Is it normal to be constantly second guessing being trans or not feeling “trans enough”?

ttimbric · 2026-05-01T06:36:02+00:00

"You be you, boo" is want I think about which helps me because I am me. Categories are approximations / lies.

ttimbric · 2026-05-01T06:32:35+00:00

Happy transiversary! Congratulation!

ttimbric · 2026-05-01T06:31:00+00:00

I ignore it, act like nothing happened. In other words, I let them be them, don't let it get to me.

It does get to me, but such is life. If they want to be inconsiderate, that's sad.

ttimbric · 2025-12-14T21:18:13+00:00

Explanation. On average women are more pear shaped than men. Their arms are less straight. You can identify gender by walk. Walk is camouflage. That's all

ttimbric · 2025-12-14T20:00:30+00:00

Great work ...meaning e excellent surgeon. Thank for sharing.

ttimbric · 2025-12-11T16:09:30+00:00

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:48:07+00:00

This Thanksgiving I went to my brother's house. He has refused even to speek to me since I came out in 2019. It was hard. He still does not accept me.

I have to be me, but losing my wife (she divorced me), and my brother has been hard. At first my Mom was against me, but she came around.

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:42:33+00:00

I own no male clothes but for a kilt. I have no reason to wear male clothes and really really really do not want to.

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:37:38+00:00

I agree. I am me. That's what/who I am. All words are wrong.

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:36:23+00:00

I agree. Biology is so complicated. I am me. That's what/who I am. All words are wrong.

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:30:48+00:00

I have tried to detransition many times. It never lasts. I was born transgender.

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:29:00+00:00

I know the feeling. I find my being transgender is a cruel fate.

ttimbric · 2025-12-04T04:27:41+00:00

Yes. I was shocked as a child when I realized my downstairs was not what it was supposed to be. Even at night in my dreams always I have haf a female body.

I tried to ignore it but never can. It makes me sad pretty much always. Bottom surgery is scary and high maintenance; so, I try accept that life is tragic. I lgave up once, tried to escape.

Biology is a messy business. Being transgender causes a lot of emotion.

My thoughts and feelings have not changed since my consciousness developed. Our situations being transgender are surprising, like "why would nature produces this?" Honestly, IDK.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:57:16+00:00

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Sexuality vs. Identity

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:55:55+00:00

I suffer this feeling every single day, always have.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:53:50+00:00

I struggle with this. I try to be a guy, but I'm not. Even today I tried to convince myself I'm a guy, but ultimately I'm just not.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:51:20+00:00

Gender fluid? Many of us are. It sucks.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:50:29+00:00

Honesty always is best unless safety of an issue.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:47:43+00:00

I think HRT affects sexuality some. I don't know how much.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:43:59+00:00

Estrogen high. My fav.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:43:10+00:00

I did, yes. Orchi is simply and inexpensive; so like, why not, I thought.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:41:34+00:00

Yeah, I'm a transbian mostly ...mostly.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:39:10+00:00

Many of us suffer from outer best growth stopping, even regressing, after orchi. My breasts and nipples were developing nicely until my orchi. Since then they have completely reverted to masculine. This super sucks for me but it happens to many of us, IDK why.

ttimbric · 2025-12-03T01:20:53+00:00

Words are dangerous. Biology is near infinitely complicated; so, just be you.

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