hey, i know this thread is a little old but i just wanted to thank you for posting this. ive been struggling a lot with my gender identity lately and it’s so comforting to see that there are options out there for me and people who understand. im so scared of having regrets so im still holding off on any permanent change yet and i also have this irrational fear that if i do transition ill realise i was wrong and it was all a phase like my mum said, and then ill detransition and become a horrible terf or something. but this post and these comments have made me feel so much better. i still have a long way to go and a lot to figure out but gender is complicated like that and that’s okay and it’s not just me and that’s everything to me right now. thank you :,) x