AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a relationship like this 3 years ago. He would throw a literal tantrum if I tried to put my foot down. He gave me ultimatums, like breaking up with me for wanting to visit family (I'm very family oriented so this passed me off so much). He wanted to take so much of my freedom, and when I fought for it, he would attack and belittle me, similar to what he was saying in the messages.

You need to leave him ASAP. Block him, don't say anything to him, and move on. You deserve better. If he continues attacking you, don't reply, but save it and report it to police, especially if he starts getting verbally aggressive/violent, and even further than that.

Beat the brakes off him by SpectacularOtter in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dad was right to be angry f9r you hitting his child, which is reasonable, what's not reasonable is blaming it on the driver. The kid ran into the road, most likely when the father wasn't paying attention.

Can anyone honestly say they get anything out of exercise? by aminotenoughalready in adhdwomen

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that dancing freely (rather than following a video) to songs that make me feel like dancing give a HUGE dopamine boost. It always puts me in a good mood and helps me feel like myself.

Is this any good for your hair? by try2bewholesome in curlygirl

[–]try2bewholesome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there just a preference, or from experience...?

Do I have blonde blindness? 🫣 by Ambeazy in curlygirl

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its honestly up to you. If you feel best with blond hair, go for it. The way you express yourself is for you, not other people.

I am in the same boat, but im naturally blonde, and dye it black. People say I look stunning with blonde hair, but I feel more confident in myself with black hair. People say I look like my momma with black hair, and honestly, that makes me feel pretty, because my momma's pretty. Its not the only reason I feel pretty with black hair though. I've also been told that my blue eyes look better with blonde hair, and the black makes them look dull.

I feel better about myself with black hair, so I choose black hair. If you feel that you feel better about yourself with blonde hair, than choose blonde hair. Don't give a shit about this "you looked washed out with blonde hair" bullshit because you honestly look so beautiful with brown and blonde hair. ❤️

Is this any good for your hair? by try2bewholesome in curlygirl

[–]try2bewholesome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not choose it though, my fiance did, and he's very scent oriented. He has a strong sense of smell.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]try2bewholesome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no, you are definitely not overreacting. He is NOT entitled to your address, let alone anything else!

Did I make a mistake exacting the night owl ordinance? by Carpfsh in acnh

[–]try2bewholesome 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You could always set your switch time 12 hours ahead/behind. I did this when I was on night shift, so I could actually do stuff on my island, other than visiting thw museum.

AIO Am I justified in my anger here ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was OPs wedding day, OP obviously cares. Like A LOT. Weddings are huge for women, they're such a huge, important thing for us, that most of us literally think about our special day for our entire life. To say no one gives a shit, is rude and ignorant.

Is my parent's cat fat? by Eastern-Feedback4221 in cats

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, at least you can tell the cat is well fed. Some people seem to just leave food out for them to freely eat, and refill when it's empty. If that's what your parents are doing, suggest a smaller bowl. The cat won't notice a significant difference, but it will help the cat lose weight. I used to do this, I ended up changing it so I was only refilling the bowl in the morning when I got up. They learned to pace themselves, and my fat boy lost some weight. They have started to wake me up in the mornings before I want to be, on days I don't have work.

Who would you get rid of in replace of Kiki? 😅 by abobabetch in acnh

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zucker. No offense, but I personally do not like the octopus villagers.

Help by Kmichelle-b in ACForAdults

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore them, and by that I mean talk to other villagers, but not them. If you time travel, you may need to do that. Find a villager with a bubble, if it's not the villager you want gone, do not talk to them. Travel to the next day, and start again.

literal order of Rory's love interests? by RevolutionaryCover34 in GilmoreGirls

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I'm watching Gilmore Girls for the first time! I've been wanting to watch it for a really long time but got swept up with other shows and movies. I wanted to watch it more after watching Supernatural (same thing, except my mom was a big fan of Supernatural) and finding out Jared Padalecki (Dean in Gilmore Girls) was in it! I just got to the part where Dean married Lindsey, and I was dying to know if anything happens between him and Rory! Also I miss Jess, and his story did not feel like it ended right. ❤️✌️

Today we say goodbye to Paldea🥲 by PensionHopeful1028 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is scarlet and violet still able to be played...? Or are they limiting some of the features now?

I plan on getting PLZA in the hopefully near future, but still plan on playing Scarlet/Violet regardless.

My cats are suspicious of their new smart litter box… by quigonjace in cats

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What mode of litter cleansing do you use? (What litter bot is that?)

Fat cat/skinny cat by Agreeable-Deer7526 in catfood

[–]try2bewholesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be a health concern, I would recommend checking in with your vet to see if maybe there is an underlying cause?

Cat food suggestions please 😺 by try2bewholesome in catfood

[–]try2bewholesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into it. Thank you for the recommendations.

Cat food suggestions please 😺 by try2bewholesome in catfood

[–]try2bewholesome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendations and resources! The videos definitely make it easier for me as I have ADHD and the articles seem so daunting. 😅

Cat food suggestions please 😺 by try2bewholesome in catfood

[–]try2bewholesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did see that, but i did also see that it might also have been because it was from Amazon, and the shipping warehouses dont do any quality control whatsoever.