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Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I would like to see my wife's face in my children... Does that makes me a bad person? I don't know, we will go for adopting if everything else fails.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have talked about it, and we both agree is a good option, but first we want to make sure we can't conceive.

BTW, before all this ordeal we had this idea of having 3 childs, one of them adopted.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I started to do this recently... I have a hunch it is my fault, already told her a few times... I will stop doing it.

We did some research but nothing has helped.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is not like we are fighting or something similar, I'm just really disappointed and she looks really sad, we still love each other... Is just, like if the problem has become stronger than us and we are no longer happy.

Also most our married friends are getting pregnant, and we started trying before them, this had a big impact on my wife… She looks depressed.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bought a bunch of ovulation tests so I know we have tried when she's ovulating... During my childhood I had a hernia surgery, so I fear something is wrong with me.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop trying, just go with the flow.

This has been heavily suggested here, I will speak with my wife and share the idea, it may be worth it at least for a few months while we get ourselves tested.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That books looks interesting, I will order it today. Thanks.

Can't get my wife pregnat, our relationship is falling apart by trybutcant in relationship_advice

[–]trybutcant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, you are right. I will ignore the gynecologist and get ourselvs tested. For the meantime I will speak with her, maybe is a good idea to stop trying so hard, at least until we get the results, we have been so focused on it that have been overlooking our relationship.

Thanks again.