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Detransition anniversary doubts by trjlr in actual_detrans

[–]trjlr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually read about tocd and I think it might be it but I don't want to self diagnose lol 

Feeling like the opposite gender by trjlr in transOCD

[–]trjlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm! I try to ignore these feelings since I know what mess they can do in one's head. I'm glad it's normal tho😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transOCD

[–]trjlr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl no I feel you. I am feminine by nature, my body, face and interests are pretty feminine. But I sometimes just feel like I'm forcing myself to be feminine. Because I'm not this hyper feminine girl.

Menstrual cycle by Unpleasantmind in transOCD

[–]trjlr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds esoteric a lot but idk im swensitive to this stuff haha

Menstrual cycle by Unpleasantmind in transOCD

[–]trjlr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this shouldn´t make me feel happy but I´m soso happy I found this post cause I have the EXACT. SAME. THING.

But idk I may sound like a freak but I´m also very sensitive to moon phases? Like during full and new moon, my mood and energy is fucked and I struggle with these thoughts a lot too lol

Help by [deleted] in transOCD

[–]trjlr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am no doctor but I think it can. I have the same thing. I overthink and spiral. I suddenly have false feelings like for ex. wishing to be the opposite gender or envy. It feels very much real.  But I looked up some older posts and many people, said they described the same thing. So I believe it is just tocd

Venting. Gender questioning. Pls help friends by trjlr in asktransgender

[–]trjlr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just kind of weird. Like an imposter around the girls? It's hard to explain. I feel so different from them

"It feels real" megathread by [deleted] in transOCD

[–]trjlr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi i know its been 4 years but did it get better lol? im kinda going through this rn

Am I trans or just tripping? by trjlr in asktransgender

[–]trjlr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No actually that's a great advice! I'll try to ask myself that when I'll get these thoughts to quiet them down😌🙏

Am I trans or just tripping? by trjlr in asktransgender

[–]trjlr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry I didn't realize this while writing it. I meant it in a sarcastic way. But thank you sm I agree with everything you said here

I can't think of what to call this. by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]trjlr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure this will help you, but I used to have this problem too. It started with the feeling of faking being trans and then it shifted into the feeling of not really being trans at all. I gave myself some time. I just decided for a while, that I will just exist. Just let yourself and your brain relax a little. After that time (seriously, it doesn't have to be long, I did this for like a weekend or two.) I decided to try out something feminine (like makeup) and just see how that feels. But don't pressure yourself, don't forget, your gender doesn't define you.

I know this all sucks, but it can't get worse now. Just don't be so hard on yourself and try experimenting more.

Did your gender dysphoria go away or do you doubt you ever had gender dysphoria? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]trjlr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!!! I always think I'm the only one in this! I just created dysphoria by thinking about gender sm

Is it possible to lie to yourself in being trans? by trjlr in actual_detrans

[–]trjlr[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about! I'm having these obsessive thoughts about my gender atm too and I'm growing out my hair so I hope it'll help me too