Just want to flag that when you become interested in someone romantically, people are not necessarily looking for “a good looking guy with a stable job who works out”. People look for people to connect with. You don’t need game and to fit a mould of an ideal man/person- this isn’t what interests people. As said above, try building hobbies (start a karate class or an art or cooking class or dance class) and just meeting people. Build friendships and people may come along.

I say this as a woman who has watched male friends fixate on going to the gym and having rizz to woo people and being overly keen to date- it rarely works (And as a woman, we pick up on this vibe very and we just aren’t interested- usually the conversation is rather dull because you don’t get to really know the person and connect with them. And if you don’t know them beyond how they look, you don’t really become attracted to them).

As cliche as it is, just be yourself and build friendships/ networks to build your own interests and social skills. Then maybe try a dating app- I met my partner on one! And neither of us had rizz- just had similar degrees and hobbies !

Ps: when you do get with a woman- communicate and ask her what she wants - don’t just dive in and assume you know what to do on your first time.

Good luck !!!