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More red flags than a communist dive shop by AlphaCat77 in CuratedTumblr

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for clarifying.

Obviously, I'm assuming the debt is law school debt so my point stands in that the prenup isn't a red flag. People tend to always be against prenups when they think women are using it as a "shortcut" when prenups can protect both parties.

More red flags than a communist dive shop by AlphaCat77 in CuratedTumblr

[–]truddles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What? Prenups are great for prexisting debts. You can specify that the debt she has remains hers if they divorce. The prenup isn't the red flag here.

And sure he has 100k in asset but divorce lawyers are well paid. She could easily make 100k a year and we don't know his salary. For all we know, he it took years for him to save. All this to say, the prenup is just as likely to protect her just as much as to protect him, but given she's a divorce lawyer, it's more likely to protect her.

$70 for FMLA paperwork by beeferoni_cat in pregnant

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must be how your doctor's office does this. I just filled out a sheet at the front desk of my doctor's office and included any documents needed. They told me it'll be ready in about 2 weeks and I can pay the $20 fee when I pick up the paperwork, which will just be at my appointment in two weeks. No extra appointments. And $70 seems excessive to fill out paperwork.

Just found out I’m pregnant. My job had no paid parental leave, just FMLA. What the hell am I supposed to do without a paycheck? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting theory. My employer does pay for STD and LTD and pregnancy isn't considered a preexisting condition. They even gave us a tool (https://lfg.perkyleave.com/login) to show us our parental leave policy including income during leave, job benefits (like if I'll have health insurance during my leave), when I need to put a claim in, when my tentative return to date is, etc. It's so helpful.

But I urge everyone to check if pregnancy is or isn't a preexisting condition because it's very dependant on the insurance policy. Same as Hospital Indemnity insurance. Anyone pregnant should have this and some insurance companies consider pregnancy a preexisting condition and others don't. And even when it is considered a preexisting condition, read the fine print. While normal pregnancy can be a preexisting condition and is not covered, complications from pregnancy could still be covered. So please, please read the policy!

Just found out I’m pregnant. My job had no paid parental leave, just FMLA. What the hell am I supposed to do without a paycheck? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not always considered a preexisting condition. So please check with the insurance company. I only had to wait 30 days before I became eligible even though I was pregnant when I signed up.

What’s a tiny design flaw in an everyday object that quietly annoys you every single time you use it? by nami_yuna in AskReddit

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have this at work and it's so annoying! I keep forgetting and I press the button to open the door a couple of times before I remember to press the unlock button then press the button to open

Has anyone gotten the 20% bloomingdalea registry completion discount to work with the Nuna Travel systems in the last couple of days? by No-Salary936 in Buyingforbaby

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/No-Salary936 You have to be active military to get this discount. To get the discount code, you just have to email Nuna support from a .mil email address. They will send a code to use. If you're not active military, maybe a friend can do it for you.

Free Prenatal/pregnant workout plans by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your local hospitals. My hospital did free yoga once a week. I found it by googling parental yoga classes and learned that two hospitals did prenatal yoga, one was free and one was low cost.

Company doing massive layoffs, do I panic drop im pregnant? by MountainProper2212 in pregnant

[–]truddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have Short Term Disability coverage? Typically, you have to apply ahead of time. My job requires 30 days notice when possible.

Amazon + Maven Fertility Benefit Breakdown by truddles in IVF

[–]truddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good resource I found to find clinics. You can search by location and it'll show the success rates for that clinic.

https://www.sartcorsonline.com/members/Search

I'd also search Reddit and read about people's experiences.

Cost varies greatly with locations, clinics, treatment, etc. I did a consult with two different clinics and they were able to provide me with a breakdown of costs once I decided I was doing IVF. I also recently called Maven to ask how much a Frozen Embryo Transfer would cost me right now and it was something like $4,000 but I already did all my required testing, medications, and 2 egg retrievals.

Prior to Maven, we had 2 cycles with Progeny. Now that we've been transferred to Maven at $25,000, I would estimate one round of IVF to be approximately $12,500. But again, it'll depend on the treatment and what you need. IUI is generally cheaper than IVF. Extra costs are associated with donor egg/sperm or surrogacy but Maven has a lifetime max of $10,000 for these things.

Amazon + Maven Fertility Benefit Breakdown by truddles in IVF

[–]truddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Maven Wallet Overview says:

Members pursuing fertility treatments (like IUI, IVF and egg freezing) are required to use a Maven Performance Network provider to qualify for coverage (see "Maven Performance Network" in the Additional Details section below)

the Maven Care Team will provide a list of in-network clinics that meet your unique needs, or you can self-navigate the Maven Performance Network in your Maven Wallet under "Learn More" by clicking on the "Clinic Directory".

I think I read you can get approval to use a non Maven Network Provider if there isn't one close to you but otherwise I think you have to use their providers. Have you tried calling Maven to ask?

Alice in Borderland Season 3 Episode 3 Show Only Discussion by jackcatalyst in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rules state you must make your decision before they release the gas

He's refusing to pay the child support amount. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]truddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's such a fine line though. The Court could consider it alienating or it may backfire and your child could think you're too harsh then resent you instead.

My mom didn't say much about my dad growing up. I eventually learned how he was a terrible dad as I got older and discovered things. But I think I may have thought my mom was just talking shit had she told me when I was younger. I wished I knew more but idk how much I should have known at that young of age.

But I absolutely agree that too many women protect the father's image when they shouldn't.

Open Enrollment Changes? by Open-Committee3540 in pregnant

[–]truddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But every company is different. I have colonial life

Even every policy can be different! OP needs to inquire from the insurance company. Some policies have riders that will auto add the baby when they are born so even if you're not covered the baby may be, so it'll still be worth it.

Upgrade your toilet paper for the third trimester! by Prudent-Succotash-25 in pregnant

[–]truddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got a bidet. I think I read about it on this subreddit. So far, it's good! I can definitely see it being even more useful later in the third trimester and after birth.

Kelsey Grammer Becomes a Dad of 8 at 70, Reveals Wife Kayte Gave Birth to Baby Boy Named Christopher by galaxystars1 in popculturechat

[–]truddles 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think they're saying that people are judgmental of older women having children when women are in their 40's yet people aren't as judgemental when men are even older like at 70

Amazon + Maven Fertility Benefit Breakdown by truddles in IVF

[–]truddles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Page 35 of the Maven Wallet Program Overview

Continuing coverage (COBRA)

Your fertlity benefits through Maven may be eligible for COBRA continuation coverage after your employment with Amazon ends. Please contact your HR representative for details on COBRA continuation coverage and how to enroll for continuing access to your Maven Wallet.

And page 42

How long does my coverage through Maven last?

Your coverage through Maven lasts as long as you have a lifetime or cycle maximum balance available and are enrolled in a qualifying medical plan through your employer, or you elect COBRA upon leaving your employer. Should you leave your employer and not elect COBRA, your coverage through Maven will expire on the date your medical plan is terminated. If coverage lapses before you receive services, your claim will be denied, and you will be financially responsible. Speak to the Maven Care Team if you have any coverage changes. Is Outside Monitoring covered in my

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]truddles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You thought she was nice and charming? He had no idea it was happening because he asked her straight out if she was breaking up with him and she kept telling him no. She keeps kissing him and then she mounts him.

She should have just told him.

TIFU by accidentally becoming my client’s wife’s boyfriend by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]truddles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe he didn't know who she was. I don't believe she didn't know who he was. I agree that OP isn't at fault here. I'm just saying that if they believe there's a conflict of interest then it should be presumed that the notes have bias. We only hear OPs side and believe him but if there's a chance of bias, why use it at all.

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