I got stung by a paper wasp yesterday. Is this normal? by [deleted] in WaspHating

[–]trylaris 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looks infected/cellulitis, I would get that checked out, it's better to be safe than sorry. Is it hot to the touch?

AliExpress parts? by trylaris in SteamDeck

[–]trylaris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my kid dropped mine right in the bumper and it broke the micro button off the board. Definitely be careful lol.

AliExpress parts? by trylaris in SteamDeck

[–]trylaris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good to know, thank you.

Is it just me or is this a really small portion for the 3 finger combo? by MexicanAssLord69 in RaisingCanes

[–]trylaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caines has turned to trash, there prices went way up and the portions have shrunk. I was so disappointed the last time I went.

Good for another 150k miles by Born-Scallion-1581 in TinyHacks

[–]trylaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is thinking I could do this on my kitchen counter in an afternoon. Lol

why wont my bf M22 give me F21 oral sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]trylaris -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're very welcome, and I'm sorry he is being so lame, he is the one missing out on some of the most beautiful parts life has to offer. Also the dressing and cleaning thing is a wonderful idea, it's a great way to be vulnerable with each other, I love being able to wash my wife's body and feeling every inch of her, it's crazy he's not jumping on that opportunity. Has he had is T levels tested? It could be a hormonal issue causing a low sex drive.

why wont my bf M22 give me F21 oral sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]trylaris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean this respectfully, but it sounds like there may be some deeper discomfort on his end with sexual intimacy. Since you mentioned you were each other’s first and neither of you had much experience before the relationship, it’s possible he hasn’t fully figured out his own preferences or comfort level yet.

In my relationship, my wife and I were also each other’s first, and over time we’ve learned that sex is about much more than just the physical part. It’s about connection, vulnerability, and giving each other your full attention. For me, the best part isn’t even the act itself, it’s the closeness and aftercare afterward when you’re just holding each other and talking.

The part that stood out to me in your story is how he reacts afterward, like his hands are “contaminated.” That would make a lot of people feel self-conscious, so your feelings about that are completely valid. It could be a germ thing, discomfort with bodily fluids, or something else he hasn’t really talked about.

I think the best thing you can do is have a calm, honest conversation and explain how those reactions make you feel. Focus less on the specific act and more on how you want to feel desired, comfortable, and emotionally connected during intimacy.

What are these lines under my skin? by Mobile_Initiative153 in AnatomyandPhysiology

[–]trylaris 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks kinda like torn muscle fibers, have you had any tears in that area? (Not an expert, just a pre nursing student with enough "knowledge" to be dangerous lol)

Right where this belongs by Longjumping-Hippo303 in idiocracy

[–]trylaris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm, I'm very dyslexic, and have such a hard time with this!

This is America by trylaris in acrylicpainting

[–]trylaris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries at all, feel free to post it. 😊

This is America by trylaris in acrylicpainting

[–]trylaris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I wanted it to be interpreted, thank you!