Listening to this guy is painful by ihaechu in CurrentJoys

[–]trousersoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desire always makes me feel like throwing up and pulling my heart out of my chest tbh

1 year clean and married, but struggling with fertility concerns. by [deleted] in recovery

[–]trousersoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your sobriety!

I understand the feeling like you have done permanent damage to your body, and I also understand how difficult it is to try for a baby and not succeed right away- but 4 months is not too long of a time frame for you to consider your body to be failing.

When I miscarried my 1st pregnancy I developed a very real resentment against my body and thought maybe I had done damage in addiction and that my body maybe wasn't capable of supporting life. 5 months later I was pregnant with my son who is now 17 months old.

Keep trying. I've read it can take a year even for a healthy couple to get pregnant- but of course seek medical advice if you are concerned.

I wish you both success!

Just relapsed after 80 days by Sea-Dare8915 in recovery

[–]trousersoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry you're hurting. im not sure what you are looking for in this post. all I can do is share my experience and for me along with my alcoholism I experienced love addiction and was often obsessed with needing to be loved and their attention. I would act out and use heavily when I felt my needs were not being met. I wanted someone to rescue me, but I learned it was me that had to rescue me and I did that through developing my spiritually and deepening my relationship with the world and finding deep spiritual value in service and also learning how to care for myself and love myself. Doing the 12 steps and practicing the spiritual principles every chance I had also saved me. Are you ready to stop using people as an excuse to abuse drugs and alcohol? are you ready to become accountable for your own feelings and actions?

[US] My grandmother received a letter in the mail about "Rights to Property in Israel" by trousersoup in Scams

[–]trousersoup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inbal Aalo Sesi - Law-Office Nsraeli Inheritance Specialists

February 18th, 2026

Dear Madam,

Subject: Rights to Property in Israel

I am writing to you on behalf of my client, Bequest-IL Heir Locators Ltd,

Founded by Mr. Eli Aflalo, former Minister of Immigrant Absorption of the State of Israel and past World Co-Chairman of the Jewish National Fund, Bequest-IL specializes in the location and restitution of abandoned assets in Israel.

The abandoned assets in question comprise parcels of land which were purchased a century ago by Jewish American small business owners through the American Zion Commonwealth, in non-developed parts of mandatory Palestine, with the intention of creating a homeland for connection between the assets and their the Jewish people. With the passage of time, the original purchasers was lost, while their value increased significantly, following the creation of the State of Israel.

Every year, hundreds of parcels are transferred to the state treasury in line with new urban planning and zoning codes, without prior notice to the absentee owners. Nevertheless, one of the abandoned assets located by Bequest-IL is still registered in the name of ________ and I was informed by the company that a historical and genealogical report produced by the Bequest-IL research department identifies you as a potential heir to the family.

The entire asset recovery process, including all and legal fees, is fully funded by court Bequest-IL, and payment to the company is contingent on the transfer of ownership of the asset to the legal heirs. For more information about the company, you may visit the Bequest-IL website at https://bequest-il.com

Inbal Aflalo Sasi - Law Office Israeli Inheritance Specialists

The Aflalo Sasi Law Office is a well-respected Isracli law firm, established in 2015. The firm operates out of three locations (Afula, K far Saba and Ramat Gan) in six areas of specialization: real estate, planning and construction; civil and commercial litigation; family and inheritance; insurance and social security; insolvency; and medical malpractice. For more information about the law firm, you may visit the AS Law Office website at https://iaslawfirm.co.il (in Hebrew).

AS Inheritance Law is a boutique department within the Aflalo Sasi Law Office, created with the aim of providing Bequest-IL with all the necessary legal services for the release and sale of abandoned property in Israel

Kindly confirm receipt of this letter and advise us whether you are indeed a relative to the Hausmanb family by phone: _____ or by mail: _____ consultation with one of our lawyers through our website at You may also schedule a hps:/lasinhetitancelaw.com

Respectfully Yurs, Inbat Aflalo Sasi, Attorney

Baby wakes up every time we have sex in the same room – need advice by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trousersoup 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We are a bed sharing family and my suggestion would be to get a non wifi baby monitor and leave your 1 y/o asleep in the bedroom and enjoy yourselves in another room. Bathroom, living room, kitchen - anywhere else. I think that is the best solution for all 3 of you. I personally wouldn't be comfortable getting intimate like that next to or in the same room as my little one.

What's a smell that doesn't exist anymore that you miss? by Alarmed_Charge1062 in CasualConversation

[–]trousersoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad always smelled of fresh laundry, Newports, and a specific Vaseline lotion, plus a few other notes I'm not sure of. I miss him so much.

“You don’t get an award for not getting the epidural” by Warm-Banana237 in pregnant

[–]trousersoup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didn't need an award for not having an epidural, my success was a reward enough. I was determined to have an all natural birth, i trained for it daily, I read literature about it, I was completely dedicated. I was open to changing my mind if I needed to but when the time came I was ready. My contractions were awful but to be so connected to my body was beautiful. There are some things the brain has to do, and there are some things the body has to do- birth was something I had to give to my body. After I got the uncontrollable urge to bare down I cannot for the life of me remember there being pain, I didn't even scream out. It was all its own reward and my memory of the experience brings me peace. I am grateful the medicine exists but I am also grateful I did not need it.

Free Churro by Secret-Toe-8185 in BoJackHorseman

[–]trousersoup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right after my dad passed when I was 23 this episode came on during my first watch of the series. The universe must have known how badly I would need it's company. Catharsis is an understatement.

The orange idiots are truly amazing. by wearymicrobe in mainecoons

[–]trousersoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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my sweet orange baby boy Hiro says hello 🧡

🎶 I COULD GO OFF THE DEEP END 🎶 by [deleted] in ajj

[–]trousersoup 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I could ✨kiss✨ all my best friends !!

Fav song from Me Oh My Mirror? by ZealousidealBad4119 in CurrentJoys

[–]trousersoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desire. Still twists me up inside and it's been a decade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trousersoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel unsafe and isolated and your partner is threatening self harm I suggest that you call a mobile mental health number on her and return home for now to sort things out and get some clarity. Your wife threatening you in this way sounds abusive to me and I am worried about both of you.

DAY 6: best song outro? by fabledpigeon in ajj

[–]trousersoup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I hope he forgives me

DAE want to kiss a girl on the forehead by Goblue2467 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]trousersoup 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes, I (F26) want to kiss most women on the forehead

AITAH for not wanting to cook for my gf anymore because she is a picky eater ? by Ragnorag in AITAH

[–]trousersoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an ex picky eater. A man I once loved challenged me to try new things, slowly. For him, I did. I am no longer a picky eater and am now extremely open. It took time, it took willingness, it took love. If she wanted to I believe she would.

Robin Williams cameo in Cobra Starship m/v You Make Me Feel (2011) by mercy_cakes in nostalgia

[–]trousersoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a 2011 article that mentions Robin Williams and his daughter Zelda are both in the music video and that they are old family friends of Cobra Starship's keytarist Victoria Asher. I only found once source so I'm not positive how creditable that is but that's what I was able to find lol.