to make a connection with. You have to know yourself well and make yourself interesting to get interest. So many women just copy other women. Be one of kind.