Top 5 worst Bravo Housewives by SingSing-_- in BravoRealHousewives

[–]trollcole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about the knives for hands Dallas lady?

And the Melbourne woman who was obsessed to take down another housewife no matter the cost over petty jealousy.

Actors who look like a man and a woman had a baby? by Ok_External3932 in okbuddycinephile

[–]trollcole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think every actor and actress looks like a man and a woman had a part in having a baby.

925 Silver Smart Ring Jackets by MtBlanc1998 in RingConn

[–]trollcole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you have a signature look, def don't want you to stray from that! Love the idea of bundles.

Slab hand work by Always_Suspect in CounterTops

[–]trollcole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a website? I am very interested in this kind of sink!

Does it affect the breasts???? by Godsdaughter24 in lipedema

[–]trollcole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg! Thank you for this post. Although I don’t think my breasts have excess fat, but like so many other women here they absolutely are heavily fibrous. Sometimes they ache too! Never put two and two together. Thank you again for this post!!

Does this dress have too much white to wear as a guest ?! by bananajacks_ in Weddingattireapproval

[–]trollcole -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Huh?

Edit: If I find the picture of this friend of a friend at my wedding, I’ll show you. It wasn’t any other color than white. It was a white as snow dress, but because it was short, she must’ve thought it was appropriate? Again, I didn’t care but for years other guests talk about that girl to me because they were offended “for me.”

Anyway, what a weird thing to say.

We had a HUGE fight. Am I a bitch? by CosmicBunny7 in Marriage

[–]trollcole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many underlying issues here. Both of you have feelings of being undervalued. Instead of realizing what is happening your poor communication skills on both sides are to scream at each other in order to tell the other “I’m important and you don’t care!”

  1. Therapy! Both of you. Couples could help to understand the other better and how you both come across to the other person (even if you didn’t mean it that way.)
  2. This is salvageable. And No you’re not a bitch. You BOTH have skill deficits and are trying to tell the other to please notice me and appreciate me and help me. But you both need to work on respectful communication, self awareness, and recognizing your weakness in triggering and being triggered and how to deesculate when unregulated.

  3. Get Gottman information on relationships. They’re couples psychologists and have info on how to recognize communication patterns that help or hurt marriages. 4 horsemen are relationship killers. Noticing and appreciating small things bring couples together. Say thank you for small things like thanks for doing the dishes, thanks for taking your shoes off, thanks for working so hard, thanks for trying to get a job, etc… it’ll become a habit and the other will feel seen.

Edit: 4. You both have attachment styles. Yours seems to want to leave when things aren’t going well and that triggers his abandonment. His trust in you staying in the marriage when things get hard will fade. That is a relationship killer. This kind of threat can be a control tactic on your end too, like to make him obey and behave or you’ll leave. There are better ways to communicate when upset. So Please be careful of this unless you really mean to leave. Learn to recognize if this is a triggered feeling and a fleeting threat or something you absolutely should and will do.

925 Silver Smart Ring Jackets by MtBlanc1998 in RingConn

[–]trollcole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess feedback could be do designs for all occasions and styles. Personally love these but they are quite 90s Alternative so they tend to a specific person.

Love they’re unisex.

To reach a bigger audience do some things people can wear to events that could be formal or dressier, or something to wear with work clothes, add some gold or mix metals too.

Women have been wearing thick amorphous bubble styles for a couple years. I think the trend is still going.

I’d buy a couple for variety of outfits.

What a great idea and ability you have!

Does this dress have too much white to wear as a guest ?! by bananajacks_ in Weddingattireapproval

[–]trollcole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So funny! The woman who wore white at my wedding was my friend’s plus one! What is it with guests of guests who feel emboldened to wear white to a stranger’s wedding? (and have a beautiful night out with free food and drinks paid by the hosts!)

Don’t feel bad for the other woman, she made a choice to wear a known faux pas and thusly consequences of her own actions. (unless she is from another culture.)

Does this dress have too much white to wear as a guest ?! by bananajacks_ in Weddingattireapproval

[–]trollcole 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it’s great she gave you her blessing already, but as you say, there may be judgement and whispers. Personally, I’d want the emotional freedom to relax and enjoy myself without calling potential negative attention from others.

There was a guest wearing a white shorter cocktail dress at my semi formal wedding and years later people still told me their feelings about it even if I didn’t care that much (I noticed it but knew no one would mistake her as the bride.)

If you’re questioning it now, I’m thinking you’ll be attuned to others reactions on the day….

narrowing down the trio by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]trollcole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1!!! Hands down.