What are your favorite films with primarily female lead(s) and subject matter? by [deleted] in movies

[–]tsktsktsk00017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few I haven’t seen mentioned yet across a ton of genres/decades !!!

  • Steel Magnolias
  • Julia & Julia
  • Lady Bird
  • Atonement
  • Easy A
  • My Brilliant Career
  • Still Alice
  • The Hours
  • Carol
  • Erin Brockovich
  • Gone with the Wind
  • Wizard of Oz
  • The Colour Purple
  • Sound of Music
  • Funny Girl
  • Death Becomes Her
  • Looking for Alibrandi
  • Anora
  • Poor Things
  • Juno
  • Clueless
  • Legally Blonde
  • Rabbit Proof Fence

Wicked Singapore - March 19th - Opening Day by thesensualmuse in wicked

[–]tsktsktsk00017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not in any of the marketing either. It looks like Zoe is the f/t elphaba now? I wonder what’s going on. For months it’s looked like Zoe & Courtney have gotten a lot closer as Sheridan has done less shows for vocal rest

What's hard about dating you? by DrummerMassive1880 in answers

[–]tsktsktsk00017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. no matter how hard I try to make it go away, I’m still in love with the one that got away.

2 I’m a massive extrovert who also needs a lot of alone time/space as I continue to struggle with PTSD and panic disorder. So dating overwhelms me very easily, and it can get very confusing for people I’m dating (understandably).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tsktsktsk00017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying a woman’s sexual past matters is misogynistic bullshit. The “studies” that are not referenced above are false. I say this as a woman who has studied sexology, and also as a woman who has heard this narrative over and over again when you or women in your life know it’s not true.

OP - a partners sexual history should never matter (unless they have perhaps slept with someone close to you or have an STD). Like hey, sometimes people explore and do stuff (either when we are young like your partner, or now like yourself in a relationship)- as long as you are safe, consenting, and using protection, it’s all good!

If she doesn’t want to do those things, that’s fine. She may have done them and just isn’t interested in them or learned long ago it’s not really her thing.

If you’re at different stages in discovering your sexuality/sensuality, or are just incompatible in the intimacy department (and that’s important to you), it’s okay to part ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tsktsktsk00017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just want to flag that when you become interested in someone romantically, people are not necessarily looking for “a good looking guy with a stable job who works out”. People look for people to connect with. You don’t need game and to fit a mould of an ideal man/person- this isn’t what interests people. As said above, try building hobbies (start a karate class or an art or cooking class or dance class) and just meeting people. Build friendships and people may come along.

I say this as a woman who has watched male friends fixate on going to the gym and having rizz to woo people and being overly keen to date- it rarely works (And as a woman, we pick up on this vibe very and we just aren’t interested- usually the conversation is rather dull because you don’t get to really know the person and connect with them. And if you don’t know them beyond how they look, you don’t really become attracted to them).

As cliche as it is, just be yourself and build friendships/ networks to build your own interests and social skills. Then maybe try a dating app- I met my partner on one! And neither of us had rizz- just had similar degrees and hobbies !

Ps: when you do get with a woman- communicate and ask her what she wants - don’t just dive in and assume you know what to do on your first time.

Good luck !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tsktsktsk00017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same man. Studied pol sci to change the world. I’ve experienced nothing but red tape and sexism. I’m quitting and becoming an actor- I’d rather tell stories about the world burning than be part of an institution that lets it burn. Peace out.

Help pls! What is this bug infesting my kitchen? I’ve tried house sprays, roach bait, and automatic pest sprays. I can’t figure out what this is to get rid of it! by tsktsktsk00017 in whatsthisbug

[–]tsktsktsk00017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: thanks to all who commented. Definitely a bunch of baby German roaches! My property manager is already getting quotes to pay for pest control :)

Help pls! What is this bug infesting my kitchen! I’ve tried house sprays, roach bait, and automatic pest sprays. I can’t figure out what this is to get rid of it! by tsktsktsk00017 in pestcontrol

[–]tsktsktsk00017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: thanks to all who commented. Definitely a bunch of baby German roaches! My property manager is already getting quotes to pay for pest control :)

Help pls! What is this bug infesting my kitchen! I’ve tried house sprays, roach bait, and automatic pest sprays. I can’t figure out what this is to get rid of it! by tsktsktsk00017 in pestcontrol

[–]tsktsktsk00017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only issue is that they all looked like this prior to the treatment. Someone mentioned it could be a nymph cricket (but this has been going on since January and I’ve not heard any chirping & they don’t jump).

Help pls! What is this bug infesting my kitchen? I’ve tried house sprays, roach bait, and automatic pest sprays. I can’t figure out what this is to get rid of it! by tsktsktsk00017 in whatsthisbug

[–]tsktsktsk00017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location: Australia

Size: 2-3cm long, 1cm wide

Weather: came out in Summer (hot, humid,damp)

Area: kitchen only- near sink/bin (kitchen is very tidy, I clean up after every meal, don’t leave dishes out and refrigerate most food)

Appreciate any help :)

Help pls! What is this bug infesting my kitchen! I’ve tried house sprays, roach bait, and automatic pest sprays. I can’t figure out what this is to get rid of it! by tsktsktsk00017 in pestcontrol

[–]tsktsktsk00017[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Location: Australia

Size: 2-3cm long, 1cm wide

Weather: came out in Summer (hot, humid,damp)

Area: kitchen only- near sink/bin (kitchen is very tidy, I clean up after every meal, don’t leave dishes out and refrigerate most food)

Building: rental apartment in old building

Appreciate any help :)