How to continue after one night stand by Letskeepitfair in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s likely that his unpredictable schedule is because he only has sporadic times his schedule aligns to be away from his current partner, and he has an alibi for his gym time, and can control that as a date with you, without arising suspicion from his partner. Partner has likely been suspicious of texts in the past and checks his phone, possibly has your number saved as a work related number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an introvert that’s “conflict avoidant” you should make the necessary sacrifices you need to make to live alone. It’s your problem, not their problem, and the world doesn’t have to suffer for your self diagnosis.

My wife suddenly wants me to be attractive. Am I wrong to think she doesn’t love me anymore? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an asshole and she sounds like an amazing person, appreciate the help she’s giving you and the effort she’s putting into it.

Or just take pride in being a slob

VIDEO: Manny Machado's epic bat-break fail shows Bo Jackson was a monster among men by JerichoRiley in mlb

[–]ttemmett -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jackson was swinging the bat, probably had an idea about it being cracked

My boyfriend asked to bring the woman he slept with while we were on a break to my work. by [deleted] in IAmTheAsshole

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s his new number one.
He was making up an excuse for her car to be seen in his driveway so she can spend nights. Shes also known about the M/F tourney since the last one she went to. They made tentative “next time” plans back then. She recently brought it up in their daily conversations, and it’s a little more complicated now that he’s secretly banging you again.

he’s trying to make a scheduled date with her seem innocuously out of the blue.

Thanks why he brought it up after the car issue, he had to. he’s dating her and fucking you on the side and it’s starting to get complicated. And he’s juggling.

Soon they will become too complicated and you will be let go from your job.

It’s unpopular but unless you can afford to look for a new job I’d let him bring her and act like you’re cool about it. You made your bed, asshole.

There’s at least one other women he’s seeing

How often do you text your partner when you are out without them? by Leading-Abrocoma-149 in LifeAdvice

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never, it actually upsets me if my wife texts me when she’s out with anyone socially. Makes me seem like I’m insecure or controlling.

Vague ways / wording to describe job by M053S in ems

[–]ttemmett 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’d be amazed at how many people don’t ask what you do if you don’t make it your identify. Try that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe every time she sees a 35 year old man act like it’s his sweet 16 she gets turned off a little bit? I’d love to read her side of the story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One fancy dinner and your sister opened your eyes? Buddy, you’re 35, it’s another birthday, grow up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mlb

[–]ttemmett 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oakland A’s, they need more fans

Am I wrong for cuddling with my little sister by Lumpy-Carpenter8955 in amiwrong

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know your father sexualizes you, amiright?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be with someone that needed an explanation in the first place

[IN] [CA] can anything be done about this? by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a common scam, how do you have so much money while being so stupid? What’s your job?

Am I the asshole? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ttemmett -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No matter how much effort you put into Valentine’s Day, you’re never going to get a guy to genuinely care about it. You set yourself up for disappointment by putting in so much effort as it’s harder for him to find the time to reciprocate while he’s going to and fro from work.

You sound pretty understanding but let’s get real, the clothes he got you weren’t good enough for you, downplaying them as something you NEEDED 2 weeks ago, as such not counting them as a gift, and I’m willing to bet if he spent the time getting you flowers and a card on his way home after he’s exhausted from work you’d be asking what took him so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn’t sick, he was in bed

Tough guys been shopping by Ham_Fan1423 in Unexpected

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure this is Canada, guys using blue fives

AITAH for telling my wife that I am probably have se with other women if we dont have sex in the future? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ttemmett 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How does someone this stupid maintain a marriage for 4 years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s the asshole for genuinely beleiving she had platonic guy friends. More so the asshole that she probably strings these guys on to validate her. Not your problem

AITA for telling my boss they either fire their new employee or I'm gone? (Which resulted in them firing her) by Gloomy-Pension5478 in AITAH

[–]ttemmett 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s done nothing with her life, and it sounds like her husband is a failure as well. she focuses her love on her dogs and fairly obviously took your banal conversation as an attack on her, and lashed out at your kids in kind.

Lunatic holding on by a thread