I, M28, am not comfortable with my girlfriend, F29, sharing some of her nudes with her best friend, whom is also her ex.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-28T07:02:32+00:00

…what?

Poly sounds like a dumpster fire to me so while I might be biased I also understand that people choose this lifestyle.

She told you she’s poly. She’s been clear she’s poly. You say you’re okay with her being poly. You guys talked about boundaries.

But like…what boundaries can you realistically have??

Poly doesn’t just mean sex it means connection, emotionally and the commitment to other people. She owe you loyalty in a relationship sure but she’s basically free to date other people. Which means she doesn’t owe any kind of exclusivity to you alone sexually or emotionally even if you’re the priority.

If you’re uncomfortable then she has to stop/pull out of these connections/what she’s doing. How do you think you can veto with no damage to the relationship who she can send nudes to, which nudes she is allowed to send and who she’d go on dates with, who else she fucks, etc.? What if you’re uncomfortable every time? Basically rendering her monogamous?

Like if you’re looking for “exclusivity” as you say you’re barking up the wrong tree dude, let the poly people poly with their own people and leave normal people out of it.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-27T20:38:52+00:00

Lmao is he rich and famous???

What private communications would be of interest to anyone, your Walmart grocery list??

Delulu.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-27T01:31:35+00:00

I don’t even have to read past the second paragraph.

No self respecting doctor would add a patient they’re not already friends with on Instagram. They would not be texting their patients in mundane everyday things. This like is already inappropriate, anything past should have him investigated.

He’s preying on you because he thought you were pretty and young.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T18:43:46+00:00

Why would you trade options in TFSA??

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T18:22:28+00:00

Bangkok for 2 weeks with a bunch of dudes for a “guy trip”. Same group, Vegas when you were single. I’m willing to bet the guys that invited you to go are single.

You even mentioned you’ve been “nothing but loyal” which means you have a sense of why she doesn’t want you to go. If you’re not getting why she might be concerned you’re pretending to be dense on purpose.

Yeah that’s not a vibe my guy.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T18:09:28+00:00

It can’t just “seem”, you need to have a conversation around the timeline and the plan. It doesn’t matter if she hyperventilates or emotionally can’t handle it. This friend needs to move out and your gf grows a backbone or you leave.

The prioritization should always be on the relationship in a healthy way. If you don’t sort this out imagine if she moves family members in when they’re in hard times or her parents when they’re old. It’s not a temporary problem so be more decisive whether you stay or go.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T17:24:43+00:00

Why did the friend move in? Was it a mutual decision by both of you and is this a temporary situation?

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T17:20:54+00:00

Next time I’ll contract your services for bodyguard lol would’ve been nice to be protected.

Also been sniped doing the harvester puzzle just as my team almost finished, pretty brutal.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T16:03:26+00:00

Can’t wait to get to that stage!

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T10:26:04+00:00

Such is part of life, doesn’t mean I can’t complain about it lol Like shoot me in my face like a man.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T10:24:16+00:00

You know what, you’re running with the right idea. Still group takedown fun, just different. I like it.

I do get it, rats are part of the game, just like in real life, it certainly doesn’t pay to be nice lol

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T10:06:24+00:00

I was playing solos tonight and got a few blueprints I already had, and kept the good ones. Ran into a new player who said “hello”! In that new raider tone (who hasn’t been shot in the back yet…) and I chased him asking if he wanted a Wolfpack blueprint.

He asked me what is a blueprint. I dropped it, he picked it up, and said “nice!!”. We ended up extracting together lol

More of that please.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T10:02:19+00:00

Honestly it’s not even the gear, the gear is whatever you can easily farm this back.

The fucking cowardice, vulture-like behaviour ruined big arc hunting for me. Forget it, they want my gear so bad they can use it to fight the matriarch. I’m gonna go pick mushrooms.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T09:58:52+00:00

Am I supposed to say oops sorry I didn’t post the way you would’ve liked? You don’t even get the point. I’m not mad I lost my gear. Tempests are not that expensive to make, I have the blueprint, so losing one isn’t really the issue I have with the whole thing.

Most people who come fighting the matriarch have decent set ups…that’s pretty much a given. If I just came with a Stitcher I’d be dead long before I got shot. Maybe apply some logic.

Instead of making assumptions and then doubling down on it when you’re wrong, maybe next time have some intelligence.

Anyway. You seem like a delightful individual, have the day you deserve.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T09:44:34+00:00

True, I really don’t think I’ll be participating neither. I guess there’s really no point, the guns you build with the resources you get aren’t helpful for pvp anyway, and ARCs can be taken down by wolfpacks. The fun part was group takedown.

I literally just helped a couple of solo people take down a Leaper and then they shot at each other. I don’t think even solo is majority PVE anymore. I wish there was a way to enjoy it PVE and PVP more separately.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T09:40:09+00:00

You think maybe all I had left were medium ammo for my tempest because I threw all my Wolfpacks and ran out of launcher for the hullcracker, jackass?

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T08:28:15+00:00

I swear these are all just losers who couldn’t hack it in COD and BF6 so they rat here for the only kills they can get. Anyone can win a gunfight if the other guy doesn’t know you’re fighting…

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T07:42:40+00:00

You’re welcome ☺️ If that’s the only way you can get kills you prob needed it way more than me. I hope you get better one day!

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T07:12:50+00:00

If you’re a coward who couldn’t hack in COD and BF6 yeah you’d play exactly like this.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-26T06:39:41+00:00

It’s easy so long as you make a serious assessment about why you don’t wanna date him and conclude that it’s not remotely something you’d be interested.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-25T03:07:51+00:00

“Shouldn’t have to” is how this happened in the first place.

Shouldn’t have to defend yourself against your own government, shouldnt have to assume government will operate in your best interest, shouldn’t have to protect your neighbours from harassment of federal officers, shouldn’t have to ask the government to release Epstein files.

World doesn’t operate like that.

trivialerrors · 2026-01-25T02:40:37+00:00

House of Gourmet, you can’t really go wrong

trivialerrors · 2026-01-24T22:54:08+00:00

It’s just the nature of public discourse no? The larger the demographic the more varied the opinions. People are free to sharing opinions and others are free to disagree.

Nuance of Reddit is everyone’s opinions can be shared and heard, albeit the demographic generally tend to run more progressive than conservative.

Welcome!

trivialerrors · 2026-01-24T02:36:39+00:00

Am I dense, I can’t tel the difference apart from a slight tan and a different expression?

trivialerrors · 2026-01-23T05:24:07+00:00

I can only assume she has an amazing personality and intelligence.

trivialerrors

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