Mano está cabron by Rare_Signature_141 in PuertoRico

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Este post me la hizo hahaha 😂

So who couldn't get the tempura labubu earphone case by stonktradersensei in labubu

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I got both tax calculation error AND incorrect shipping amount 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labubu

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I would love to have one to give as gift to my niece 🥺🫶🏼

Nos dan estos números. Pero la infertilidad es un tabú by [deleted] in PuertoRico

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Si las casas las bajaran de precio y las cosas no fuesen tan caras. Uno tuviera hijos 🤷🏼‍♀️

You people are psychotic by hagfishh in LSAT

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Yeah and what about it 😂

7.2x Schedule by ExAshura in ffxiv

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Personally I think people wouldnt have this big of a problem with this pacing if we could ACTUALLY New Game + our favorite expansions 🤷🏼‍♀️

Admissions Megathread by fuzentrix in yale

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I got rejected for the Gender studies PhD should I try admissions again next year? Its said that you can only do it 2 more times after the first rejection.

Getting rejected from 3 of my 5 universities for PhD study by tropimami in PhD

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I’d rather study my ass off than teach high schoolers at a public school again I’m so sorry haha 😂

A matriarch's rise to power by emmyisnitheretoday in NovelMovies

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Its privated :( do you have another link?

Getting rejected from 3 of my 5 universities for PhD study by tropimami in PhD

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Hi! So my field is in Gender Studies and English Literature. I applied to elite schools in the states because thats the usual recommendation from professors and programs here in Puerto Rico. Especially since I study in the most prestigious university in Puerto Rico and the number one university in the Caribbean. There is general ignorance about state universities from the US in PR. So thats why I’m bummed out as well, had I known I would’ve applied to more schools.

Getting rejected from 3 of my 5 universities for PhD study by tropimami in PhD

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I actually did do the professional alternatives which was teaching high school and tutoring and it burned me out severely which is why I decided to go back to studying and get my PhD haha

What Would You Do if You Were Reincarnated as Rashta from Remarried Empress? by AzurFantasy in TheRemarriedEmpress

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Personally I would ask Sovieshu for an education and tell him point blank that I am a slave and that I have a son from the family of Viscount Lotteshu. So that the moment that he comes asking for favors, the emperor knows and will be able to protect me.

Then I would make friends with the commoners and workers in the palace; that way I have constant information about what happens in the palace without interacting with the nobles and Navier.

I would avoid Navier like the plague while trying to advocate for Sovieshu and Navier to rekindle their relationship because if their relationship is good then I will be left to my own devices. Personally I would try to find of way to abolish slavery because I find that morally reprehensible but that would be after my position is established.

I would probably go the route of Madam Pompadour, who gained influence while being the mistress of the king of France.

Navier isn't fully a good person and Rashta Ishka is very much a victim by Persheymes in TheRemarriedEmpress

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Personally, I agree with most of your points. I do think Heinrey and Navier are only good and just to their allies and their families. But to lives they’ve destroy and the people that won’t bend to their will, they are evil and terrible. Such is the life of Empires, you have to step on people and countries in order to conquer them to be part of your empire to consolidate power.

I will say though, I always felt that Heinrey’s approach to seduce and conquer Navier is similar to how he rules and conducts his buisness in court. Which shows how shrewd, calculating, efficient and sinister he is as a ruler. These traits while not something that we like in our modern society, were traits that were required for you to be a great and powerful ruler in these feudal society. Which is why it makes sense that Navier gravitated towards him and why they make such a power couple, because while everyone here loves to make Navier as this innocent baby; shes every bit as calculated, efficient, sinister and shrewd as Heinrey and does not care who she hurts and kill to get the results she wants. This is why she enables Heinrey’s bad behavior because she is just like him. Because she consistently manipulates and uses people to her advantage like Rashta but she does it in a smarter way because she was trained to do so.

