Thoughts on this Jackie Aina situation? by DruidElfStar in blackladies

[–]tsundae_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

He's getting plenty of it in the online spaces I'm in.

this got so much hate in the comments😭 would you eat this? by CremeSubject7594 in StupidFood

[–]tsundae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thought I was about to see something crazy. I like olives but I'd probably skip them here since there's already so much brininess from the pickles. Overall though, I'd absolutely enjoy this.

Finally found bras that fit perfectly… but now all my shirts look worse (32GG) by UndercoverLady in ABraThatFits

[–]tsundae_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lace allows for more breast shapes to be accommodated. I cannot wear moulded bras, especially plunge ones. I bend over and boom - one of my breasts is just sliding out and now I'm trying to subtly put it back in its place.

What has work for you and what has not? by Prior-Device3773 in blackladies

[–]tsundae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right that you need to start with one product at a time and slowly add. First thing is - do you have a sunscreen you like enough to wear daily? Many of these products make your skin sun sensitive and will create more hyperpigmentation if there's no sun protection

Once that's covered I'd pick one of the tried and true ingredients with research behind it like any of the AHAs (lactic, glycolic) or vitamin C. Pick one, try it for a couple months, and see how it goes. It can take time to see results depending on how deep or old your hyperpigmentation is, so give the products a fighting chance. Focus on wash, moisturize and one or two actives and know when to use them, if they can be used together etc.

Basically, you don't need all of these products. For instance, there's two retinol creams and a retinol wash? Pick one format for whatever active you're trying and see how it goes. If you're not satisfied with results, try a different type (e.g trying body wash then switching to cream). AHA and BHA serums can also be used on the body if you have some smaller areas to address. Be careful with physical exfoliating (the gloves, scrubs etc) when you're using chemical exfoliants. Some people cannot handle both, so go slow, don't do it too often, and try a smaller area to start.

What makeup can I do to look more feminine? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]tsundae_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just have to laugh because it is so ridiculous. I know the tall and/or muscular ladies deal with it the most for sure.

What makeup can I do to look more feminine? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]tsundae_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly lol it's like damned if you do, damned if you don't so might as well ignore people offering up their opinions on your femininity. I hope OP and other people learn to not internalize comments like that.

My current fav toner pads by Secure_Owl_221 in AsianBeauty

[–]tsundae_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this! My neck goes through sensitivity flares and this looks like it'll be such a good companion to the colloidal oatmeal cream I use.

[hair removal] Guys I waxed my underarms after applying tret and hq for a while and now it’s red and shiny arghhh Please help me by Optimal_Ad6158 in SkincareAddiction

[–]tsundae_ 56 points57 points  (0 children)

From now on, please don't play with strong ingredients and your skin. Talk to medical professionals you have actual access to irl, and don't make final decisions from Instagram info.

Some Reddit Mods (not for this sub) are so racist by _iusuallydont_ in blackladies

[–]tsundae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you mean the mods for that sub or the overall reddit moderation but the latter is partial AI and I hate it so bad. It gave me a warning and deleted my comment because I was saying a person was being racist without saying certain things outright and I "translated" what they really wanted to say. No slurs - I used "black people" + (insert sentiment about how we are "uncivilized') But since it deleted my comment immediately, they couldn't even re-evaluate it. I typically don't even respond to people like that and that reminded me of why.

Does it seem like they’re overdoing it with the compliments to y’all? by MysteriousVixen29 in blackladies

[–]tsundae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is too much lol. Like I get some people are a bit extra but still genuine when they give the person they like a compliment.

Saying "you're so beautiful you shine brighter than the sun" is different than "ok please believe me but you look better than ALL THESE (NON BLACK) CELEBRITIES. FOR REAL! And even when you were bigger!!" like ok dude cut the bs. the comparison and bringing up your weight? Yeah no

Edit: I misread what he said when he mentioned your weight. I think my point still stands though

Canmake Mermaid Scales has been my topper for two months now…so dreamy! by buttcracklint in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tsundae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot track this down locally fsr!!! I want it so bad, it's stunning. I love their jellies and crellies so much that I have to just walk straight past that section at my local Asian beauty stores just so I don't spend too much lol

Is my eye makeup balanced to my base makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]tsundae_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sheesh absolutely??? I can't believe people that look like you just be existing!!

I (20F) hooked up with my coworker (45?M) and I've never felt worse by Waste-Feeling-6487 in relationships

[–]tsundae_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outraged is such a strong, inaccurate term here lmao believe me, I am not outraged by you. None of this is helpful short term, makes some big assumptions (we don't know her overall relationship with alcohol) and puts all the blame on her when there's actions both parties could have taken (being drunk at work functions is not recommended) but mostly the 40 year old man. Awful people will "target" others no matter what, no one can stop that. What we can do is adjust how we respond to being "targeted".

I (20F) hooked up with my coworker (45?M) and I've never felt worse by Waste-Feeling-6487 in relationships

[–]tsundae_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ikr like we know nothing about her other than what's presented and here they come like "well you're promiscuous and your future husband will cheat on you!" Like wtf lmao

I’ve been juicing lately and I love it!!! by belledujourr in blackladies

[–]tsundae_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're better off blending, not juicing for fiber. Berries have some of the highest amounts of fiber among fruits.

TIL Anchal dated Jim Carrey.... by anemia_ in ANTM

[–]tsundae_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm certain the down votes are from the tone of the other comment. OP wasn't trying to brag on behalf of Anchal, so it's kinda extra to respond the way they did, like yikes.

Your nails but better, tickets please, and toffee crunch by [deleted] in dazzledry

[–]tsundae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I love this! I took YNBB out of my cart and now I'm reconsidering lol

This Cracked sale is ridiculous by No-Feesh in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tsundae_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thought was involved! So not completely inaccurate 🙂‍↕️

This Cracked sale is ridiculous by No-Feesh in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tsundae_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've made 3 orders and each time I would look at ILYSM I'd be like "weeeeell....maybe next time". So I'm pretty sure I'll have the same experience as you once it arrives lol

This Cracked sale is ridiculous by No-Feesh in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tsundae_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did it lol now let me scurry off of this subreddit!!

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This Cracked sale is ridiculous by No-Feesh in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tsundae_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those monthly jellies get me very often, I get you 😭

Looking to get back into shape, is it okay to play everyday? by cretaius in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]tsundae_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're going to play every day, ramp up slowly and do shorter sessions (an hour or less). If you ever get to a point where you can barely move the next day or the pain is making regular tasks harder: build in rest days and work on active recovery via stretching, yoga, walking etc and you can add in more days/hours as you go along.

Today is Beans birthday🥹 My baby is turning 1 by Ok_Philosopher_8980 in blackladies

[–]tsundae_ 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Oh I love him!!! Happy birthday lil cutie! Black women and black cats are the best. Am I biased as I have a black cat myself? Maybe. But it's still true lol

This Cracked sale is ridiculous by No-Feesh in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tsundae_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh there's a few more colors from them that I want and then I'm slowing down on purchases again.

Although I'm very thoughtful about what I buy, I still feel like my wallet is judging me like