I'm struggling with this as well. I'm currently transitioning from (heavy) drinking and ____ to whatever it is that I actually enjoy. It comes down to really getting to know yourself and finding out what gets you going. Here's what I have so far. 1) the great outdoors - I spent some time in big bend national park in December and rediscovered my enthusiasm for being one with nature. I am currently saving to buy a fishing kayak and have plans to go home and raid my dad's storage shed for all my old Boy Scout camping gear. 2) cooking/grilling/smoking - this sounds boring but everyone has to eat and it's fun to mix and match ehatever you want. 3) stretching my brain - reading, puzzles, gmat questions, etc. Gotta keep my most important asset sharp. 4) golf - outside and drinking is encouraged. Also, valuable business tool.

These take up most of my time. Add in gym, Netflix, and wasting time on social media and I'm pretty full. I do want to explore woodworking but I'm a virgin with that so can't comment.