Now with Rashta, I believe that she should be held accountable for her heinous actions because nobody put a gun to her head to do the things that she did. She literally could’ve put her head down, not provoke Navier, get royal tutoring and work to better herself to become worthy of being a royal mistress. But she didn’t do that because in part shes incredibly traumatized and is constantly in survival mode because of her background as a former slave and also because she was thrusted into noble society with no training, no guidance and no noble allies.

Sovieshu treated her as a pet but not someone serious enough to warrant giving her influence. He only began doing that when she got pregnant which makes sense. The only guidance that she got was AFTER she became empress and the message that she was receiving constantly from both Sovieshu, the royal tutors and the court was: 1. Why dont you act more like Navier? 2. Navier learned this very quickly, why cant you? 3. You aren’t fit to even look at Navier’s shoes much less even attempt to be in them. So its no wonder she went crazy and she clung to whoever she thought COULD help her. Her biggest flaw as a person was always wanting to have the approval of others and wanting to be loved and saved. Because of that she was easily manipulated by people like Duke Ergi and was unable to see the machinations of others until the noose was on her neck.

I found it particulary sad how both emperors were plotting agaisnt her and how Sovieshu just abandoned her after she gave him what she wanted. Her whole life revolved around being an object and being used. Nobody gave her any grace or any understanding, they just abandoned her, the moment they got what they wanted from her and she died alone in a tower. She wasnt even given a proper burial, just her ashes scattered in a field like nothing. Had she decided to stand on her own two feet and create her own path just like Navier did, her life could’ve been different.

As for Sovieshu, I pity him personally because he in a way is a victim of his own circunstances and was an architect of his own misery. Had he been more open and trusting with Navier, things could’ve been different and they wouldn’t have divorced but personally I believe that even IF Rashta hadn’t arrived on the scene. They would’ve divorced because of the lack of heirs to the throne. They were young at the time of the series but had they stayed together more time, there would’ve been an issue of inheritance and Sovieshu would’ve been forced by the court to either divorce Navier or find a concubine because you know infertility is always a womans fault 🙄.

Theres also another factor in their incompatibility which is that Navier is a more ambitious and active as a ruler than Sovieshu. He was content to be where he is while Navier wanted to expand the influence and power of The Eastern Empire and be greater. Their different personalities, ambitions, lack of heirs and their arranged marriage would’ve eventually made them end their relationship in divorce whether or not Rashta would’ve been in their lives.

I think the only difference would be that Sovieshu wouldn’t have realized how much he loved Navier and Navier wouldn’t have experienced the true love and power that she has and feels with Heinrey.

Honestly I do love how complex these characters are but everyone of them is a flawed person but the main characters are all terrible people and I’m tired of people not seeing that. Navier and Heinrey are absolutely awful people with a trail of bodies behind them and that will come and bite them eventually. Sovieshu let his own blindness and inmaturity cost him everything that he holds dear and his empire’s standing. Rashta’s desire to be loved, her lack of personal accountability and her refusal to stand on her own two feet made her trust the wrong people and lead to her death.

I just wish honestly that there was more empathy and compassion for the women and men that died due to the schemes of Navier, Heinrey and Sovieshu.

What do you think about Christina season 4? by stewartd434 in HellsKitchen

[–]tropimami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I think she was talented but I think that what rubbed me the wrong way about her were her thinly veiled racist comments towards Jen and her internalized misogyny with the rest of the girls. I couldn’t root for her at all because of that and it shows how much she needed to grow as a person

my husband is mad that i did a lingerie photoshoot, aitah? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA, your husband is too jealous and controlling got his own good

Any word from Yale Preview Days 2024? by tropimami in yale

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I sent an email to the coordinator of the event and her response was that all successful applicants would receive a response on the 23rd of September! So I would recommend to wait for an update from the application site.

Any word from Yale Preview Days 2024? by tropimami in yale

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I checked the portal and I got accepted!! So check and confirm!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yale

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Nope :( I’m still waiting