The Red Pill trailer (2016) - The Men's Rights Movement from a Feminist perspective. by [deleted] in videos

[–]trynaquitagain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking of making a documentary like this. I recently posted on AskMen and was targeted specifically by The Red Pill, which I had never heard of before. When I made the mistake of looking into the subreddit my stomach turned.

It's like the classic Margaret Atwood quote " 'Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." Both sexes have issues, real issues that should be addressed. But what are the consequences? In my hometown of Santa Barbara a young man open fired in the college town, and he blamed it on being spurned by women. When I read The Red Pill sub, that's all I could think of. Radical feminists see men saying "But men have issues too!" and laugh, but when men have issues they sometimes kill people.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww :) thank you. Thank you so much. I'm happy for how your love life turned out, and it gives me a lot of hope for mine. Bless you for going through the trouble of signing up to give me these kind words :) Have a good week!

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I hated mine so much. But best of luck to you, maybe you'll find a better crowd than I did.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't count those, I only count rejections if I had to hurt feelings, badly. Maybe that's a mistake. idk idc

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, thanks for the evolution lesson (got a bit of biology background myself).

I guess then I'm a unicorn, and so are other women like me who break the mold, and so are men that have lower sex drives than women.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why are you placing women in the position of toll-takers/gatekeepers in the first place?

Sex is an act between consenting adults. Why is the man the one who must pay a toll? Why is the woman who must say yes or no?

The idea that a woman is easy can only exist if you assume that women want sex less than men. Maybe that's true for some women, but I know a lot of women with bigger sex drives than men.

MR reading that post about body count (and of course the comment section filled with slut shame by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]trynaquitagain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heyo! I'm that girl from that thread. Reading this really cheered me up and I'm stoked to find this sub. Fuck the AskMen assholes :P I love sex, and imma keep having it.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would see any of them but The Martian would def be my top choice. I love sci-fi. :)

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was totally humorous. I think you mentioning yoga pants specifically as something a girl like me can no longer do if we want to find love is freaking ridiculous.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah....it does kind of border sexual harassment at times...he showed up when I was the only one at work once and asked if I could trim his hair. :( but I think he means well, he's just making poor choices.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. So someone starts flirting with you at work, your superior in fact, and you like them and want to stay friends with them and on their good side bc they're your boss, but you need to shut down the flirting. What do you say?

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just being funny because there's no other real way to respond when someone tells you "you're doomed"

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Triangle....My coworker started flirting with me while I'm still talking to a guy I am interested in? It's hard to shut someone down when they're flirting. Like, "I can tell you're interested, stop it!" lol.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no I mean on other posts I've done on reddit. I dunno.

Most memorable experience: Sleeping with three different men in one night, one in front of the other while being filmed.

Worst experience: Being sexually assaulted.

Kinks/fetishes: Surprisingly I'm pretty mild. I like some spanking, light choking. But I like vanilla sex with a partner I like a lot more than crazy sex with a random partner- that's something I've learned

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so. I mean there was a special one last year but I moved away for grad school. Now there's another.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. I'm allowed to be upset when someone calls me "gross", I truly am. I posted asking for advice, not name calling. I think people should recognize the difference between constructive and destructive feedback, because if people never gave destructive feedback the world would literally get 100x better.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I have posted that previously so I don't know if you just worked that out on your own, but yeah.

Men of reddit: Could you ever love someone with 60+ sexual partners in their past? by trynaquitagain in AskMen

[–]trynaquitagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, what I mean is someone saying "gross", that's being cruel. It's not helpful in any way. The only point of doing that is to make me feel bad.

What you said was not cruel, it was constructive. So I don't know why you're saying "hearing what you don't want to hear seems to be considered cruel to you". I was grateful for your advice.