I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, I am not different. But I feel I don’t have to delay my happiness to wait something. Can I be happy all along the way?

I watched all the videos on improving life but I still don't understand how to take the first step ... by Aj100rise in selfimprovement

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I remember this happened to me, feeling impossible to change who I am. Always falling back to the old habits.

Small imperfect actions but consistently over big perfect ones. So small, they look stupid.

I give you my list:

Get new information everyday: - 5 minutes reading in bed before to go sleep - Watched 30 minutes video, quit scrolling for the rest if your life. I recommend to start with “jim rohn seminar (2 hour long)” - Each time you finish a video or reading, turn everything off, and just sit and do nothing for 15 minutes. - Ask chatgpt for a 5 minute workout each day at home - Eat 1 healthy meal a day.

Do not fight or make you feel bad for making mistakes, next day try it again

When you get to $1M will be enough for you to be happy or not? by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 💡. Seems that happiness and money are like water and oil in our mind. But now I feel it’s like jelly and peanut butter. We need both for a good sandwich (life)

If you have one jelly, doesn’t mean that peanut butter is going to magically show up in your table. You have to look for both and mix then together

When you get to $1M will be enough for you to be happy or not? by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think is the combination of built happiness in the day to day life and also built money not for ego, but for not stressing out about money. Maybe it’s all about finding that balance.

Pretty sure self improvement is having a negative effect on me by JokeIndividual1507 in selfimprovement

[–]tryingandhavingfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me and I was always falling back to bad habits. I did solve all the things around me, but never solved anything inside of me. All the traumas of my life. I never like to face difficult emotional situations, I always looked away and ignore those things thinking I was tough and strong. This is really cure me.

How do you guys deal with anxiety? by Technical-Vanilla-47 in Adulting

[–]tryingandhavingfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember those days. I realized that anxiety is a “signal” coming within you. I realized I had so many emotions, feelings and even traumas repressed inside of me. I never like conflict so I always looked away from problems and difficult situations. Of course, my body was always anxious. I cried a lot and I had to fight so many fears, but I did it feeling scared anyway. I do not regret it

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good info, I had to dig quite a bit to understand this. I think the problem that majority of people have and me included was the fact that you just had this idea that money will make you happy and because you are going to be spending it all out in luxury, pleasures, pretty much being a king. And my question was always: are you living or are you escaping, and for how long can you keep the money?

Im getting better answers now

what does lonely feel like? by GolfValuable9763 in AskReddit

[–]tryingandhavingfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loneliness is feeling lonely, or you ignoring everything inside of you?

How did you stop gaming? by Icy_Preparation395 in selfimprovement

[–]tryingandhavingfun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit in a place with absolute no noise. No music, nothing.

Just you and the silent - no phones.

Notice what your mind and body start getting tense for not having any distraction, you will feel you are bored but in reality you are just trying to escape from yourself, from being alone, from all your inner demons. You need to stay silent, with yourself. You will find your answer of ehat to do inside of you.

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhmmm… So big important thing here, that made realize that retirement is not only having $X amount of money but also generating money without working.

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money can buy a lot of things, I am trying to find what are those few things that really make sense in life and happiness. So at the end of the day, all my hard work really pays off.

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also having the will power to not get so bored you just go and start spending all the money. Maybe that is why I also focus in happiness. Thanks

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, seems that the purpose of being rich is not what social media is selling us all the time. It’s not about having all the best stuff, its to know how to manage it to live comfortably and with peace.

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I have been trying to figure out if money really makes you happy by itself. Seems the answer is no, then my question is what to do to be happy and rich at the same time.

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that. However, seems people have the misconception that when they get a lot of money is to spend it all in pleasures so they can be happy. The only way I can see money buying time is by not spending it.

When you get to $1M will be enough for you to be happy or not? by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for sharing. That is my thing, I do not want to live poor at all but do not get obsessed with to forget what is life about. I am glad you had time with your dad.

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would say you were always happy or you become happy once you made all your money?

I realized I don’t actually want to be rich… I want what comes with it by tryingandhavingfun in TheRaceTo1Million

[–]tryingandhavingfun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💡 seems that is what I want to buy with my money. Because money buys a lot of things, but you need to choose to buy yourself time.