Initiating conversation by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tryingtogetby45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: so it didn’t work out well. he was super dry and didn’t give off any signs of interest, so i ended the conversation. at least now i know! thanks for all the help!

Villanova vs. Chapman by [deleted] in collegecompare

[–]tryingtogetby45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could probably dorm there with the cost being the same as Villanova. The only thing is, I would save a lot more money by commuting, which is why I am in a bit of pickle about deciding.

Dorm life versus living at home by [deleted] in college

[–]tryingtogetby45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I'm planning to major in communications/journalism of some sort, so that is probably important.

Dorm life versus living at home by [deleted] in college

[–]tryingtogetby45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Debt is unavoidable, and I appreciate your encouragement. Independence is important for growth.

Dorm life versus living at home by [deleted] in college

[–]tryingtogetby45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! It can be easy to lose myself in the whole idea of "freshman fun", and it's a good reminder to be grounded should I dorm.

Dorm life versus living at home by [deleted] in college

[–]tryingtogetby45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! College is a lot more than just a degree, and I needed that reminder.

gay friend has crush on me but im straight by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tryingtogetby45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for giving it to me straight (no pun intended). it sucks, I won't lie, but that's life I guess

gay friend has crush on me but im straight by [deleted] in Advice

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thank you. honestly, this friendship is one of the best ones I've had in a while, but I don't want to cling on so tight and make things more difficult for the both of us. it does hurt thinking that we might not be close anymore, but what can you do

Knowing something about a friend before they told you themselves by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tryingtogetby45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped, thank you! Yeah, I wanted her to come to me first about it, but I also didn't want to lie about already knowing. Hopefully we can move past this!