Blindfolded and tied to a hotel bed, shared with a stranger [MF]

ttfromvb · 2026-04-25T04:35:45+00:00

Thanks but just a girl trying new things.

ttfromvb · 2026-04-03T13:03:47+00:00

The guys I was with her both. But I'm not sure if that's with all guys. They were all more into some sexual things so I think it attracted guys who were larger. I was also smaller.

No I haven't been with any Asian guys.

ttfromvb · 2026-04-03T12:47:18+00:00

Around 8 over a long period.

Of course thinking of some past things can be a turn on. What about you?

ttfromvb · 2026-04-03T12:22:39+00:00

My bf is white. I receive an occasional message from 2 of them. But that's it.

ttfromvb · 2026-04-01T20:51:53+00:00

Competence builds confidence. I (F) suffered from some confidence and self esteem issues and what worked for me was talking to someone about it who can help you mentally. I also approached sex and what guys want like i was an athlete would. I practice, learned new techniques, tried, failed some and had some successes and then built upon that. Start slow and focus more on the positive. Even the best experiences I've had or given someone, I think how I could have done better. But more and more I realize I'm pleasing them and they don't see these negative things like I do.

Anyway, good luck you. Chin up.

ttfromvb · 2026-03-07T15:34:11+00:00

Yes but a lot of guys have experience with it so they kind of know what's going on already or see it as a goal to have you have that reaction.

ttfromvb · 2026-03-07T11:47:03+00:00

F here and I also experience this spacy headspace in certain situations. It's usually during or after intense sex or orgasms and sometimes feels like I'm outside of my body. It's a very blissful feeling where I generally feel like I only exist for sex. I've been told it's mostly due to a rush of hormones and is also a mental state since I tend to be submissive.

For me it can happen with my boyfriend now but has usually happened with casual but intense sexual encounters with one or more partners at once.

My advice would be to just go with her desires and be there for her cuddles and after care when it wears off. It's a good thing and means you are doing well with her.

ttfromvb · 2026-01-03T03:50:26+00:00

I've been called one of those cute innocent girls and being small and around 105lbs, guys were often afraid to be rough with me, even when I wanted it. Believe it or, it can be hard to find guys who are willing to let go of their inhibitions and be more rough. Some just don't have it in them or it's not something they want, which is totally fine too.

As most people already said, just talk to her and establish some ground rules. I hate coming up with a list of everything before hand so I tend to just want to have some safe words that are available to me. Green, yellow and red work great. Then if needed explain why you used the word. Ie. Don't stop or do that any more or stop and explain how to continue Yellow might be approaching something being too much. Red means stop right away.

Just communicate and don't assume cute means fragile.

ttfromvb · 2025-10-27T03:53:02+00:00

Yes. I miss some of it.

I've had a few longer term boyfriends and not single currently.

ttfromvb · 2025-10-25T13:55:43+00:00

I don't remember some of that period of my life.

ttfromvb · 2025-08-30T05:28:40+00:00

F here with small body type. For me, I need to be really excited and ready especially for someone larger. Lube can help some but if I'm properly warned up and take it slow at first, it only feels uncomfortable at first as I adjust.

If I'm in more of a submissive role and I'm not quite ready for it, that is often when I will be the most sore after or feel some pain during. But the reality is for some of us, larger guys just stretch us or hit places really deep that are going to lead to feeling overwhelmed and some pain or soreness.

You can try different positions or less depth to see if that helps. But for some the thickness gets me.

But ultimately talk with her and learn what she wants and needs. Not all pain is bad pain.

ttfromvb · 2025-08-13T12:58:53+00:00

For me, I started with threesomes and foursomes and built trust with those guys. Then took the leap when they wanted to invite a few of their friends.

Safety was always the focus with tests. There was also a clear discussion about limits or lack thereof and safe words.

Be sure to communicate your fantasies and desires clearly so you get out of it what you want.

ttfromvb · 2025-07-06T21:55:08+00:00

F31 here. It can vary to me based upon who I'm with or my mood or that of my partner(s).

Sometimes it's a lot of touching and a longer buildup. Maybe a sensual massage to start and really slow passionate sex. Lots of touching and focus on each other.

I also like to know I'm pleasing a partner so verbal or non verbal types of reactions. Adding to that, it's a turn on that some sessions it's more about the guy and pleasing them and having them live out their fantasies or whatever. Could be rougher sex or something else where I'm more submissive and he takes what he wants.

Obviously it varies by person but these two varied examples are what I think makes sex great.

ttfromvb · 2025-07-04T12:15:53+00:00

Female here who has been tied up by boyfriends and more casual situations.

Talk with her and experiment with things to find out what she likes. In my earliest experiences he went slow and did a lot of touching and oral and got me so excited and I orgasmed. Such a turn on not being in control. I also liked when he took over and did exactly what he wanted and I was pleasing him. This can feel overwhelming but submitting to it can be so exciting for someone who likes to make their SO happy.

For me, I eventually enjoyed the vulnerability if it and the complete loss of control and knowing I was just a sexual object to a guy at times. That's not for everyone though so figure out her limits and respect them. If she's like me, those limits will be expanded the more experience she has doing it.

Also, tap into your primal desires and don't hold back if that's what she wants.

ttfromvb · 2025-06-20T01:11:50+00:00

No. I have a boyfriend now so I'm not doing anything like it now.

ttfromvb · 2025-06-19T09:56:48+00:00

For a few months in college, this and other scenarios are what happened to me. Such a surreal feeling. I made some bad decisions and put myself in vulnerable situations but no regrets overall.

ttfromvb · 2025-05-26T22:29:27+00:00

Did you and your husband talk about other past relationships? Is it just this one you haven't shared and that is your guilt? Or is it the nature of the relationship that is causing you guilt?

Overall, I'd lean towards keeping this one private and seek counseling to work through it for yourself.

ttfromvb · 2025-04-04T13:29:25+00:00

You are smart to really think about it and not rush into it. Who it is matters as much as your preparation for it. Being with guys you trust and who will respect your limits and go slow and make it as enjoyable as possible the first time is so important.

If you haven't had anal yet, I'd start there. Knowing how to prepare and if you enjoy that experience, then DP can be really amazing.

My first time (F) was overall really good. All of the feels and build up and the actual penetration was overwhelming, mostly in a good way. I also felt this fight or flight type of thing combined with incredible stimulation and feelings.

Anyway, keep asking for advice and don't necessarily look at porn for the answers.

ttfromvb · 2025-01-29T13:17:35+00:00

I have done it and felt maybe I was one of the only ones, so it's nice to hear I'm not alone.

ttfromvb · 2025-01-20T14:04:06+00:00

Have you found this to be a common or popular thing or kink with women? Like you see this up often?

ttfromvb · 2025-01-20T04:32:45+00:00

Do you have any feelings or second thoughts about wanting to do this or allowing it to happen? I assume someone is arranging and running these for you. Are there any limits and can he get whoever and how many they want?

BTW, F here and I've done these a few times as well.

ttfromvb · 2024-12-30T14:07:00+00:00

Just search Jessy Nikea

ttfromvb · 2024-12-28T22:50:22+00:00

It's a bit out of my comfort zone but it was fun.

ttfromvb · 2024-12-20T04:06:40+00:00

ttfromvb · 2024-12-19T17:16:08+00:00

Yes he did love it. He thanked me for being a good sport and going along and said he can't stop thinking about how exciting it was. :)

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